I ordered Xist and cohesion, and SteveO generously sent samplers of love boat and evolve as well. Now I'm wondering how to best use these.
The girl that friendzoned me is a close friend. We've known each other for almost a year but have only been close friends since the summer. I asked her out in Feb/March-ish and initially she said yes but ended up cancelling because of personal issues (she may have been just dodging the situation). Over the summer we started hanging out a lot. She was dating this other guy who turned out to be a major jerk and she dumped him. I asked her out again a week or two after that, and she thought about it for a couple days but ended up shooting me down again.
so the plan ive pieced together is something like this:
- keep contact to a minimum for a week or two
- use xist as often as i can when i expect to hang out with her for more than a few minutes after that buffer week
i also heard somewhere that spraying xist on my pillows when she sleeps over would be good. Since we've been friends for a while, would it take a long time for any effects from xist to show? and any idea on when I might start to use cohesion or love boat?
The girl that friendzoned me is a close friend. We've known each other for almost a year but have only been close friends since the summer. I asked her out in Feb/March-ish and initially she said yes but ended up cancelling because of personal issues (she may have been just dodging the situation). Over the summer we started hanging out a lot. She was dating this other guy who turned out to be a major jerk and she dumped him. I asked her out again a week or two after that, and she thought about it for a couple days but ended up shooting me down again.
so the plan ive pieced together is something like this:
- keep contact to a minimum for a week or two
- use xist as often as i can when i expect to hang out with her for more than a few minutes after that buffer week
i also heard somewhere that spraying xist on my pillows when she sleeps over would be good. Since we've been friends for a while, would it take a long time for any effects from xist to show? and any idea on when I might start to use cohesion or love boat?
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