COMPLY (xs199)

[MostHoly]

Some observations:

1. Mental fatigue makes sense as the blend uses quite a few "unique" molecules so its to be expected. Take a shot of B12 with some L-Tyrosene to boost your amino acids and stamina. Cognitive dissonance will happen when you're mental and emotional expectations clash with the picture unfolding before you.
2. Pheromones do not discriminate and will work on the wearer as much as they will work on the intended target. Impatience, anger, frustration all make sense when dealing with compliance. You don't get what you want, or it doesn't happen as expected (driving = road rage) is actually what should be expected. With comply you expect for everyone to comply, but other drivers are not exposed to your pheromone signature and therefore do not meet your compliance demands. Once you become acclimated with the signature yourself, this will diminish. I have been sticking to one spray myself too.
3. You'll notice more and more people falling into compliance, but will have to familiarize yourself with how that translates from person to person. Sales rep wanted to comply with your wishes so her acknowledgement of that was to be proactive before reactive and thus fall out of the compliance bubble. Same thing with the travel agency guy. He wanted to please you, thus comply, and for him it became a time/control action. You're a very important person (VIP) which garners immediate attention so when he didn't see the attention applied to your needs by the receptionist within a reasonable time (the pacing) he took action to control a potential damaging situation. He was attending to you while not stepping on toes of the receptionist all the while justifying why he needed to take action. Nobody wants to feel as if their second fiddle to somebody else even to a celebrity. We want to be equals, again all the pacing.
4. Calm confidence. While confidence is the single most attractive trait anyone can have, the calming aspect is like a hug when people might feel challenged. Conceit, narcissism... mixed with confidence is ugly, the exact opposite of what you want. Its why so many people don't necessarily like sports figures. Their confidence is competitive and is construed very differently than say, an actors. Celebrity touches on a lot of that without the aggressiveness and is a steering component of comply. It was a real challenge though not to come off as a stuck-up tool while gaining others trust and respect.
5. As to the masculine/feminine traits I know exactly what's going on there, but I'm going to let you figure that out. It was an ah-hah moment for me and really drove the blend home for me. The world is your oyster, but every once in a while you got to come out of the shell to see it.

I'd like to see you test it by adding some additional P74 to it. XS199 is still very much in alpha-stages and while my results were amazing I want the results to meet your expectations as to your request. Brutal honesty is all I ask for. I did take it a little to the extreme of what you asked for because I got carried away.

Should Comply always, always be worn on it's own or would it be OK to experiment using it with a spray of, let's say Loveboat or Bliss or Xist?

[Muestereate]

I have found the phrase, Hate is Love Without the answers" and "There can only be hate where there was once love." to be helpful."

I know what you mean by haters gonna hate but if we both understand it the same way, the hate is not personal, they hate whole groups of people. They are just angry people, perhaps spiritually ill, probably deeply abused in multiple ways since childhood.

If I really want to piss them off I pray, "Here is a sick person, how can I be of help? " Shortly a way to express love to them will come. Some get angrier when you try to love them. I have to admit, at those I laugh. They are the sickest, the most damaged. I've done all I know, Now I can walk away, the laughter is for me because their hate has no more sting. I am free.

This is how I take care of me.

[Muestereate]

I've had two that were unworkable. I have many more that didn't feel worth the work, those are precisely the ones I need to work. despite our wars, people are not disposable.

[NuTrix]

I could see this if the fault lay with me, but even Jesus said let the blind lead the blind (paraphrase). Sometimes the haters really will only hate. Those are the relationships we should let go of

[XSteveO]

Why accept something you don't have too? A year ago I would have agreed but now I have my XIST/Innocence combo. Even without that combo, I have learned ways to turn 95% of bad relationships into a decent ones. You have to know what you did to start the ball rolling, be willing to not do that again which takes prayer, dig deep with more prayer to figure out what may be required to fix the damage I've done and then go find the person and try to fix it.

Or you can use Xist and Innocence.

Even Asshole's farts were once the breath of life.

Sorry I disagree with yah on this completely. Life is way to valuable to spend my efforts on those who hate. I do for the ones who love and care and by that example if it changes the haters than great. More than likely it won't and I still did what I did for the people who deserve my best and not the ones who are owed nothing from me.

[Muestereate]

I was speaking of innocence and XIST, not comply.

[curiouscat]

Care to elaborate? What was your experience with these two?

[Primross]

I'm lost hahahha

[Muestereate]

You liked the asshole farts bit as much as I did too?

[Primross]

Why accept something you don't have too? A year ago I would have agreed but now I have my XIST/Innocence combo. Even without that combo, I have learned ways to turn 95% of bad relationships into a decent ones. You have to know what you did to start the ball rolling, be willing to not do that again which takes prayer, dig deep with more prayer to figure out what may be required to fix the damage I've done and then go find the person and try to fix it.

Or you can use Xist and Innocence.

Even Asshole's farts were once the breath of life.

You go bro!

[Muestereate]

Originally posted by SteveO View Post

Haters are going to hate, regardless of what you do. Live for you.



Words to live by

Why accept something you don't have too? A year ago I would have agreed but now I have my XIST/Innocence combo. Even without that combo, I have learned ways to turn 95% of bad relationships into a decent ones. You have to know what you did to start the ball rolling, be willing to not do that again which takes prayer, dig deep with more prayer to figure out what may be required to fix the damage I've done and then go find the person and try to fix it.

Or you can use Xist and Innocence.

Even Asshole's farts were once the breath of life.

[Primross]

Haters are going to hate, regardless of what you do. Live for you.

Words to live by

[XSteveO]

That's great in itself but having people holding things in and start gossiping to others is still a negative result which I'm not after

Haters are going to hate, regardless of what you do. Live for you.

[Isis]

That's great in itself but having people holding things in and start gossiping to others is still a negative result which I'm not after

This will depend on who you are interacting with. I tailor what i use on the type(s) of people i encounter. Most I've come across "comply" because they accept the alpha. There's no resentment and so no gossiping etc

I'm talking about arguments not work, disciplinary meetings etc

[Muestereate]

plays great with XIST, may work with others,

[somechick99]

That's where the innocence comes in hehe. Not sure how that would play on a guy though

[pingu]

I find people less likely to argue back when wearing comply

That's great in itself but having people holding things in and start gossiping to others is still a negative result which I'm not after

[Isis]

Would Comply work positively in an argument? a work meeting? a disciplinary meeting with HR?

I find people less likely to argue back when wearing comply

[somechick99]

Would Comply work positively in an argument? a work meeting? a disciplinary meeting with HR?

If you're trying to stop someone from blaming you, Innocence could be a good bet in a lot of these scenarios. I could actually see Comply and Innocence together being a good pairing for some of these, but there are probably better status blends for these types of instances.

[Ildergreier]

theLaw OK.