Hey there Mert,
It's just a suggestion but you have the general idea down. The concept is to use it on and off, ideally in the same settings, to gauge the differences around you. It's okay if you use P86 first, but understand that it's going to be subtle effects.
I also think you're confusing beautifying effects with attractiveness. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and never has a truer statement been made. Everybody is beautiful and has value to offer, but we only recognize the beauty in others as a projection of what we ourselves find within ourselves. To me being physically attractive is more about genes but again also is subjective to our personal preferences.
Personally, I like physically fit petite girls with Mediterranean skin tones and blue or hazel eyes the most attractive. Regardless of how much XSP79 (in my opinion a much better beautifier), or XSP86 I wear is going to make a larger woman attractive to me physically. That certainly is not to denigrate anyone's taste. A very close friend of mine loves bigger women and his wife is wonderful and I totally love her. She is beautiful and her personality is incredible but I'm not attracted to her.
Pheromones amplify those aspects and create an aura but will never change free will. We like what we like and that's okay. Pheromones still create an aura of attraction to help flip switches for others. I'm sure there have been instances in which you found yourself attracted to someone you normally wouldn't. This individual triggered the attraction switches in you, knowingly or unknowingly, but you still have to act on those impulses.
I know it sounds conflicting in itself but maybe think of it this way. Someone you find physically attractive, but they are ego-centric, shallow, not a very nice person, or whatever traits you find unappealing is in your view. You might approach but then discover all those unappealing traits turning your attraction off. Hopefully, if you have enough value in yourself as a person, you will reject the physical attraction. On the other hand, you have someone who is less physically attractive, but they have a genuine smile and zest for life. They are funny and adventurous and they dance like no one is watching. I love that and will choose that person more often than not. The pheromones are the latter example here. They make that smile more genuine, the funny and adventurous more appealing.
Pheromones don't really make people more beautiful in the physical realm, they bring out the internal value of beauty. It ties it all back to defining beauty. How are you defining beauty? What makes a person beautiful to you? If the answer is physically fit petite girls with Mediterranean skin tones and blue or hazel eyes pheromones will not help you at all.
Hoping this helps a little. Oh and this is written in general terms, not about you specifically because I honestly have no idea if any of this applies to your character although I suspect it does not. Your willingness to post in the community seeking advice suggests you are way more value-driven than vanity-driven.
It's just a suggestion but you have the general idea down. The concept is to use it on and off, ideally in the same settings, to gauge the differences around you. It's okay if you use P86 first, but understand that it's going to be subtle effects.
I also think you're confusing beautifying effects with attractiveness. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and never has a truer statement been made. Everybody is beautiful and has value to offer, but we only recognize the beauty in others as a projection of what we ourselves find within ourselves. To me being physically attractive is more about genes but again also is subjective to our personal preferences.
Personally, I like physically fit petite girls with Mediterranean skin tones and blue or hazel eyes the most attractive. Regardless of how much XSP79 (in my opinion a much better beautifier), or XSP86 I wear is going to make a larger woman attractive to me physically. That certainly is not to denigrate anyone's taste. A very close friend of mine loves bigger women and his wife is wonderful and I totally love her. She is beautiful and her personality is incredible but I'm not attracted to her.
Pheromones amplify those aspects and create an aura but will never change free will. We like what we like and that's okay. Pheromones still create an aura of attraction to help flip switches for others. I'm sure there have been instances in which you found yourself attracted to someone you normally wouldn't. This individual triggered the attraction switches in you, knowingly or unknowingly, but you still have to act on those impulses.
I know it sounds conflicting in itself but maybe think of it this way. Someone you find physically attractive, but they are ego-centric, shallow, not a very nice person, or whatever traits you find unappealing is in your view. You might approach but then discover all those unappealing traits turning your attraction off. Hopefully, if you have enough value in yourself as a person, you will reject the physical attraction. On the other hand, you have someone who is less physically attractive, but they have a genuine smile and zest for life. They are funny and adventurous and they dance like no one is watching. I love that and will choose that person more often than not. The pheromones are the latter example here. They make that smile more genuine, the funny and adventurous more appealing.
Pheromones don't really make people more beautiful in the physical realm, they bring out the internal value of beauty. It ties it all back to defining beauty. How are you defining beauty? What makes a person beautiful to you? If the answer is physically fit petite girls with Mediterranean skin tones and blue or hazel eyes pheromones will not help you at all.
Hoping this helps a little. Oh and this is written in general terms, not about you specifically because I honestly have no idea if any of this applies to your character although I suspect it does not. Your willingness to post in the community seeking advice suggests you are way more value-driven than vanity-driven.
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