Pet Peeves!

[Cheerio]

Yesss, except for the 3rd one, all of those are my pet peeves as well

How dare you disagree with me!

I get so grossed out when people belch or when some has a nasty smelling ass fart...like ewww stop.

Or when they fart... while you're in the middle of yawning or saying something and it goes right into your mouth, lmfao.

People who want everything done in their way and get upset when you do something slight different

Don't attack me like this, pls.

People who constantly correct your grammar...like if you understood me well enough to correct me, then you should stop correcting me.

Lmao, I do this to my sisters but only bc I don't want them out here looking stupid.

People who try to intimidate/bully you at work because they are miserable fucks.

& then the pheros put them right back in their places!

[MostHoly]

We all have things that bother us about other people, what are your pet peeves?

Mine are:
- People who are extremely loud in the morning
- People who chew very loud + with their mouths open
- Because we are adults now, I can't handle people who don't spell their words out when they're texting me and most times, they just remove only one letter.
For example, "I have to go to wrk." Why couldn't you just spell work?
- People who speak very loudly in places that are supposed to be quiet, or even if the place doesn't necessarily have to be quiet, if you notice that everyone else is speaking at a normal/low tone, don't come in being loud!

What are yours?

OMGoddess! CHEWING NOISES! I could smack people whne I hear them chew. As a matter of fact I could smack myself in the face when I'm alone and here my own chewing. Apparently it's genetic and called misophonia. Lucky us

[Phaethon]

This GIF reminds me to my niece, it's 100% her

[Cheerio]

OMGoddess! CHEWING NOISES! I could smack people whne I hear them chew. As a matter of fact I could smack myself in the face when I'm alone and here my own chewing. Apparently it's genetic and called misophonia. Lucky us

Wait, loud chewing is genetic? That's so interesting!
I just thought children pick it up when they see other people chewing that way.

[MostHoly]

Genetics babe

[Oncearound]

Folks that use speaker phone in public.

When waiting on your order (say at Starbucks) and people stand in front of the "pick-up" area. That counter is small and you aren't the only person here sweetheart, so don't get your panties in a wad when I loudly say excuse me, because you are so self absorbed and nobody exist beside you.

You've been waiting in line for 10 mins and you still don't know what you want to order? Well get out of line till you do. Stop wasting my time.

[Cheerio]

That counter is small and you aren't the only person here sweetheart, so don't get your panties in a wad when I loudly say excuse me, because you are so self absorbed and nobody exist beside you.

Oh my goodness! This can apply to people walking on the sidewalks in places like Manhattan!

Oh & people who are walking and using their phone, not watching where they are going. I purposely walk right towards them or I just stand there until they look up... if they ever do.

[Mysticbeauty]

Oh my goodness! This can apply to people walking on the sidewalks in places like Manhattan!

Oh & people who are walking and using their phone, not watching where they are going. I purposely walk right towards them or I just stand there until they look up... if they ever do.

Hahaha that would be funny to see

[OutspokenOne]

People who cuss in every sentence...like I can have a habit of cussing but not in every sentence

[Cheerio]

People who cuss in every sentence...like I can have a habit of cussing but not in every sentence

Agreed. So not classy.

[Mysticbeauty]

People who cuss in every sentence...like I can have a habit of cussing but not in every sentence

Yeah it's just lazy. It's like get a damn thesaurus or something, there are a bunch of other words to use!

[Mysticbeauty]

Btw MostHoly that is the cutest chewing picture. Haha

[NuTrix]

Pet peeve:
Just because I do something differently than you doesn't make my way wrong. It makes it different. UG!

[OutspokenOne]

Pet peeve:
Just because I do something differently than you doesn't make my way wrong. It makes it different. UG!

As someone who almost 25, I'm starting to realize a lot of adults act this way.

[NuTrix]

As someone who almost 25, I'm starting to realize a lot of adults act this way.

I don't know when people grow into it, or if they all do, lol, but it IS weird that it would even need to be explained that there are multiple ways of accomplishing something and that they can all be efficient even if they are different and that MY way doesn't HAVE to be YOUR way. Grown people should already understand this, yes? Weeeeeell...

[Julia]

Nutrix, I agree with you ????. I’m a lead intuitive personality and my partner is a 62 year old sensor, very traditional! He does almost everything by the book and thinks I’m wierd for doing things differently. I *know* how to save time, save money, find the shortcuts, novel ideas and much more etc., etc. I’ve noticed my intuitive type friends value and recognize these qualities whereas he finds these things suspicious and untrustworthy in others who are intuitive and finds me just plain weird sometimes. ????

[NuTrix]

Nutrix, I agree with you ????. I’m a lead intuitive personality and my partner is a 62 year old sensor, very traditional! He does almost everything by the book and thinks I’m wierd for doing things differently. I *know* how to save time, save money, find the shortcuts, novel ideas and much more etc., etc. I’ve noticed my intuitive type friends value and recognize these qualities whereas he finds these things suspicious and untrustworthy in others who are intuitive and finds me just plain weird sometimes. ????

OHMYGAAAAAAAWD, Do I SO understand you!!! How many times do I joke that I *know* stuff. How many times have I completely baffled him by saying I totally see where he's coming from and then confuse him by not conceding to do things the way he does, lol. I get that something works for him a particular way and why, but I'm not him and I plain old don't want to do it that way For me, my way is better for me, and everything is still accomplished in good order - just by a different path. If the end result is the same, what difference the path we take to get there?
Early on in our relationship he once spent the better part of an evening on a particular topic, on and off, trying to understand why if I understood and agreed with his "way" then why would I not do it the same. Like you, now I am occasionally just weird like that

[Julia]

OHMYGAAAAAAAWD, Do I SO understand you!!! How many times do I joke that I *know* stuff. How many times have I completely baffled him by saying I totally see where he's coming from and then confuse him by not conceding to do things the way he does, lol. I get that something works for him a particular way and why, but I'm not him and I plain old don't want to do it that way For me, my way is better for me, and everything is still accomplished in good order - just by a different path. If the end result is the same, what difference the path we take to get there?
Early on in our relationship he once spent the better part of an evening on a particular topic, on and off, trying to understand why if I understood and agreed with his "way" then why would I not do it the same. Like you, now I am occasionally just weird like that

YES, YES, YES!!!

i have experienced this ????

In addition I find sensor males (and nfp’s) to be extremely charismatic but when it comes to their ways of thinking about females they tend to think if you see where they are coming from or agree with them then you automatically should follow them, their ways, their games etc. into submission and their is no other way. LOL ????

[NuTrix]

YES, YES, YES!!!

i have experienced this ????

In addition I find sensor males (and nfp’s) to be extremely charismatic but when it comes to their ways of thinking about females they tend to think if you see where they are coming from or agree with them then you automatically should follow them, their ways, their games etc. into submission and their is no other way. LOL ????

Bwahaaaa! Oh my yes! In the instance I described, he was trying so hard not to be mad but it was so obvious that he believed I was being completely irrational Do you know how hard it is to NOT giggle? I felt so bad that he was frustrated and yet I found it so funny that he couldn't let it go!

[Julia]

Bwahaaaa! Oh my yes! In the instance I described, he was trying so hard not to be mad but it was so obvious that he believed I was being completely irrational Do you know how hard it is to NOT giggle? I felt so bad that he was frustrated and yet I found it so funny that he couldn't let it go!

It is too funny until they try and get mean with it. In the beginning of our relationship he couldn’t understand why I wouldn’t blindly follow him when his logic made no sense to me. He would get frustrated at my not following his limited ways of thinking which where completely sexist and outdated. No if you try and play this game on me to try and get me to chase you, apologize, neg me so you can fantasize you are lowering my worth so I feel better about you ????, tell me men prefer xyz female types passively in conversations (younger, thinner, taller etc). I see right thru them and I’m not giving you the reaction you are expecting, SORRY!!!

I know your game or your intention even before you know your own.

I feel we are together because my intolerance of his BS has forced him to just be himself, who he is and as he says to me on a daily basis “you’ve helped me to become a better man.”

With my partner he is an extraordinarily intelligent man w an IQ in the 140’s but sometimes I see young men who try their games and bs on me and on other females and they are so blatantly obvious I feel embarrassed for them! I feel their is a deeply sexist streak in many males in combination with a massive ego and lowered intelligence levels when they assume they can behave like this and women will take it. I want to know which females are stupid enough to fall for this BS.

we broke up for some time because their where times in the beginning of our relationship where I felt I was dating his game and not him. When he came back into my life he was 100 ???? himself, that’s when things got really good.

[NuTrix]

I know your game or your intention even before you know your own.

I feel we are together because my intolerance of his BS has forced him to just be himself, who he is and as he says to me on a daily basis “you’ve helped me to become a better man.”

I love it when mine tells me this.

It's proof that we're growing, that it isn't all about them and their perceptions, and that they see our value and contributions as a benefit to their enrichment as human beings. It's a really good feeling when you're in that place

[Julia]

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I love it when mine tells me this.

It's proof that we're growing, that it isn't all about them and their perceptions, and that they see our value and contributions as a benefit to their enrichment as human beings. It's a really good feeling when you're in that place

Yes, it’s a truly Higher Vibrational relationship when the relationship is based on authentic connection and authentic communication about roles, expectations and the intimacy and passion stays with time. Before we broke off he was acting the ~fake alpha male be mysterious don’t communicate~ game which ruined our relationship the first go around.

To be fair his games led me to play my own and their was all out warfare once he realized
I was very attractive to other males and I was not going to hang around to be treated like a “plate” Lol.

I feel Blessed now where we are, things are good. Soulmate growth! lol

[NuTrix]