Divorce???

[Ragnar Lothbrook]

don't have much time right now. But, I was served divorce papers, and restraining order for our assets on Saturday. Then we talked on the phone for a couple hours. She invited me over. We talked for an hour or so, then had sex. Then on Sunday she said she had to have it, and she came over and we did it, and we did it. I don't know what's going on. She said doing this paper work, was the first time she cried and really thought about the situation. So, I think after a year we're finally on the mend,but I have to get these court papers cleared up. We talked about future stuff together- short and long term. I know it wasn't just sex, but PXS has been at play here for a long time. This is the abridged version because I have to get to work.

[knowledgeispower]

don't have much time right now. But, I was served divorce papers, and restraining order for our assets on Saturday. Then we talked on the phone for a couple hours. She invited me over. We talked for an hour or so, then had sex. Then on Sunday she said she had to have it, and she came over and we did it, and we did it. I don't know what's going on. She said doing this paper work, was the first time she cried and really thought about the situation. So, I think after a year we're finally on the mend,but I have to get these court papers cleared up. We talked about future stuff together- short and long term. I know it wasn't just sex, but PXS has been at play here for a long time. This is the abridged version because I have to get to work.

Wow! Maybe the court papers are making her realize she still has feelings for you. Have you guys officially decided at this point to get the divorce or is she open to getting back? Just asking because from the looks of it she doesn't want to leave.

[C_Kong18]

don't have much time right now. But, I was served divorce papers, and restraining order for our assets on Saturday. Then we talked on the phone for a couple hours. She invited me over. We talked for an hour or so, then had sex. Then on Sunday she said she had to have it, and she came over and we did it, and we did it. I don't know what's going on. She said doing this paper work, was the first time she cried and really thought about the situation. So, I think after a year we're finally on the mend,but I have to get these court papers cleared up. We talked about future stuff together- short and long term. I know it wasn't just sex, but PXS has been at play here for a long time. This is the abridged version because I have to get to work.

Sorry to see this Ragnar. I am in a similar boat right now. There's too much fight in my heart to lay down and give up 11 years of a life well led. Keep your head up and insert other motivational clichés here. I know I need to use them all at times to convince myself to not just give up. Again, it's nice to see this community rally around their own, new and veteran. will keep you in thoughts and prayers.

[Loquisimo]

What do you think guys, is the reason that most of divorces or separations is done by the female side? It is very rare, men go to ask for a divorce, perhaps in really really serious cases that is needed.

[Loquisimo]

Think, marriage in general should be done, only if both really 1- understand the meaning of a marriage. So, get marriage just because is a tradition, is a mistake. Nowadays is a tradition the divorce too.

2- Look at the family of the woman: Is coming her from a family were parents are married together? in her family aunts, grand mother, mothers, has been divorced?

3- Look at the friends of the woman, look at the idols she has. What kind of programs she watch on tv?

4-If want to get married, I think the best is to attend to any sort of christian church, probably many people will be happy to explain the meaning. But also you will be committed to continue in the church, if want to keep the marriage on.

As you can see, is very very difficult to find a proper woman to get married. That's why people don't want to get marry nowadays, marriage doesn't mean nothing to society.

It's possible to get together with someone, without a marriage, but the most prudent is not having children, because you need to have clear that this union it can broke in any time. More than 8 years, is difficult to last.

The way to avoid a divorce, is before the marriage.

[Ragnar Lothbrook]

The way to avoid a divorce, is before the marriage.

Awesome advice Loquisimo . Thanks for chiming in.