Party this weekend...next experiment!

[Dancing Orchid]

It's time for my brother's monthly party again, & you know what that means...time to put on my proverbial lab coat & experiment! ????
Not sure if my crush will be there or not, but 2 of my single guy friends will be. I'm thinking of using either PSEL by itself, or combining it with Xist.
I've recently found my inner elbows to be great application points for me. They seem to give off more heat than my wrists or my neck, & may give off better exposure there. I'm also tempted to try the top of my head, as that's usually a warm spot, especially in my bro's apartment (72°).
I'm curious to see how this affects the other people there, but mostly my 2 guy friends & my crush (if he comes). ????

[Arsenic]

Look forward to your results

[Loquisimo]

It's time for my brother's monthly party again, & you know what that means...time to put on my proverbial lab coat & experiment! ????
Not sure if my crush will be there or not, but 2 of my single guy friends will be. I'm thinking of using either PSEL by itself, or combining it with Xist.
I've recently found my inner elbows to be great application points for me. They seem to give off more heat than my wrists or my neck, & may give off better exposure there. I'm also tempted to try the top of my head, as that's usually a warm spot, especially in my bro's apartment (72°).
I'm curious to see how this affects the other people there, but mostly my 2 guy friends & my crush (if he comes). ????

How many sprays of each product are you planning to apply?

[Dancing Orchid]

If I use PSEL solo, 2 sprays split between each elbow.
If I use PSEL & Xist together, 1 spray of each

[brac3r]

whoa picking up at your brothers party, I like it

I'd continue to hit him with xist.

[Dancing Orchid]

Sounds good. I'm thinking 1 spray of each... They both have different cover scents, so I'm wondering if I should split one between my inner elbows & spritz the other on top my head?

[brac3r]

oh darn different scents :( I'm not sure what the prevailing wisdom of this is, as long as it's not too weird of a resulting smell and gets them to breathe in the mones...

[RTBoss]

Alrighty, it's Sunday, where's the update!?

[Dancing Orchid]

Okay, so the "party" was more like a regular hangout...my bro's roommate didn't make the announcement on FB, & didn't feel like having a big get together this time, so there were only about 6 of us in total. 2 of my single guy friends were there (1 of which I really didn't want any attention from), & my crush was a no- show ( he didn't miss much, but I'll see him at next week's game night).
Anyway, I used 1 spray Xist, split between both elbows, & 1 spray PSEL on top of my head, then dabbed my elbows on top. (Surprisingly the Amber Rose & Le Chocolat cover scents smell good together...kind of a sexy spicy chocolate). Not too much out of the ordinary, though one of my single guy friends told me he liked my perfume. I think I'll try this combo again @ next week's game night, when my crush will be there. ????

[Arsenic]

Okay, so the "party" was more like a regular hangout...my bro's roommate didn't make the announcement on FB, & didn't feel like having a big get together this time, so there were only about 6 of us in total. 2 of my single guy friends were there (1 of which I really didn't want any attention from), & my crush was a no- show ( he didn't miss much, but I'll see him at next week's game night).
Anyway, I used 1 spray Xist, split between both elbows, & 1 spray PSEL on top of my head, then dabbed my elbows on top. (Surprisingly the Amber Rose & Le Chocolat cover scents smell good together...kind of a sexy spicy chocolate). Not too much out of the ordinary, though one of my single guy friends told me he liked my perfume. I think I'll try this combo again @ next week's game night, when my crush will be there. ????

Bummer, let's hope next week has a bigger turnout! Flirt a bit with one of your guy friends (the friend should be told ahead of time) to make your crush jealous.

[Dancing Orchid]

Bummer, let's hope next week has a bigger turnout! Flirt a bit with one of your guy friends (the friend should be told ahead of time) to make your crush jealous.

Funny you should mention that...I've actually been thinking about that a little, along with ignoring him a little (without being mean) while exposing him to Xist again. Could this be helpful too? I'm not really good at flirting, & the fact I'm introverted doesn't help...

[Arsenic]

I wouldnt go about ignoring him because he could get mad. If you take away attention in a playful way then thats acceptable, however.

[Dancing Orchid]

True...I certainly don't wanna be mean...any tips on how I can playfully take my attention away? (Sorry...not really good at this stuff lol)

[Arsenic]

For example you can talk to him while sitting next to him on the couch then put your hand on his leg as you turn your head to talk with someone else.

[brac3r]

Anyway, I used 1 spray Xist, split between both elbows, & 1 spray PSEL on top of my head, then dabbed my elbows on top. (Surprisingly the Amber Rose & Le Chocolat cover scents smell good together...kind of a sexy spicy chocolate). Not too much out of the ordinary, though one of my single guy friends told me he liked my perfume. I think I'll try this combo again @ next week's game night, when my crush will be there. ????

You going to be using that mix again?

[Dancing Orchid]

Definitely! Inner elbows seems to be my best app point, & for a gaming night, this seems like a good choice.

[RTBoss]

I think you'll find that your neck, underside of wrists, and inner elbows are all decent locals - but my first two areas of choice are always neck and wrists. Then again, I wear enough product at once to hit 'em all...

[Wizard]

I see everyone talking about different application points... so you shouldn't apply more than one different products to a single point?

[RTBoss]

You can. I usually don't, but it's not a big deal if you're not mixing oils and alcohols.

When you use a spray over an oil, you're changing the rate of diffusion. Oils typically contain much more concentration of pheromone, and diffuse at a slower rate. So if you're spraying onto an oil, you may get overwhelmed by negative self-effects, or turn other people off.

Then again, sometimes it's fun to play with that. I've sent women into acting like spazzes, not knowing what to do with themselves. I think it's hilarious, but that's me.

[Wizard]

hahaha. sounds interesting. good to know about covering the oils.. i wont have any of those, but good info for the future.

[Dancing Orchid]

Update on Saturday's game night. Total disaster! He decided not to come...AGAIN! This is the 3rd event now he didn't show up (2 parties & this game night)...I'm beginning to take it personally...
The only thing that happened was my brother, his roommate (who is like a brother), & our 1 friend who actually came ended up consoling me as I was crying...& it wasn't the pheros doing that, either...that's just the kind of people they are.
Sheesh, I can't even get a crush on a timid, geeky guy right...I feel so hurt, angry, sad, & just like a failure... We used to be close, then he just ghosted away...I thought pheros could help bring him closer again, but they can't do that if he's not there... Hell, I'm even trying to change myself on the inside in hopes that he'll take notice... Perhaps I should give up on this guy... ????????????

[RTBoss]

Why don't you text him and tell him you look forward to seeing him? Or text him a "What's up? Didn't see you at the party the other night." See what he says.

[Dancing Orchid]

Already messaged him on FB a few days before our game night...no response. I didn't think of texting him on his phone...