My hubby is not the alpha , take charge type. I believe I mentioned that in my journal. He tends to be very laid back and just thinks that everything is going to fix itself or work out without much effort on his part. In addition, if something gets to difficult he is most likely to back down. Roll all of that up in a fear or rejection wrap because of his ex who totally killed his manhood and made him feel like nothing.
I know that with me his confidence has grown , he tries to be more take charge but it is so rare and not consistent that it causes me to be overly aggressive and frustrated sometimes. As you can imagine, that outburst causes a relapse on his progress and I am not sure what I can do and how long it will take to get him to dominant me the way I want him to.
Saying out loud now it seems kind of silly. I mean, I guess you can't change someone's personality. I however always believed it is not in a true mans nature to be otherwise. Circumstances and fear may cause him to act like that but deep down inside every man has a lion waiting to be released.
HELP!
I know that with me his confidence has grown , he tries to be more take charge but it is so rare and not consistent that it causes me to be overly aggressive and frustrated sometimes. As you can imagine, that outburst causes a relapse on his progress and I am not sure what I can do and how long it will take to get him to dominant me the way I want him to.
Saying out loud now it seems kind of silly. I mean, I guess you can't change someone's personality. I however always believed it is not in a true mans nature to be otherwise. Circumstances and fear may cause him to act like that but deep down inside every man has a lion waiting to be released.
HELP!
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