COMPLY (xs199)

[Mysticbeauty]

My apologies if I'm cutting in with my own experience report. It's just something profound in regards to self-effects as if you're two people and it's working on yourself (pun intended).

I wore 1x spray on my wrist with intentions to see if I could get my student to do his work today during tutoring.

Well, the class got cancelled since they'll be going on Spring Break so I went home and decided to continue some personal development lessons (I don't know if you all know about personality hacker with the MBTI thing).

What's profound here is that after listening to a simple overview about how we can improve ourselves, I easily and readily took steps to cut out things that would otherwise be a daily distraction - primarily Facebook and facebook messenger. Totally logged off and uninstalled from my phone with little to no tug to try and log back in for a peek.

Here's what I'm wondering: Based on reports, xs199 Comply makes people around you want to comply to your expectations (or in 's case, made him comply to his friend - a double-edge sword). BUT if you're by yourself, would you comply to yourself? If you currently have expectations about the kind of person you should be and are not meeting it, would Comply get you to listen and manifest the actions needed to get there? Maybe this approach sounds negative (the "you should be better than that!" kind of approach).

So how about an interesting take on this that's positive: If you have a dream you wish to acquire (in my case, I want to develop parts of my personality and I'm looking forward to it because it's kind of fun so far), is Comply something you could use to give yourself that little (or a lot of) encouragement to just do it?

This is late, I'm still catching up on this thread, but this was everything to me! The possibilities!
I've been doing a lot of self-improvement over the years and luckily I've had many opportunities to apply the knowledge. This has got my wheels turning though.

I can see myself spraying comply then listening to something (I already resonate with, but lack the motivation to implement), or even read motivational material. Also, I'm thnking this could be good when I set my goals for the month, so I actually stick to them?

For those who mentioned giving up meat, I would find a documentary that's aligned with your reasons, spray some Comply, and let the visuals and the comply do the work. I didn't have comply, but a little visual motivation was all I needed.

I could also see this being a boost if you had a personal trainer. You might be more likely to comply to their motivational pushes?

Thank you fdesa12. I was thinking to small. I thought hey maybe this will get my son to clean his room. Now I'm thinking bigger!

[Mysticbeauty]

Make myself to comply my innter boosy bitch to finally paint my bedroom red....

This is late, but if you haven't done it yet DO IT! Its all about balance anyways. I painted my bedroom a dark rouge/wine color. It's actually pretty neutral for different types of decor. I balanced my room out in other ways so it doesn't feel too bold. It's sexy and romantic as hell. I always choose paint colors that actually look good on me too. I've worn nail polish , lipstick, and clothes in the same color.

[Mysticbeauty]

I might use my salple then read or listen to self improvement stuff. I really like your theory!

[Ildergreier]

OK... if you are seeking a romantic relationship with someone and want them to comply with your wish... what would you add to this?

Girlfriend + a little DM+.

[curiouscat]

OK... if you are seeking a romantic relationship with someone and want them to comply with your wish... what would you add to this?

I am willing to give it another go, but I need to take it in a certain direction. I didn't like the way it made me feel when I wore it alone.

[Isis]

Isis is sweetness one of those that is a great topper or also fine on its own

Its fabulous on its own and i sometimes use it as a topper with unisex products

[Ildergreier]

Isis is sweetness one of those that is a great topper or also fine on its own

Sweetness is amazing as a standalone.

[Devin1Neil]

Comply is a weird one. I have NO idea how it works or why but I def get that people want to make you happy.

Make sure you're thankful and appreciative when wearing this mix, if you're hard to please then others will just get frustrated and feel bad about themselves.

[LegendaryCharisma]

Isis is sweetness one of those that is a great topper or also fine on its own

[Isis]

Here is a copy-paste from my journal of some recent Comply testing I did:

I went with 2 sprays Comply by itself. The setting was the state fair with my best friend, her boyfriend, and her boyfriend's siblings. I've only worn this blend at work in the past and it tends to make some people feel I'm bossing them around or being pushy on its own, so I wasn't sure what to expect in this setting.


People didn't necessarily seem more or less compliant with me, but something interesting did happen. We were walking around the fair and I casually mentioned how I've never won a stuffed animal prize and always wanted one. The entire group seemed insistent on me getting one after mentioning this. I pointed to a cute little unicorn animal that could be won at one of the games, and my friend's boyfriend goes over to win me the prize. "I can win that for you!" he says.


I could tell this upset my friend a little bit - as soon as he said this, she goes "I want one! Win me one!" and when he goes to hand me the unicorn, she snatched it from him and played it off like it was meant for her!! I think he then realized how strange it looks to try and win your girlfriend's friend a carnival prize and not your actual gf lol - so he went along with it, then played again until he won a second time and we both had the unicorn.


Looking back, the whole group was very accommodating as to what I wanted to do. They basically let me pick all the rides and games and kept asking where I wanted to go next. It seems like this blend makes people want to make sure I'm happy and value my opinions more overall.

At work when selling to customers, it needs something to soften it up or they seem to think I'm being pushy. It seems that's the case when I directly command or request someone do something. However if I casually mention an idea and don't directly ask for it (like at the fair), they want to give it to me. Definitely an interesting blend....

Try pairing it with sweetness at work. Its amazing!

[Coconut]

sounds good!

[Ildergreier]

However if I casually mention an idea and don't directly ask for it (like at the fair), they want to give it to me.

This is the key to Comply, but you can allow yourself to be more assertive and negotiating with the Inbetween.

[Muestereate]

great observations. Open air use too is interesting.

[somechick99]

Here is a copy-paste from my journal of some recent Comply testing I did:

I went with 2 sprays Comply by itself. The setting was the state fair with my best friend, her boyfriend, and her boyfriend's siblings. I've only worn this blend at work in the past and it tends to make some people feel I'm bossing them around or being pushy on its own, so I wasn't sure what to expect in this setting.


People didn't necessarily seem more or less compliant with me, but something interesting did happen. We were walking around the fair and I casually mentioned how I've never won a stuffed animal prize and always wanted one. The entire group seemed insistent on me getting one after mentioning this. I pointed to a cute little unicorn animal that could be won at one of the games, and my friend's boyfriend goes over to win me the prize. "I can win that for you!" he says.


I could tell this upset my friend a little bit - as soon as he said this, she goes "I want one! Win me one!" and when he goes to hand me the unicorn, she snatched it from him and played it off like it was meant for her!! I think he then realized how strange it looks to try and win your girlfriend's friend a carnival prize and not your actual gf lol - so he went along with it, then played again until he won a second time and we both had the unicorn.


Looking back, the whole group was very accommodating as to what I wanted to do. They basically let me pick all the rides and games and kept asking where I wanted to go next. It seems like this blend makes people want to make sure I'm happy and value my opinions more overall.

At work when selling to customers, it needs something to soften it up or they seem to think I'm being pushy. It seems that's the case when I directly command or request someone do something. However if I casually mention an idea and don't directly ask for it (like at the fair), they want to give it to me. Definitely an interesting blend....

[jimgee]

I have found that if I wear it on the back of my neck or on top of my head it seems to get to everyone else and not so much to me. It helps to keep me from being the compliant one.

[Ildergreier]

Its just being finicky with me. When I think I have a handle in what scenarios it would work best and how to steer it properly for those results, it seems to throw me a curve-ball. I am beginning to think it might be because I'm to dang nice of a person and it ends up working against me, like it did at my accountants office. I went from $145/month to over $600/month in fees for services.

Yeah, one need to be assertive without being pushing.

I'm thinking that the compliance factor really comes in to play with dominance traits, that I don't really possess in casual pursuits. I tend to be very dominant orientated when it comes to sexual trysts, but not so much in everyday life. I'm easy going so it could be working against me and I'm the one who becomes compliant in these scenarios. In sexual situations comply has worked to my favor in perfect unison with my natural persona, which lead me to believe I could maintain it outside those situations using the same aspects. Hasn't actually worked that way.

Hmm, because you are nice and generous outside the bedroom, perhaps.

I like alpha-aggressive pheromones in the bedroom like the ACE combo. Add comply and its just wow. Outside same combo and its almost as if I am so self aware of something that I'm not typically like that it negates everything else. ACE on its own is awesome for me in all situations. Add comply and I get very introspective and compliant.

Wow, this is bad for you.

Its still a work in progress for me

Me too, I am not finish testing it.

[XSteveO]

Could you elaborate?

Its just being finicky with me. When I think I have a handle in what scenarios it would work best and how to steer it properly for those results, it seems to throw me a curve-ball. I am beginning to think it might be because I'm to dang nice of a person and it ends up working against me, like it did at my accountants office. I went from $145/month to over $600/month in fees for services.

I'm thinking that the compliance factor really comes in to play with dominance traits, that I don't really possess in casual pursuits. I tend to be very dominant orientated when it comes to sexual trysts, but not so much in everyday life. I'm easy going so it could be working against me and I'm the one who becomes compliant in these scenarios. In sexual situations comply has worked to my favor in perfect unison with my natural persona, which lead me to believe I could maintain it outside those situations using the same aspects. Hasn't actually worked that way.

I like alpha-aggressive pheromones in the bedroom like the ACE combo. Add comply and its just wow. Outside same combo and its almost as if I am so self aware of something that I'm not typically like that it negates everything else. ACE on its own is awesome for me in all situations. Add comply and I get very introspective and compliant.

Its still a work in progress for me

[friimes]

Isis, don't get me excited like this.

I'm here and I'm ready to read these experiences/results.

[Ildergreier]

Make the tip blend unisex please.

[Devin1Neil]

Its a strange one for me as well. Not quite sure how to get a handle on it yet. There are times I love it and other times I'm like WTF just happened

Upon some thinking I don't see this being a "I want to help you too" type phero. I kinda get that entitlement vibe and I'm not a huge fan for my goals, perhaps useful in some situations but I don't want to be feared, quite the opposite actually. It is effective though.


I'm wondering how this would fit into a blend, do you have any ideas for mixes and scinarios for use?

I feel maybe in an alpha blend, perhaps that would give off a reason for compliance instead of why the hell am I doing this type thing, maybe if you had a gf with a bdsm or sub kink? I wana try this with evolve or TAC maybe.