Do you find it hard to make lady friends?

[Ildergreier]

we should encourage them to have courage and self love that can help them get out of useless/toxic relationships.

This.

But this is difficult since too many do things before they are actually ready to do them, so then they start to blame others for it (you talked me into it...), so I come with suggestions and ask questions that makes them think for themselves, instead of blatant say "what is wrong with you, you need to get rid of this bloke".

[Blackpool]

+1 for repping Bitch + XS194/Inbetween. I'll be writing a full report on that end of the week. But that is doing me great favors!!

[Blackpool]

Amen to that.

[Blackpool]

Kill them with kindess! If you don't like that... When everyone likes you, it will make them look bad.

[Blackpool]

Definitely agree here. They might be intimidated.

[Cheerio]

Come on now. Men wants to fuck, not being a pretty womans friend without benefits.

All of them are trying to fuck. Lmao.

[Ildergreier]

When you're pretty, men are usually easier to socialize with. They are easier to talk to (for me). But also, our conversations haven't been "deep" or anything like that. Actually, I've noticed the Asian girl's manager is sorta starting to ignore me as well, LOL. But yesterday was an interesting day. It was off.


I believe it 100%.

People want to see you doing well, but not better than them.

Come on now. Men wants to fuck, not being a pretty womans friend without benefits.

[Mysticbeauty]

I'll try that! Thank you. I'll try:
1x- Bitch
1x- Vibe
1x- xs194 bc I have a meeting first thing in the morning

Good luck! I hope it goes well!

[Cheerio]

Yes, try less! Try bitch at one spray and vibe and Xist at one spray. Or even one bitch and whatever amount of I vibe works for you. I'm not that familiar with vibe, still. I've never bought a bottle. And of course bitch and InBetween is nice, I used that all last week.

I'll try that! Thank you. I'll try:
1x- Bitch
1x- Vibe
1x- xs194 bc I have a meeting first thing in the morning

[Mysticbeauty]

Thank you so much for your advice. I truly appreciate you, Mystic! I'll think about this whenever I go in for work. I really don't want to make enemies and I don't want anyone to pay for anything others have done to me.

I also want to believe that if they really didn't like me, they wouldn't have followed me on social media + yesterday, the same Latina wouldn't have asked me what I've been up to when she saw me sitting by myself on another floor. I don't even know what to think, lol. Just take it one day at a time.

Yes one day at a time is a wonderful mantra! You got this!

[Mysticbeauty]

Yes I work in health care and it is very unnecessary! You'd be surprised on how the drama people cause will effect the patient care given in the clinic. I used to work with a miserable doctor but i'm far from her now thank god. Misery loves company!

That is such a shame!

[Mysticbeauty]

Hmmmmm, I might have to purchase this Cohesion that you speak of

Yes it's worth a try! I hope I'm not hyping it up and it doesn't work the same for me. But it's the one I ordered the most often in the past, so I obviously liked it. I even ordered it in multiple scents. This time. I sprang for the large bottle, something I should have done years ago! I believe it will help. Thursday I will let ya'll know!

[Mysticbeauty]

Even if it may not work the same, this might give me a bit of hope. Knowing what you know now, do you think Bitch will do any good? I'm really thinking about wearing Vibe tomorrow, maybe Vibe with Bitch and Xist (for resetting). I'm just so scared of the name, lol.

I also think they might like me with smaller doses of pheros instead of stacking them.

Yes, try less! Try bitch at one spray and vibe and Xist at one spray. Or even one bitch and whatever amount of I vibe works for you. I'm not that familiar with vibe, still. I've never bought a bottle. And of course bitch and InBetween is nice, I used that all last week.

[OutspokenOne]

Yes that's the worst and it's hurtful. Again when cohesion comes, see if it works on them. It really transformed some mean girls(immature/bitchy/the works) into women who gave me compliments, included me, etc. I don't want to set your expectations high in case it doesn't work the same for you. It might nto work on every woman in your office, but it will probably work on some and if it can make you feel wonderful and let their negativity roll right off of you, even better!.

Hmmmmm, I might have to purchase this Cohesion that you speak of

[OutspokenOne]

Yeah. In my fantasy world every one gets along is happy, purposeful, etc. But some people just want to bring that negative shit every where they go and take you down with them. It's unnecessary, especially in the medical field (where you work right?). That should be a place of healing! It's upsetting to me.

Yes I work in health care and it is very unnecessary! You'd be surprised on how the drama people cause will effect the patient care given in the clinic. I used to work with a miserable doctor but i'm far from her now thank god. Misery loves company!

[Cheerio]

Just don't let negative people make you become jaded. Easier said then done, but you are aware of it. I believe it will all turn out just fine. =)

Thank you so much for your advice. I truly appreciate you, Mystic! I'll think about this whenever I go in for work. I really don't want to make enemies and I don't want anyone to pay for anything others have done to me.

I also want to believe that if they really didn't like me, they wouldn't have followed me on social media + yesterday, the same Latina wouldn't have asked me what I've been up to when she saw me sitting by myself on another floor. I don't even know what to think, lol. Just take it one day at a time.

[Cheerio]

Yes that's the worst and it's hurtful. Again when cohesion comes, see if it works on them. It really transformed some mean girls(immature/bitchy/the works) into women who gave me compliments, included me, etc. I don't want to set your expectations high in case it doesn't work the same for you. It might nto work on every woman in your office, but it will probably work on some and if it can make you feel wonderful and let their negativity roll right off of you, even better!.

Even if it may not work the same, this might give me a bit of hope. Knowing what you know now, do you think Bitch will do any good? I'm really thinking about wearing Vibe tomorrow, maybe Vibe with Bitch and Xist (for resetting). I'm just so scared of the name, lol.

I also think they might like me with smaller doses of pheros instead of stacking them.

[Mysticbeauty]

Just don't let negative people make you become jaded. Easier said then done, but you are aware of it. I believe it will all turn out just fine. =)

[Mysticbeauty]

I actually would actively try to include myself in conversations and try to make some efforts and I could tell they weren't interested. It was embarrassing so I've learned from that incident.

Yes that's the worst and it's hurtful. Again when cohesion comes, see if it works on them. It really transformed some mean girls(immature/bitchy/the works) into women who gave me compliments, included me, etc. I don't want to set your expectations high in case it doesn't work the same for you. It might nto work on every woman in your office, but it will probably work on some and if it can make you feel wonderful and let their negativity roll right off of you, even better!.

[Cheerio]

It's always a possibility that they thought you wouldn't want to be by them?

I actually would actively try to include myself in conversations and try to make some efforts and I could tell they weren't interested. It was embarrassing so I've learned from that incident.