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I’m about to order my first pheromones ever and have a doubt about some bitchy situations and how to deal with it through this chemical little help.
I work in a restaurant, which is a very bitchy environment. The boss (a man) is maître and, because of the pressions and charges which fall on him, sometimes he is rude to his coworkers (including me), sometimes without any reason. Most of the coworkers are women and gay man. I am a young woman, a newbie at the restaurant, I am pretty and I always try to make my service as perfect as possible, and maybe it makes some of these coworkers hate me. There’s a girl there who does not talk to me and tries to sabotage my work since we me met each other without any single reason. For these reason, these atmosphere is very dangerous and bitchy. And I really need to maintain this job.
The second situation is that I am a techno DJ. I invested much money and time in this profession because I love it and I’m trying to make my dream to became a professional star DJ come true. But in Brazil, to get gigs, the DJ is not chosen by the excellence of her/his work, but she/he has to be a part of a very restrict group of friends, which the party owners are in. And these people use to be very fake, superficial and bitchy. I do not like this people actually, but I need to think about myself.
Well. I have Borderline Personality Disorder. I suffer with self steem and confidence problems and it negatively affects my life and behavior very much. I need to be taken serious, gain respect. Be easy to talk in a very friendly way. But sometimes I want to be seen as someone who you have to be careful with, because I notice many people wants to say bad rumor on my back because of my appearance and my ambitions, even I do not do any harm to them.
What to you think, girls?
I’m about to order my first pheromones ever and have a doubt about some bitchy situations and how to deal with it through this chemical little help.
I work in a restaurant, which is a very bitchy environment. The boss (a man) is maître and, because of the pressions and charges which fall on him, sometimes he is rude to his coworkers (including me), sometimes without any reason. Most of the coworkers are women and gay man. I am a young woman, a newbie at the restaurant, I am pretty and I always try to make my service as perfect as possible, and maybe it makes some of these coworkers hate me. There’s a girl there who does not talk to me and tries to sabotage my work since we me met each other without any single reason. For these reason, these atmosphere is very dangerous and bitchy. And I really need to maintain this job.
The second situation is that I am a techno DJ. I invested much money and time in this profession because I love it and I’m trying to make my dream to became a professional star DJ come true. But in Brazil, to get gigs, the DJ is not chosen by the excellence of her/his work, but she/he has to be a part of a very restrict group of friends, which the party owners are in. And these people use to be very fake, superficial and bitchy. I do not like this people actually, but I need to think about myself.
Well. I have Borderline Personality Disorder. I suffer with self steem and confidence problems and it negatively affects my life and behavior very much. I need to be taken serious, gain respect. Be easy to talk in a very friendly way. But sometimes I want to be seen as someone who you have to be careful with, because I notice many people wants to say bad rumor on my back because of my appearance and my ambitions, even I do not do any harm to them.
What to you think, girls?
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