Another Guy Trying to Recover a Strained Relationship with his Girlfriend

[Phoenix2886]

It may be best to see it that way. If i were you i would just focus on yourself and whatever happens happens

I know your right. Thanks for the advice.

[manover84]

Good luck brother and welcome. Lots of experience and great people here to help.

[manover84]

Actually I did use to work for the CIA at one time.

Knew it! 00Scottie

[Primross]

*Sigh* I know. But if I confront her now, while she has no respect for me, I'm pretty sure she won't choose our relationship. So the two things I'm working on is to get her to respect me again, get her attracted again, and I'm also trying to get over her as if we have already broken up.

I was thinking of proposing (before she went cold on me). Whew I think I might have dodged a bullet.

It may be best to see it that way. If i were you i would just focus on yourself and whatever happens happens

[Phoenix2886]

You played it well by not screaming but that's messed up. If you are not happy with what she did she should be made aware that you will not tolerate that shit.

*Sigh* I know. But if I confront her now, while she has no respect for me, I'm pretty sure she won't choose our relationship. So the two things I'm working on is to get her to respect me again, get her attracted again, and I'm also trying to get over her as if we have already broken up.

I was thinking of proposing (before she went cold on me). Whew I think I might have dodged a bullet.

[Primross]

2x Spray Xist to Front of Neck
2x Spray Love Boat to Forearms
2x Spray XSP96 to wrists

Self Effects: Slightly more awake after spraying Xist

Results: Girlfriend generally friendly, she may have shit tested me by talking about guys hitting on her at the bar she works at. I laughed it off. Then she talked about giving her number to this guy because he's "cool". I wanted to scream at her, instead said, "Alright" with a nod and a slight smile. Not exactly the best reaction, but hopefully not seeming super insecure.

My girlfriend has sinus problems, so I wonder if she is even getting a dose of this stuff? I've been fighting some reverse imprinting so I think I need to swap the love boat and Xist application points. I'm also considering 4x Sprays of Xist to see if she gets pissy. Tonight I'm gonna throw on some GOA behind my ears, and add some Xist oil before bed.

Anyone dealt with a chick with sinus problems?

You played it well by not screaming but that's messed up. If you are not happy with what she did she should be made aware that you will not tolerate that shit.

[Phoenix2886]

Oops the rest was moved to my journal!

Anyone dealt with a chick with sinus problems? How much did you have to up your dosages?

[Primross]

FYI I stole your signature format! Imitation is the best form of flattery.

Go for it. It's definitely flattering

[Phoenix2886]

It's funny that you ask, I use an experimental scent from JonnyO. Its the best smell in the world

LOL okay I'm not sure what to do with that information...so if I order a sample of Alpha Q: would you suggest scented or unscented?

[Prettyrickyboi]

Do you have Alpha Q scented or unscented?

I live with her, I just don't get to see her much because of work schedules (and she's avoiding me). So the most I get is 15-30min per day.

It's funny that you ask, I use an experimental scent from JonnyO. Its the best smell in the world

[Phoenix2886]

Its really that good? (Alpha q)

FYI I stole your signature format! Imitation is the best form of flattery.

[Phoenix2886]

I'm not sure, typically it is best to have prolonged exposure..lets say a week of exposure.
And then no physical contact for some time..then reexposure.
If you research Xist you'll find that most have best results this way. Including myself.
I've used Alpha Treasures...it was so so. Try AlphaQ, one of my favorite Alpha products next to A314.

Do you have Alpha Q scented or unscented?

I live with her, I just don't get to see her much because of work schedules (and she's avoiding me). So the most I get is 15-30min per day.

[Primross]

Its really that good? (Alpha q)

[Muestereate]

Take the test every day for a while and see what you can manage to change just by being aware. That checklist is still in use in doctors offices almost universally. Just rejecting the thinking helps.

[Prettyrickyboi]

I don't seem to get any self effects from the pheromones, except Xist spray I feel slightly more awake. And Alpha Treasures gives me a headache. I only get about 15 minutes a day with my girlfriend at this point, do you think the Xist will have any impact with such limited exposure?

I'm not sure, typically it is best to have prolonged exposure..lets say a week of exposure.
And then no physical contact for some time..then reexposure.
If you research Xist you'll find that most have best results this way. Including myself.
I've used Alpha Treasures...it was so so. Try AlphaQ, one of my favorite Alpha products next to A314.

[Primross]

I don't seem to get any self effects from the pheromones, except Xist spray I feel slightly more awake. And Alpha Treasures gives me a headache. I only get about 15 minutes a day with my girlfriend at this point, do you think the Xist will have any impact with such limited exposure?

Yes it may take weeks or months but every minute counts the spray is faster working but less deep

[Phoenix2886]

Welcome, I hope you find what you're looking for through PSX!

Thanks for the encouragement!

[Phoenix2886]

Yes, I have pretty solid proof that Xist for men works wonders.
Definitely put Xist on the list.. and any of the Alpha products.
Look into the products description. I believe that description is 100 percent accurate.

I don't seem to get any self effects from the pheromones, except Xist spray I feel slightly more awake. And Alpha Treasures gives me a headache. I only get about 15 minutes a day with my girlfriend at this point, do you think the Xist will have any impact with such limited exposure?

[Phoenix2886]

Hey Phoenix, I had some trouble similar to yours after I developed a disability and couldn't work. A few things hit at once until I couldn't tell good thinking from bad. I stumbled across this checklist in a Book called Feeling Good. Seems a lot of the stuff formed the basis for today's most effective therapies.

In my case, I took this test and in the worst spots, I just tried to not think that way as much. I couldn't get rid of it all but I made a surprising turnaround with just the checklist to guide me away from bad thinking.

https://www.jaxhealth.com/app/files/public/10161/burns-depression.pdf

Women like people that are happy and fun to be with. It goes without saying that they should be the same. If someone isn't adding to your life, they are probably taking away. That works both ways too.

I appreciate the advice. I am definitely dealing with depression. I don't really remember how to be fun and lighthearted, I just draw a blank even when I'm trying. I will take a look at your checklist and print it out, can't hurt right?

[Phoenix2886]

Phoenix! Wow, you have been through a lot. When I read that you went from being Alpha to Beta I was a bit confused. Did you loose your confidence because of what happened?

I am so sorry for your loss and I applaud you for getting back on the life saddle and trying to ride again. It is not easy sometimes to pick up from a loss or more than one but here you are,ready to try again.

In my book, you already are a winner.

It is a pleasure to have you here

Thank you KateD for the support.

Yes, I lost all of my confidence (honestly I lost my backbone). My job was very high paying, and I was about to buy a rental property and build a house. When I lost my job, I stopped being fun to hang out with, and became pretty boring. Instead of recovering quickly from my setbacks, I wallowed in self pity for a couple years. Sadly my girlfriend stayed with me through all of this, but now I think she's lost all respect for me. I'm turning to pheromones to give me an edge with my self improvement and accelerate my results. I realize they aren't going to magically make me fun and interesting again.