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  • #21
    Originally posted by Ildergreier View Post
    Hmm, I am going to help you girls, just give me some time.
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    • #22
      Originally posted by NuTrix View Post

      As in how?
      Like the same way they say guys jacking off (pardon the crudneess) can mess them up? As in, then you can only get off by yourself because you've got a certain expectation and can no longer get off with a partner?
      In a way, yes.

      I've noticed after using vibrators that it can cause the following:
      - addiction to that type of sensation and orgasm
      - loss of sensation after some time, possible nerve damage?
      - pain if you use it too often and too long

      So, I try not to use my current vibrator very often and I take long breaks after using it.

      I've also noticed a G-spot orgasm feels different and less intense than a clitoral orgasm. None of my orgasms are ever very intense unless it's g-spot and clitoral simultaneously, which is rare. ???????

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      • #23
        Originally posted by intensecity View Post

        I think that's probably a major reason why I haven't tried to put in effort to orgasm by myself or with someone else because I am too lazy to want to put it in the time in getting myself to....I figured it would take @ least more than an hour to get there especially @ the first time.... ;-x
        Try to dig into what turns you on. I can make myself orgasm within 20 minutes but it would take about an hour for a man to make me cum because they're typically more impatient which turns me off. Foreplay is the most important part of sex for me since for me, sex is mostly mental. This isn't the case for everyone though. For you, I would read up on books about sexuality. We all have different sexual archetypes. The physical is only one part of sex (or rather the physical is driven by the others). The mental, psychological and emotional parts of sex are even more important in getting you to that point in climax.

        I'm reading The Sexual Self now which is really insightful on the psychological urges with sex. Depending on your sexual archetype, you'll have specific desires and triggers that will make it easier for you to climax.

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        • #24
          Cheerio wow, that's deep and thank you for sharing your personal experience.

          Aww, you guys enlighten me about female sexuality!
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          • #25
            Originally posted by zeratul View Post
            Cheerio wow, that's deep and thank you for sharing your personal experience.

            Aww, you guys enlighten me about female sexuality!
            Of course!
            & that's not even all of the story. I've lived an interesting life, but it's all made me who I am. No regrets.
            I think if a lot of men weren't so into themselves, they could learn a lot by listening to us.

            I hope to find someone who asks me questions instead of assuming. There's nothing wrong with sitting down & listening to what a woman has to say.
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            • #26
              You say black men do not like to lick (oral), I ENJOY IT!! Actually it us one of the few things I make sure we do, BEFORE having sex, besides raising her expectations, knowing when to caress scratch or nibble (pay attention to her body as it reacts to different stimuli) this can go on for a couple hours, and I will still happily enjoy blue balls.

              Why because I know the next time (unless she is selfish, cultural taboos about enjoying or hung up on too many porn movies), she us willing to reciprocate the giving...

              Makes for intensive time. Yes we men sometimes, not all the time have a one tract mind (squeeze the breasts, and make beeline to the 101). I also ask if she fantasies about sex and positions.

              Knowing her as much before actually taking the dipstick to measure.

              If she is relax and is COMFORTABLE, she will normally orgasm (maybe some TAC wisdom help)

              CM

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              • #27
                You say black men do not like to lick (oral), I ENJOY IT!! Actually it us one of the few things I make sure we do, BEFORE having sex, besides raising her expectations, knowing when to caress scratch or nibble (pay attention to her body as it reacts to different stimuli) this can go on for a couple hours, and I will still happily enjoy blue balls.

                Why because I know the next time (unless she is selfish, cultural taboos about enjoying or hung up on too many porn movies), she us willing to reciprocate the giving...

                Makes for intensive time. Yes we men sometimes, not all the time have a one tract mind (squeeze the breasts, and make beeline to the 101). I also ask if she fantasies about sex and positions.

                Knowing her as much before actually taking the dipstick to measure.

                If she is relax and is COMFORTABLE, she will normally orgasm (maybe some TAC wisdom help)

                CM

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                • #28
                  Sorry about the double entry, tried to put it under one of the response, but timed out.

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                  • #29
                    Originally posted by ChocolateMarshmallow View Post
                    You say black men do not like to lick (oral), I ENJOY IT!! Actually it us one of the few things I make sure we do, BEFORE having sex, besides raising her expectations, knowing when to caress scratch or nibble (pay attention to her body as it reacts to different stimuli) this can go on for a couple hours, and I will still happily enjoy blue balls.

                    Why because I know the next time (unless she is selfish, cultural taboos about enjoying or hung up on too many porn movies), she us willing to reciprocate the giving...

                    Makes for intensive time. Yes we men sometimes, not all the time have a one tract mind (squeeze the breasts, and make beeline to the 101). I also ask if she fantasies about sex and positions.

                    Knowing her as much before actually taking the dipstick to measure.

                    If she is relax and is COMFORTABLE, she will normally orgasm (maybe some TAC wisdom help)

                    CM
                    How old are you? It must be a generational thing because... LOL idk whats going on out here with these dudes and the Oral sex double standards.
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                    • #30
                      I am 51 turning 52...
                      It is fun to give your partner the satisfaction...

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                      • #31
                        Originally posted by Vicki Lee View Post

                        How old are you? It must be a generational thing because... LOL idk whats going on out here with these dudes and the Oral sex double standards.
                        Right... If you can't lick it you can't stick it is my rule.

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                        • #32
                          Me neither, but it's not a big deal for me.

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                          • #33
                            Damn girl you just told it like it is! But I agree 100%

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                            • #34
                              Originally posted by siren View Post

                              I do agree that men feel a bit let down or a blow to their ego if the person they're having sex with doesn't have an orgasm. But I also think that men don't know what female orgasms really look like.

                              Orgasms are more of a sensation. Ejaculation (cumming) is different. Most women don't ejaculate.
                              I ejaculated on accident once and it freaked me out. I also didn't "feel" anything orgasmic so just plain weird. I'd rather have a regular orgasm.

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                              • #35
                                Originally posted by colorfulaura View Post

                                Right... If you can't lick it you can't stick it is my rule.
                                Beautifully said! Lol????????

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                                • #36
                                  Originally posted by ChocolateMarshmallow View Post
                                  You say black men do not like to lick (oral), I ENJOY IT!! Actually it us one of the few things I make sure we do, BEFORE having sex, besides raising her expectations, knowing when to caress scratch or nibble (pay attention to her body as it reacts to different stimuli) this can go on for a couple hours, and I will still happily enjoy blue balls.

                                  Why because I know the next time (unless she is selfish, cultural taboos about enjoying or hung up on too many porn movies), she us willing to reciprocate the giving...

                                  Makes for intensive time. Yes we men sometimes, not all the time have a one tract mind (squeeze the breasts, and make beeline to the 101). I also ask if she fantasies about sex and positions.

                                  Knowing her as much before actually taking the dipstick to measure.

                                  If she is relax and is COMFORTABLE, she will normally orgasm (maybe some TAC wisdom help)

                                  CM
                                  Umm could you like tell that to all the decent men in the world. Us ladies would appreciate it!

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                                  • #37
                                    Originally posted by Vicki Lee View Post

                                    How old are you? It must be a generational thing because... LOL idk whats going on out here with these dudes and the Oral sex double standards.
                                    It is a double standard. And although I love giving head with the right dude, it's way more work. Literally job in in the name hello! Not to mention there a dick in our throat. I. Sure some dudes get tired going down on us but they just need to love and worship our clits. I mean come on. Our bodies should be adored anyway. But I'm bias. ????

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                                    • #38
                                      Originally posted by intensecity View Post
                                      I am surprised that there has been no post made in this sub forum, but I guess it's up to me to take one for the team in devirginizing this area.... I hope this topic isn't too offensive....If it is, let me know or just delete the topic....I will understand with no hard feelings....

                                      I started having sex before I turned 20 + been masturbating for years before that as of a young kid.... Through all of my sexual experiences including solo ones, I don't think I actually had an orgasm.... If orgasm means cumming.... I am not saying I never enjoy it because I have thoroughly many many times before....I don't think I have ever orgasmed if it involves cumming....I never came.... But, then when i think of it, I don't think I felt an orgasm where it's earth-shattering or how it's been described.... I have just enjoyed it so much to where I feel satisfied without needing something to come out of my body.... Over the years, I have grown comfortable to the fact that I don't need to cum nor orgasm to enjoy sex, but there has been a few men that I have been with who seemed to have feel some kinda way that I don't cum or orgasm thinking it's because the sex wasn't good enough..... Any of you are like me?

                                      I feel like an awkward teenager who doesn't know about sex instead of a 36 year old that I am.... I did happen to just read something online that says cumming + orgasm is different....

                                      I hope I made sense, btw.... A large part of me doesn't feel ashamed that I am lacking in this department, but a tiny part does....;-x
                                      I appreciate your vulnerability. You aren't alone in that for sure. No man has ever given me an orgasm I have to do it myself. However I'm with a man now who would probably be down for making the bedroom our own little classroom. Be patient and keep Experimenting, that's my game plan. Also I found a nice clitoral vibrato that is strong enough to get me off, not too loud, and I don't think it would be intimidating to a man.

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                                      • #39
                                        I don't know if there are any rule against posting this, so I won't directly post it. But if a man doesn't make my body to this, I DO NOT want him & I will never marry, LOL --

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                                        Poor girl looked so confused, like "wtf, again?!"
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                                        • #40
                                          Originally posted by Cheerio View Post
                                          I don't know if there are any rule against posting this, so I won't directly post it. But if a man doesn't make my body to this, I DO NOT want him & I will never marry, LOL --

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                                          Poor girl looked so confused, like "wtf, again?!"
                                          What the fuck? How is it that skinny dudes end up with the hugest cocks?

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