How do you effectively build and maintain a roster of men?

[Mysticbeauty]

Oh and some of you are posting dating sites. I met my man in Spiritual Singles. (the guy before that I met on MeetMindful) I also was talking to quite a few guys on there before I met him and it took the edge off. The man before him we had a "connection" and I got really hung up on that. Connection is important, but getting on that site reminded me I make lots of connections it's what I'm naturally good at. It really helped me realize I can make lots of deep connections with men and women and it doesn't mean I need them to be a lifelong thing. Some people are here just for a season. It helped me from getting too overwhelmed with my feelings and falling hard too fast before they actually showed that they were worthy of it.

[Mysticbeauty]

You’re motivating me. I don’t have any targets currently but a big part of me wants to delete all my dating apps. I just have OKC and bumble. But it’s boding and I’m only on for attention. I know the guys I like aren’t on there but always have a glimmer of hope. It just doesn’t work. Instead I’ll focus on just putting myself out there more in person. I don’t have a 9-5 so I have plenty of time to explore new places and hang out in cute lobbies and bars.

Good of luck with that target tho!

Yes cheap women have ruined it. We as women teach the world how to love us and they’ve been setting some bad standards and now I’m called high maintenance because I say no to dive bar meetups (I don’t even drink ugh)

US women with higher standards just need to keep supporting one another and schooling these other women.