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Well that read more than I wanted it too. The silage is huge, but as has been discussed it needs to be the right environment (or does it?). I went to a fundraiser and was pleasantly surprised by the amount of women there. Babes at that. I have been working so much lately and have barely gone out at all, so I'm way out of practice of talking to babes. I have terrible approach anxiety that for me the only way to beat is through inertia. One conversation feeds on another. There's more to it than that but its a long story and this is about pheromones
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This night I wasn't in the mood but I promised I'd be there and with a donation from XS. I chose impaXS because I figured people would stay away from me, but it didn't work that way. Before long I was chatting it up with everyone and yet I really didn't have much to say. What I experienced can only be explained as a pheromone induced social proof generator.
My mood was blah, but unfortunetely this worked in favor of impaXS. You know this comes over very strong like a sexual beast focused on one thing and one thing only. Almost perverse! I had left my phone in the Jeep as I would have been looking at it all night instead so after an appropriate time had elapsed I asked a young lady for the time. She asked me in reply, if I was going somewhere? Conversation started from there and while nothing became of that an interesting pattern did emerge.
We have impaXS putting off this highly sexual I wanna screw you right here, right now signature that is very intense with a powerful direct focus on such. My mood was completely opposite as in I don't want to be here, yeah you're hot, but so are 90% of the babes here, so who cares. The two of these combined worked in my favor, and until further testing is conducted I can only assume, was a catalyst for a vacuum of powerful influence. It didn't just happen though and I wasn't socially aware of it until I asked the time. That babe was keen on the opportunity to start a conversation with the oversexed disinterested guy. Our conversation was abruptly ended by what I guess to be a boyfriend who was not having any of it.
This actually feeds into the theory that this young lady was alone at the bar for some time and while she could of been anywhere she chose to stand there by me, the disinterested loner. Within minutes of me speaking the guy was there pulling her away. At first it didn't make sense to me as it really was an abrupt ending. Could he really be that jealous and why not keep her by him if he was?
These types of interactions continued where a girl attending the event with a guy typically ended within a few minutes and always by the guy interrupting. Besides the people I knew there only one guy, running solo himself, kept a conversation with me. He had a lot to say about every woman there being this or that, followed by football likes and hates and guns and other "guy" stuff. When I reevaluated the evening he was disinterested in being there but seemed to make a connection to me.
As for other women attending there seemed to be a steady stream to the bar after the first conversation. It was a really long bar and while the place can hold at least a couple hundred easily, there were probably only about 50 people. Guys approached the bar at either end (I was in the middle) including when with a female. On the other hand females always came to the middle by myself, except when the other guy was there, and always made it a point to speak to me. Even the same females that had previously been there with a guy on either end. By going to either end, with me in the middle, it was an awkward move to clearly avoid me.
Now normally this would have worked out good as I was really not in the mood to talk. I didn't really care if people saw me as creepy or awkward as chances are I'd never see these people again anyway. If I did, perceptions can be changed easily enough with some social magic. It wasn't happening that way though and became a cloud that consumed the souls of women, except gingers, because, well because gingers don't have a soul and will steal yours. Don't get me wrong though, I do not discriminate when it comes to race, religion, eye color, height, hair color, big boobs, little boobs, curves, whatever... KateD and goddessoflove can both attest to that.
I do have a few must haves though, but that's another post
So yeah, right now the working theory (an untested hypothesis) is the more disinterested in the women you are around with impaXS the more it works in your favor. Which is why in clubs it might act the same way. Hits are probably coming because you were interested in somebody else.
.This night I wasn't in the mood but I promised I'd be there and with a donation from XS. I chose impaXS because I figured people would stay away from me, but it didn't work that way. Before long I was chatting it up with everyone and yet I really didn't have much to say. What I experienced can only be explained as a pheromone induced social proof generator.
My mood was blah, but unfortunetely this worked in favor of impaXS. You know this comes over very strong like a sexual beast focused on one thing and one thing only. Almost perverse! I had left my phone in the Jeep as I would have been looking at it all night instead so after an appropriate time had elapsed I asked a young lady for the time. She asked me in reply, if I was going somewhere? Conversation started from there and while nothing became of that an interesting pattern did emerge.
We have impaXS putting off this highly sexual I wanna screw you right here, right now signature that is very intense with a powerful direct focus on such. My mood was completely opposite as in I don't want to be here, yeah you're hot, but so are 90% of the babes here, so who cares. The two of these combined worked in my favor, and until further testing is conducted I can only assume, was a catalyst for a vacuum of powerful influence. It didn't just happen though and I wasn't socially aware of it until I asked the time. That babe was keen on the opportunity to start a conversation with the oversexed disinterested guy. Our conversation was abruptly ended by what I guess to be a boyfriend who was not having any of it.
This actually feeds into the theory that this young lady was alone at the bar for some time and while she could of been anywhere she chose to stand there by me, the disinterested loner. Within minutes of me speaking the guy was there pulling her away. At first it didn't make sense to me as it really was an abrupt ending. Could he really be that jealous and why not keep her by him if he was?
These types of interactions continued where a girl attending the event with a guy typically ended within a few minutes and always by the guy interrupting. Besides the people I knew there only one guy, running solo himself, kept a conversation with me. He had a lot to say about every woman there being this or that, followed by football likes and hates and guns and other "guy" stuff. When I reevaluated the evening he was disinterested in being there but seemed to make a connection to me.
As for other women attending there seemed to be a steady stream to the bar after the first conversation. It was a really long bar and while the place can hold at least a couple hundred easily, there were probably only about 50 people. Guys approached the bar at either end (I was in the middle) including when with a female. On the other hand females always came to the middle by myself, except when the other guy was there, and always made it a point to speak to me. Even the same females that had previously been there with a guy on either end. By going to either end, with me in the middle, it was an awkward move to clearly avoid me.
Now normally this would have worked out good as I was really not in the mood to talk. I didn't really care if people saw me as creepy or awkward as chances are I'd never see these people again anyway. If I did, perceptions can be changed easily enough with some social magic. It wasn't happening that way though and became a cloud that consumed the souls of women, except gingers, because, well because gingers don't have a soul and will steal yours. Don't get me wrong though, I do not discriminate when it comes to race, religion, eye color, height, hair color, big boobs, little boobs, curves, whatever... KateD and goddessoflove can both attest to that.
I do have a few must haves though, but that's another post
So yeah, right now the working theory (an untested hypothesis) is the more disinterested in the women you are around with impaXS the more it works in your favor. Which is why in clubs it might act the same way. Hits are probably coming because you were interested in somebody else.
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