Do you find it hard to make lady friends?

[Mysticbeauty]

Aww

[Mysticbeauty]

Oops my comment about loving your app idea got smooshed between your quotes.

[Mysticbeauty]

As you know, I'm creating an app specifically for women to make friends and network with each other. I came up with this idea for a couple of reasons, but the main reason is that it's just so hard for women to make friends! Women aren't very nice to each other because of this imaginary competition (for men, careers, etc)!

Love the idea of an app that's genius.

Do you find it hard to make lady friends or have you gotten lucky in that department? What kind of women do you find yourself getting along with much better?

I'm a youngish/single mother, so sometimes I like other mothers sometimes not. The Mother category in itself is very diverse. I personally don't like to be in any box. I tend to gravitate to older women though, but sometimes someone younger than me really surprises me with their emotional maturity. I think there is a benefit to having all types of women surrounding you, no matter the age or even what their about, because I'm a woo woo person and I think everyone is a teacher. As long as they are open minded, secure in themselves, supportive and just a decent human being. I don't surround myself with catty bitches cause it honestly is a waste of time and energy and if I'm around them I wear cohesion.

Also I would say my main friends are married and sometimes I think they are jealous of me because like I said in another topic, they settled. I know what I want and I'm taking my time in finding it. So even though we lead different lives it just confirms to me that I'm making the right choices for me. Luckily they don't pressure me, if they do, they are the type of friends where I can speak my mind without judgment. (most of them)

[Mysticbeauty]

Someone was talking to me about this the other day and about historical trauma. Basically, competing and not supporting our own race and culture has been instilled for a long time. It's sad.

[LegendaryCharisma]

No, as I am on a college campus so i am constantly throw in situations whers I have to interact eith other women ny age

I am voluntarily outgoing so if I want to get to know you, I will gladly take the first step
Now if I dont... you’ll know. Lol

[Ildergreier]

Summer Daze.

[Ildergreier]

I feel like Bitch tempered with a status phero would be a powerhouse for hostile women.

Bitch is quite alpha in herself too.

[colorfulaura]

I feel like Bitch tempered with a status phero would be a powerhouse for hostile women.

[somechick99]

So happy I just stumbled upon this thread! I’ve been facing similar issues (of women being catty) and I’m wondering what are some of the best pheros for dealing with competitive women, lol. Bitch is an obvious choice IMO. Temptress and Desire Me will bring out the competitive side of other women whereas Bitch seems to make them openly envious.

Any other pheros you guys recommend for dealing with these types?

[colorfulaura]

I feel like half of it is my fault in not initiating things with new people enough. I met a new girl at work, exchanged numbers and it just went into the ether. I'll try to reconnect tomorrow.

[PumpedUpKids]

In NYC, it is hard to make new friends, but I have my circle already. I'm 1 of 2 that don't have kids, so it's annoying trying to do stuff sometimes. My best friend is having twins and is dying internally now that it's summer so I am flexible with her. I feel bad for her.

[Cheerio]

https://twitter.com/laurentyler_x/st...43801461567488

Hopefully yall can see this tweet...i can't figure out the link button.

The part about being afraid of being backstabbed and not knowing someone's intentions is so damn true.

[colorfulaura]

https://twitter.com/laurentyler_x/st...43801461567488

Hopefully yall can see this tweet...i can't figure out the link button.

It's unfortunate so many of us are going through the same thing but everyone's still at arms length.

[OutspokenOne]

https://twitter.com/laurentyler_x/status/1139643801461567488

Hopefully yall can see this tweet...i can't figure out the link button.

[OutspokenOne]

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[Cheerio]

If anyone uses a combo/certain blend of pheromones where they made friends, please report it in this topic! I think loveboat (here I go again with praising Loveboat) helps with making friendships or at least with bonding.

I need to use Love Boat more often. It's one of the very first ones I received. I think it'd be great for friendship making.

[Cheerio]

Where do you guys go to meet new people? I want to make new friends but I don't have an already established social group so I don't know where to start.

I've started going to events where I can make friends with women who are successful + ambitious like I am. Women I can learn from and benefit from as well. For instance, I recently matched with a girl on Bumble Bizz who not only suggested a company that I can research to work for, but she also knows the coordinators and told me that if I apply, she will let the coordinators know and she's a real estate agent who told me to contact her whenever I'm ready to apartment search. Before that, I met a girl at a company event and she told me to look at the career section of her job and when I'm ready to apply to send her my resume and she'll let the recruiters know. Try some networking events? I'm not sure where you live, but maybe some classes as well?

[Cheerio]

YESSS! Let them know that you are ignoring them! I do this to men I don't care about...matter of fact, lemme turn these read receipts on!

Lmao, petty!

[colorfulaura]

Where do you guys go to meet new people? I want to make new friends but I don't have an already established social group so I don't know where to start.

[lafemme]

If anyone uses a combo/certain blend of pheromones where they made friends, please report it in this topic! I think loveboat (here I go again with praising Loveboat) helps with making friendships or at least with bonding.

I'm sure this would be effective for friend making, even though I didn't make any; I do have to say: women gave me lots of compliments when I wore loveboat and sweetness. The man I was with even told me of great reviews women shared with him about me..days after! I believe I had a similar experience with psel and sweetness. Also women out in wild approached me with sweet compliments when I wore celebrity4w.