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Hi all,
So I started using mones again after a hiatus. I don't know where to begin so I suppose I'll give a bit of backstory (it's long sorry!)
I recently transferred to another university (last semester) and I'm living in the dorms. Only problem is, I haven't made a single friend on my floor with the exception of my roommate. But even then, I think that's just situational and we wouldn't be close if we weren't living together. In the fall when everyone's the most social, I was in an unhealthy long distance relationship in which I invested ALL of my time. In short, I stayed holed up in my room and ended up not making any friends on my floor. My relationship eventually went down the drain and I was left with a few close friends (from other buildings) and a handful of acquaintances whom I never hung out with outside of class or frats. I was okay though because I had those 1-2 close friends and we hung out all the time.
New semester rolls around and I haven't made a single contact in any one of my classes and although I love the friends that I have now, seeing the same 3 people over and over again gets dull and you just run out of things to talk about. Basically, I'm lonely and bored and filled with regret for not making friends with my floormates especially since they all seem friendly and nice and fun and walking all the way to my current friends' dorms for the sake of companionship is a hassle since it's far and it's always below freezing outside. Cold approaching my floormates is out of the question and talking to them now is just plain awkward and uncomfortable. I think I've given off the impression that I want absolutely nothing to do with them..it's not I swear :(They've also formed a tight knit clique that would probably be hard to penetrate by now. I think I'm dipping into a depression from my loneliness/boredom/lack of socializing and I would really prefer that not to happen again (LDR caused some similar issues)
I would also like to add that I think I have some sort of mild undiagnosed social anxiety...It's not bad enough that I need therapy but it's getting in the way of my happiness now. Either that or I'm just stupidly shy. (I'm super chill and loud when I get comfortable though)
So my question is, what can I do to improve my situation (befriend my floormates mainly but this also extends to life to in general)? What kind of mones do y'all recommend? And all my positive self talk has been futile so please don't say this is something I need to figure out without mones because I just feel so hopeless and sad right now.
I currently only have the connections oil but I've used bliss, vibe, flirt, loveboat, dm+, and odyssey. Being a broke student, I can't afford that much. Which solo/combo (not limited to the ones listed above or unisexy mones) gives the most bang for the buck in the context of my situation? And more importantly, how should I use the mones to the fullest potential since I've never used them to meet people before? (Specific advice would be appreciated)
THANK YOU!!
So I started using mones again after a hiatus. I don't know where to begin so I suppose I'll give a bit of backstory (it's long sorry!)
I recently transferred to another university (last semester) and I'm living in the dorms. Only problem is, I haven't made a single friend on my floor with the exception of my roommate. But even then, I think that's just situational and we wouldn't be close if we weren't living together. In the fall when everyone's the most social, I was in an unhealthy long distance relationship in which I invested ALL of my time. In short, I stayed holed up in my room and ended up not making any friends on my floor. My relationship eventually went down the drain and I was left with a few close friends (from other buildings) and a handful of acquaintances whom I never hung out with outside of class or frats. I was okay though because I had those 1-2 close friends and we hung out all the time.
New semester rolls around and I haven't made a single contact in any one of my classes and although I love the friends that I have now, seeing the same 3 people over and over again gets dull and you just run out of things to talk about. Basically, I'm lonely and bored and filled with regret for not making friends with my floormates especially since they all seem friendly and nice and fun and walking all the way to my current friends' dorms for the sake of companionship is a hassle since it's far and it's always below freezing outside. Cold approaching my floormates is out of the question and talking to them now is just plain awkward and uncomfortable. I think I've given off the impression that I want absolutely nothing to do with them..it's not I swear :(They've also formed a tight knit clique that would probably be hard to penetrate by now. I think I'm dipping into a depression from my loneliness/boredom/lack of socializing and I would really prefer that not to happen again (LDR caused some similar issues)
I would also like to add that I think I have some sort of mild undiagnosed social anxiety...It's not bad enough that I need therapy but it's getting in the way of my happiness now. Either that or I'm just stupidly shy. (I'm super chill and loud when I get comfortable though)
So my question is, what can I do to improve my situation (befriend my floormates mainly but this also extends to life to in general)? What kind of mones do y'all recommend? And all my positive self talk has been futile so please don't say this is something I need to figure out without mones because I just feel so hopeless and sad right now.
I currently only have the connections oil but I've used bliss, vibe, flirt, loveboat, dm+, and odyssey. Being a broke student, I can't afford that much. Which solo/combo (not limited to the ones listed above or unisexy mones) gives the most bang for the buck in the context of my situation? And more importantly, how should I use the mones to the fullest potential since I've never used them to meet people before? (Specific advice would be appreciated)
THANK YOU!!
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