Hey gang, I could use some advice.....here's the situation:
Day 1: Complete noob to mones. My order comes in the mail and I decide to try it out to see what the mones do to me personally. I started out one at a time about an hour apart with no cover up scents. First I applied 2 sprays of XiST on either side of my neck. No noticeable affects. After an hour, I added 2 sprays of Cohesion one behind each ear. Still nothing. Lastly, 1 spray of Ascend around the Adam's apple. That one had a familiar smell....not sure if I've been around someone wearing it before or if it has some pheromone in it that I produced when I was younger but no longer do....? Anyway, that one made me feel a little more comfortable about the strange new smells on my body because it was somehow familiar. Overall, nothing really notable so I was anxious to see what my ex's response would be.
Day 2: About 20 minutes before seeing her, I apply the same as above (2 sprays XiST one on each side of the neck / 2 sprays Cohesion one behind each ear / 1 spray of Ascend around the Adam's Apple). I let those dry and then put on a spray of Hugo Boss to cover it up. She walks through the door and immediately says "what's that smell"? Being a bit paranoid, I ask what it smells like and she can't put her finger on it but eventually sets her mind to ease by blaming a new candle in my house. Normally our visits are brief but that day she stuck around and hung out for over an hour which is a REALLY rare event these days. Conversation was light and pleasant and there was plenty of eye contact and smiling.
Day 3 (4 days later): I decided I overdid it last time, so I used one spray of each product this time (1 XiST to the front neck / 1 Cohesion to the back of the neck / 1 Ascend front of neck above the XiST). I cover up this time with a cologne she's more familiar with - Aqua Di Gio. I go to her house and she immediately comments about the smell of my "candle" that I must have been burning all day. I haven't lit it in days so I know she's smelling the mones and it's confusing the heck out of her. I obviously didn't want to linger on this topic so I ask what it smells like and she says "chemicals" this time and continues to blame the candle and told me I should throw it away. After that, we had another pleasant visit with our kid and she was super friendly and let me stay longer than usual. In fact, I initiated leaving today rather than her politely shoving me out the door like she would have a few weeks ago.
Bottom line, I'm less skeptical about pheromones now. Two extended visits (in a row) with baby momma is a BIG deal. I'm really confused though about her initial reaction to the smell. I don't smell chemicals when I put this on.....after the alcohol dries anyway. Is there a possibility that she can really smell "chemicals" or is it more likely an alarm going off that something is different and she can't pinpoint it so she's looking for something to blame? Maybe I need to apply the mones an hour or more before I see her? Any suggestions on how to be more covert with this based on the fact that she already knows my signature and I'm trying to do a little "resetting" instead?
Day 1: Complete noob to mones. My order comes in the mail and I decide to try it out to see what the mones do to me personally. I started out one at a time about an hour apart with no cover up scents. First I applied 2 sprays of XiST on either side of my neck. No noticeable affects. After an hour, I added 2 sprays of Cohesion one behind each ear. Still nothing. Lastly, 1 spray of Ascend around the Adam's apple. That one had a familiar smell....not sure if I've been around someone wearing it before or if it has some pheromone in it that I produced when I was younger but no longer do....? Anyway, that one made me feel a little more comfortable about the strange new smells on my body because it was somehow familiar. Overall, nothing really notable so I was anxious to see what my ex's response would be.
Day 2: About 20 minutes before seeing her, I apply the same as above (2 sprays XiST one on each side of the neck / 2 sprays Cohesion one behind each ear / 1 spray of Ascend around the Adam's Apple). I let those dry and then put on a spray of Hugo Boss to cover it up. She walks through the door and immediately says "what's that smell"? Being a bit paranoid, I ask what it smells like and she can't put her finger on it but eventually sets her mind to ease by blaming a new candle in my house. Normally our visits are brief but that day she stuck around and hung out for over an hour which is a REALLY rare event these days. Conversation was light and pleasant and there was plenty of eye contact and smiling.
Day 3 (4 days later): I decided I overdid it last time, so I used one spray of each product this time (1 XiST to the front neck / 1 Cohesion to the back of the neck / 1 Ascend front of neck above the XiST). I cover up this time with a cologne she's more familiar with - Aqua Di Gio. I go to her house and she immediately comments about the smell of my "candle" that I must have been burning all day. I haven't lit it in days so I know she's smelling the mones and it's confusing the heck out of her. I obviously didn't want to linger on this topic so I ask what it smells like and she says "chemicals" this time and continues to blame the candle and told me I should throw it away. After that, we had another pleasant visit with our kid and she was super friendly and let me stay longer than usual. In fact, I initiated leaving today rather than her politely shoving me out the door like she would have a few weeks ago.
Bottom line, I'm less skeptical about pheromones now. Two extended visits (in a row) with baby momma is a BIG deal. I'm really confused though about her initial reaction to the smell. I don't smell chemicals when I put this on.....after the alcohol dries anyway. Is there a possibility that she can really smell "chemicals" or is it more likely an alarm going off that something is different and she can't pinpoint it so she's looking for something to blame? Maybe I need to apply the mones an hour or more before I see her? Any suggestions on how to be more covert with this based on the fact that she already knows my signature and I'm trying to do a little "resetting" instead?
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