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    My 92 year old mother in law has been diagnosed with a large pelvic mass. She is on hospice care and they have taken her off all meds and just put her on Morphine & Zanex for pain and agitation. They will not do exploratory surgery, because, at this point, they fear it will kill her more quickly. She has been given a week. I reached for the "Cohesion" today, as I need to fit several pieces of puzzle together (getting my sister in law and her kids here, getting my daughter here, informing family, getting info from the funeral home, and later, starting to prep the house for the people who will be staying with us, all while trying to work). Hopefully, it makes me and all other parties play nicely. I just hope she passes quickly and without more suffering.

    Can anyone recommend anything for the stress of a funeral?
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    Last time I was in a funeral I had 2X of the huge 30ml bottle of Cohesion to keep calm and 1x of bliss (10ml bottle) to keep my mood up to support my friend who buried her brother.
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    • #3
      I was on the same page with Cohesion. I think that is what I'm going to reach for...
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      • #4
        L-theanine is a naturally occurring amino acid commonly found in tea (it's the compound that makes people feel calm when they drink tea). I can't say it will help immensely but it's good for helping to take the edge off during high stress situations.

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        • #5
          I used Bliss. Worked well. As well as received appreciations from other people during the situation about how I was always a good help to the demised subject.
          Like 200GT said take L Theanine, you get it in tablets or powder form. Drink black Indian tea along with it.
          Wish you all good

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          • #6
            Originally posted by 2000GT View Post
            L-theanine is a naturally occurring amino acid commonly found in tea (it's the compound that makes people feel calm when they drink tea). I can't say it will help immensely but it's good for helping to take the edge off during high stress situations.
            I have found that Tea is always good for comfort.
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            • #7
              I'm so sorry. I went through this with my dad and it was honestly the most difficult time in my life I have ever experienced. Its not easy. At first I wore some comforting blends around him, but nothing really worked. In the end I was just me and offered my love and compassion the best that I could. Pheromones didn't matter because he refused to take pain meds and the anxiety stuff but we kind of forced it on him. He was in such a terrible amount of pain but he fought it till the end.

              I'm going to say a prayer for you and your mom.

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              • Ildergreier
                Ildergreier commented
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                Sorry for your loss.

              • Ladyofthewoods
                Ladyofthewoods commented
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                Thank You Ildergreier.

            • #8
              Originally posted by SteveO View Post
              I'm so sorry. I went through this with my dad and it was honestly the most difficult time in my life I have ever experienced. Its not easy. At first I wore some comforting blends around him, but nothing really worked. In the end I was just me and offered my love and compassion the best that I could. Pheromones didn't matter because he refused to take pain meds and the anxiety stuff but we kind of forced it on him. He was in such a terrible amount of pain but he fought it till the end.

              I'm going to say a prayer for you and your mom.
              Thanks Steve. Yes this is hard, especially when they don't cut you a break on anything where you work. I've given all the love and compassion I have, and now all the family is coming to say goodbye, so I've moved to the back to just make sure everyone is fed . It's going to be a crazy weekend....
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              • #9
                I can't be of help... just wanted to send you a hug
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                • Ladyofthewoods
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                  Thanks Sweetie!

                • Cheerio
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                  Of course <3

              • #10
                I am sorry Ladyofthewoods about the hard time you are going through .
                You know you have you XS family by your side .
                Be strong

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                • #11
                  Non pheromone related, just make sure to take some time to breathe, and allow yourself to come to terms with the reality of the situation. Death is one of the hardest things to deal with, ever. Let alone try to do it in a healthy manner. Especially with hundreds of people trying to ask you when the funeral is, and trying to give "i'm so sorry for your loss" crap. Breathe.

                  When my gf died, I took 2 days off of work, and just processed through every emotion as best I could. I can't even remember if I was using pheromones at the time. I might have worn something to her funeral but I can't remember tbh. It was probably bliss, if anything.

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