I'm a returning long time user (started ~12 years ago) of mones but was using a previous company before. New to XS and love the Reviews of Steve's products.
I have been seeing this woman for just under 2 months now. Next week will mark 2 months from first date. For each date I have been using 2-3 sprays of P75 applied to the chest and it seems to have worked really well up to this point.
She is newly divorced (going on 8 months), and had to call it quits after our 5th date due to something in the divorce, I'm assuming related to an ugly custody battle. 2 weeks later we hung out just as friends and went on a non date to go bowling, with her best friend joining us. We had talked about how I can be just her friend while she works thru this. She hasn't given a lot of details on what she's going thru other than she thinks it wouldn't be fair to involve me and it would drive us apart.
A week after this her and I go axe throwing for what I thought was another non date since she said she can't date right now. She corrected me and said it was a date even though she can't date, but she enjoys spending time with me too much and can't say no when I invite her out. She also said a few other things along the lines of she really can't date me but really wants to. This night ended really well with us both drinking more than normal and ending with a home run. This all happened Wednesday of last week.
the new revelations from this last non date turned date is that it's not that she isn't emotionally available, not that she isn't mentally capable, and not that she doesn't want to. she isn't getting back with him either. So the only thing I can think the issue would be is lack of time seeing each other, not meeting her daughter, not staying over at her place. All of which I'm perfectly ok with.
I am trying to secure a date for this week, either Tuesday or Thursday evening. And we have one date planned for Monday of next week. My plan if she agrees to Tuesday (tomorrow) is to add P83 to the mix to try and get her to open up more and break down the barrier of "I can't date" excuse she gives without giving a real explanation.
My first order of XS should be arriving Wednesday. So if she agrees to Thursday instead, I have the chance to use the new mones instead of my dwindling existing supply. And I still have Monday of next week.
my order from XS:
- Love Boat
- Bliss
- Boyfriend
- Evolve
- Ascend
- Cohesion
remaining inventory I have in my arsenal:
- P74
- P75
- P83
- P91
- P102
- TAA
- TAC
- TAK
for the goals of her letting her guard down so we can work thru the logistics of making a relationship work, and helping push her over the edge for wanting a relationship, what would you guys recommend? She already said more than once that she really likes me, enjoys spending time with me, and we have already gotten to sex. All of that is great and working well. She just needs that extra push for what she admitted while intoxicated that she does want but thinks she can't have: a relationship.
my first plan was bliss + cohesion + evolve based on Reviews from other users. And maybe mixing one spray of p83 in with this. After reading on this form, I'm considering adding Boyfriend to the mix, or maybe replacing Bliss with Boyfriend. I don't want to bomb her with too much.
any and all advice welcome! Thanks in advance
I have been seeing this woman for just under 2 months now. Next week will mark 2 months from first date. For each date I have been using 2-3 sprays of P75 applied to the chest and it seems to have worked really well up to this point.
She is newly divorced (going on 8 months), and had to call it quits after our 5th date due to something in the divorce, I'm assuming related to an ugly custody battle. 2 weeks later we hung out just as friends and went on a non date to go bowling, with her best friend joining us. We had talked about how I can be just her friend while she works thru this. She hasn't given a lot of details on what she's going thru other than she thinks it wouldn't be fair to involve me and it would drive us apart.
A week after this her and I go axe throwing for what I thought was another non date since she said she can't date right now. She corrected me and said it was a date even though she can't date, but she enjoys spending time with me too much and can't say no when I invite her out. She also said a few other things along the lines of she really can't date me but really wants to. This night ended really well with us both drinking more than normal and ending with a home run. This all happened Wednesday of last week.
the new revelations from this last non date turned date is that it's not that she isn't emotionally available, not that she isn't mentally capable, and not that she doesn't want to. she isn't getting back with him either. So the only thing I can think the issue would be is lack of time seeing each other, not meeting her daughter, not staying over at her place. All of which I'm perfectly ok with.
I am trying to secure a date for this week, either Tuesday or Thursday evening. And we have one date planned for Monday of next week. My plan if she agrees to Tuesday (tomorrow) is to add P83 to the mix to try and get her to open up more and break down the barrier of "I can't date" excuse she gives without giving a real explanation.
My first order of XS should be arriving Wednesday. So if she agrees to Thursday instead, I have the chance to use the new mones instead of my dwindling existing supply. And I still have Monday of next week.
my order from XS:
- Love Boat
- Bliss
- Boyfriend
- Evolve
- Ascend
- Cohesion
remaining inventory I have in my arsenal:
- P74
- P75
- P83
- P91
- P102
- TAA
- TAC
- TAK
for the goals of her letting her guard down so we can work thru the logistics of making a relationship work, and helping push her over the edge for wanting a relationship, what would you guys recommend? She already said more than once that she really likes me, enjoys spending time with me, and we have already gotten to sex. All of that is great and working well. She just needs that extra push for what she admitted while intoxicated that she does want but thinks she can't have: a relationship.
my first plan was bliss + cohesion + evolve based on Reviews from other users. And maybe mixing one spray of p83 in with this. After reading on this form, I'm considering adding Boyfriend to the mix, or maybe replacing Bliss with Boyfriend. I don't want to bomb her with too much.
any and all advice welcome! Thanks in advance
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