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Maybe This is not pheromones related but I would like to know if someone here has experiences Trying to get over and ex That I’m still really obsessed about him. I do realise that it’s completely irrational but I just can’t help thinking about him all the time.any suggestions?
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Maybe he used imprinting mones when he was with you?
Well, quick suggestion: because you keep thinking about him all the time, perhaps you make yourself busier or doing more activities such as joining gym, or participating in social gathering more. That would help to shift your focus to the activity instead of your ex.PXS: Taboo, Xist, Evolve, Cohesion, Ascend (oil), SOB, Glow, Celebrity, Crush, Love Boat, PSE
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Not that I know. But I really liked the way he smelled. I’ve been trying to stay busy and dating and has not worked.Comment
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What is it you keep remembering, was it a particular behavior or was it a certain emotion you felt?Comment
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Both. He pretended to be a
friend for a while, We
fucked and he vanished... I miss his friendship but I know he is a player. I miss him anyways and I kinda hate that he here everything he wants in life. Why this seems to happens? Like bad people hets his way all the time?Comment
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Interesting conflicts. You miss him and hate him at the same time? That may seem irrational but I assure you that obsession and resentment are close cousins. Another emotion you described is envy. It's a bit different than jealousy over just things. Envy is about wanting to be that person or to be in their place. The place is having what you want but you don't want to be judged as bad.
Your obsession isn't really over him, it is about justice. "Bad people get what they want all the time" FIrst lets get rid of the word all. Bad people do not get what they want ALL the time. Can you think of and Bad people that didn't get what they wanted?
And a second thought is about the word bad. They say beauty is in the eye of the beholder, well the same goes for good and bad. If you are not talking about pure evil malevolence, one person good can be another's bad and vice-versa. Can you think of anything in your own life that you once thought was bad but now seems to be good? For instance, I was taught sex was bad but once I tried it, it thought it was good.
Even if this didn't help I'll stick with the idea that the obsession is not about the man but about the things he represents or conflicts. Try separating them.Comment
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For me, only time and music therapy works. I start out with a playlist about letting someone go and eventually move on to a playlist with songs about deserving better.
For example:
Kiss My Grits songs:
Diablo - Simon Curtis (original 8Bit Heart version)
You F O - Stela Cole
Ugly Heart - G.R.L.
Sorry Not Sorry - Demi Lovato
Part of Me - Katy Perry
Good as Hell - Lizzo
Hell No - Ingrid Michaelson
Gonna Get Over You - Sara Bareilles (love this video)
Since U Been Gone - Kelly Clarkson
Truth Hurts - Lizzo
I Deserve Better songs:
I Love Me - Meghan Trainor
Soulmate - Lizzo
Makin' A Move - Lady Bri
Wonder Woman - Lion Babe
Dust My Shoulders Off - Jane Zhang
Worship - Lizzo
Dime - Rachel Crow
Confident - Demi Lovato
Juice - Lizzo
Treat Myself - Meghan Trainor
Bliss, Celebrity, Comply, Connections, Engage, Fairytale, Fantasy, Girlfriend, Goddess, Limitless, Love Boat, Mascot, Outspoken, Sport, Sweetness, Thinker, Vibe, Xist4w, XS189, XSP74.Comment
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Music is a wonderful BalmComment
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My bad how dare I assume a gender in this day and age shame in me. Well my advice still standsPheromone XS
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Spray: Xist, Evolve, cohesion, sobComment
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time for you to move to Alabama PrimComment
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In my spare time I write screenplays for Dr, Phil. They don't always work out well though
JK lol
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girl i completely understand what you're going through been there done that. but i try to tell myself everyday that if it wasn't meant to be then it wasn't meant to be. i try to tell myself that i deserve better than that. you have to know you're worth. its not easy trust me i do have my days where i think about him but i try not to. i know he didnt care about me and thats okay cause i know my worth and i know that i deserve better than that. you just have to occupy your mind and keep busy. what i do is listen to music, or
spend time with my family and friends. you just gotta stay positive. theres plenty of fish in the sea you just have to be patient until you find the right one. maybe the right one will find his way to you. he took a loss and you took a win thats how i try to see it. but stay stong. you got this 
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“Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life and you will call it fate.” - JungComment
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*me assuming* maybe she emotionally placed a title on the relationship before it evolved to the potential she thought it could be? My friend did the same thing. A little f*ck boi she was talking to she thought that their friendship would evolve into potential relationship. They never had sex but when he hurt ???? her feelings with his asshole tactics... She cried over him like they were dating, her emotions attached to him on a deeper level than they actually were label ???? wise.
Guys will do the whole alluding to a potential relationship verbiage “talk”, while knowing good and well he just wanted to get her vulnerable enough on an emotional level so she could have her guard down just enough to make it seem like the sex had meaning and substance when it was all just “talk”.PXS (FB 10ml): Babe, Bitch(XS124), Celebrity/W, Comply/U(xs199), DM+(Spray), Engage/U, Fantasy, Girlfriend, Goddess, Happiness/U, Madame, Mascot/U, Naked Gun(XS146), Outspoken/U, NENO(12.5 mcg), PSEL/W, Sexy Confidence, Sweetness/W, XSP-H, XSR32, XSP86, XSP96(2x), XS189/w
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