What is your ideal woman/future wife like?

[Cheerio]

I know you fellas always see us talking about the things we require of/dislike about men, but what do you guys require of the woman you'd picture yourself marrying or at least being in a relationship with long term? There is no right or wrong answer; as a matter of fact, I totally encourage very honest answers (like, brutally honest). What is important to you in a wife?

I think it'd be interesting and great to see things from a guy's point of view.

[OppaiDesu]

good with kids

[GHOST]

Feminine
submissive
loyal
Honest
Sex addict

[Cheerio]

good with kids

You're quite the simple guy, lol.

Feminine
submissive
loyal
Honest
Sex addict

How high/low do you think your chances are at finding these kinds of women?

[Muestereate]

And the winner is...

[GHOST]

You're quite the simple guy, lol.


How high/low do you think your chances are at finding these kinds of women?

Quite high if I subtract the honesty and being loyal.

[Cheerio]

Same, lol NuTrix LOL. You know you can have honesty and loyalty, right?! Haha

[GHOST]

There are some unicorns out there sure.

[NuTrix]

Whinny!LOL!

[drlove]

I actually have my list - and will throw it away when I find "the one" Needs to be spiritual above all - a woman of faith. wise, I also like and agree with @OppaiDesu about being good with children (big deal for me - I'm struggling with this one - met high quality women who won't have more children - so that could fall off the list as a criteria for me, eventually - don't have any kids and want them), needs to have a great personality, e.g. great socially or a good wing-person because I am constantly in a "shark tank" - a person who can see things I miss....She doesn't need to have same interests, but a few similar ones are always good. I am very musical (VERY), so needs to be able to put up with that Trustworthiness, service oriented, etc. I read somewhere that selflessness is the highest predictor of relationship success - the two parties need to put each other first, so that is high on the list. Of course, physical attraction is a must....Loyal! Total fidelity to each other is a must. Low maintenance, although I can give attention like nobody's business (for the emotionally needy, I'm an easy target that way - highly compassionate). I don't really care if she works or not; however, I agree with GHOST that there is something to be said for feminine qualities in a women - I appreciate women who understand that there are differences between men and women. I'm kind of a traditional guy - open doors for women, etc. It's just the way I was raised. That she shares same values - particularly religious, hopefully political (although political lines are really messed-up these days) - is extremely important to me. Of course, gotta be humorous - I can be a prankster. Romantic - I'm a romantic. Good communicator, blah blah....OK, I guess this is a tall order....well, you asked

[Muestereate]

Spiritual is high on my list too, I'm going to have to start going to church again. So many women are into this selfish forms of spirituality/witchcraft that they can't see past their own desires. They can't see that 1 and 1 makes three. Teamwork creates more than a sole pursuit. What goes on to day is more like 1 minus 1 and each person ends up with less than they brought into a marriage or ltr. Lawyers are like vultures looking for that 30 percent crumb.I guess the banks suck a good bit or the marrow too with foreclosures and repos.

You may want to take a look at low maintenance though, is it really congruent with a lack of selfishness on your part? And good looks cost money. A billion dollars and even your 70 year old wife can look hot, when your 70.

[MaliciousIntent]

Honest, sexual and doesnt use sex against me, can have a back and forth conversation with me, decent self esteem, composure when stressed out publicly, ok with me being a bread winner, wants kids, some type of career goal/dream. You know being a well adjusted human. For looks, short, wide hips, perky tits of any size, long hair, any race.

Am I picky?

[Hunteraxl]

Someone who is supportive enough to be understanding and interested in my hobbies and interests. A person who is supportive even when they don't approve or like something you do until the end is the thing that seals the deal for me.

[ChasingAHigh]

you mean like dealbreakers? then:




child rearing

sacrificing or living for only her kids, or me

too selfless

important values differ way way way too much






I don’t think I’d marry or enter a ltr if the above was true, i’d “require” the above not be true.