SORRY FOR BEING EXTREMELY SPECIFIC. ????
Male: South Asian
Age: 25
Location: Toronto(born and raised)
Desire: Women 19 to 27
Intention: Romance, One-Night stands and some attention(hey! I wanna be that cool kid that girls used to drool at higschool at lame jokes), attention and respect.
Strength: Able to read body language very well, past experience in pickup/self development, acquired enough knowledge to keep people interested in
convos(once they are interested). Past experience with Summer Ammo, A314(too intense, people felt intimidated and guys wanted to fight me in
clubs)
Weakness: Often felt like a ghost, people would not know I'm even there, people talking over me, people automatically thinking less of me, natural beta behaviour and body language still creeps up here and there despite working on self development.
Natural Body language: I speak kinda louder, faster and with expressive body language and head movements. Very much like this guy in this video. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q48L7R5YNJ8
Till I was 18, I was a very timid, shy and an introverted "nice guy". After getting rejected by couple of oneitises(one of them lasted for 4 years), I said enough is enough and started self development and pickup. By 20 I had few gfs, and I settled down with one of them. Now we have broken up after 5 years and Im getting back into dating/flirting/romance.
I'm not looking to be serious but some attraction would be nice. Also, growing up timid and shy I often felt like a ghost as if I didn't exist, so I also wanted some attention on me and don't mind some.....lots of attention. Communication is no problem when the girl is interested, but getting their attention was always difficult for me. I read body language very well, so naturally when females aren't interested, I get discouraged. Even when I tried pick up in the past I would always get "I didn't know you knew this much/interesting/funny/dirty)" and I was just shocked how first impression of me among women and men were negative. Also looking to be respected by men, used to get picked on at school, it doesn't happen now a days, but I noticed that if some guy tries to make fun of someone in order to look cool he'd generally try me first. I know how to easily turn it around and make him the butt-end of the joke and make him look immature but still why me ? Side track: I play a niche sport in Canada, unexpectedly I've become much better than I thought to a point where I practice with the national players. There are lot of competitive guys, they are naturally bigger and taller and I'm 5,6. So it is kind of natural to be looked down upon.
Situation: 1. Lots of clubs/events involving drinks and dance
2. Tinder dates
3. Respect(no need for Alpha god like respect as I can earn them by showing my skills) among men
My questions?(Can only go with 3 bottles for now)
1. Was planning to go with A.C.E pack then I thought maybe I should replace Ascend with Celebrity ?(I'm 5,6, I don't mind some attention in a large crowd and plus I know how to escalate once the respect and attention/attraction is on me)
2. I'll be meeting lots of girls during the day as well, so Xist over Cohesion ?
3. Out of Ascend, Cohesion, Celebrity, Xist and Evolve. Which 3 would best suit my situation and desires?
Male: South Asian
Age: 25
Location: Toronto(born and raised)
Desire: Women 19 to 27
Intention: Romance, One-Night stands and some attention(hey! I wanna be that cool kid that girls used to drool at higschool at lame jokes), attention and respect.
Strength: Able to read body language very well, past experience in pickup/self development, acquired enough knowledge to keep people interested in
convos(once they are interested). Past experience with Summer Ammo, A314(too intense, people felt intimidated and guys wanted to fight me in
clubs)
Weakness: Often felt like a ghost, people would not know I'm even there, people talking over me, people automatically thinking less of me, natural beta behaviour and body language still creeps up here and there despite working on self development.
Natural Body language: I speak kinda louder, faster and with expressive body language and head movements. Very much like this guy in this video. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q48L7R5YNJ8
Till I was 18, I was a very timid, shy and an introverted "nice guy". After getting rejected by couple of oneitises(one of them lasted for 4 years), I said enough is enough and started self development and pickup. By 20 I had few gfs, and I settled down with one of them. Now we have broken up after 5 years and Im getting back into dating/flirting/romance.
I'm not looking to be serious but some attraction would be nice. Also, growing up timid and shy I often felt like a ghost as if I didn't exist, so I also wanted some attention on me and don't mind some.....lots of attention. Communication is no problem when the girl is interested, but getting their attention was always difficult for me. I read body language very well, so naturally when females aren't interested, I get discouraged. Even when I tried pick up in the past I would always get "I didn't know you knew this much/interesting/funny/dirty)" and I was just shocked how first impression of me among women and men were negative. Also looking to be respected by men, used to get picked on at school, it doesn't happen now a days, but I noticed that if some guy tries to make fun of someone in order to look cool he'd generally try me first. I know how to easily turn it around and make him the butt-end of the joke and make him look immature but still why me ? Side track: I play a niche sport in Canada, unexpectedly I've become much better than I thought to a point where I practice with the national players. There are lot of competitive guys, they are naturally bigger and taller and I'm 5,6. So it is kind of natural to be looked down upon.
Situation: 1. Lots of clubs/events involving drinks and dance
2. Tinder dates
3. Respect(no need for Alpha god like respect as I can earn them by showing my skills) among men
My questions?(Can only go with 3 bottles for now)
1. Was planning to go with A.C.E pack then I thought maybe I should replace Ascend with Celebrity ?(I'm 5,6, I don't mind some attention in a large crowd and plus I know how to escalate once the respect and attention/attraction is on me)
2. I'll be meeting lots of girls during the day as well, so Xist over Cohesion ?
3. Out of Ascend, Cohesion, Celebrity, Xist and Evolve. Which 3 would best suit my situation and desires?
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