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Soooooo what to wear to a party...
I wanted to put this together to explain how I decide what to wear to a party or casual social event. Although there are many formulas to wear to be liked, the question is in what way do you want to be liked?
When I go to a party, I think in terms of a formula that is going to display my personality, but which side of my personality do I want to display?
You see, I hear too many guys thinking that if they want to have sex to use sexual mones. But that sometimes will work. Other times, there might be better approaches. Also there is the idea that having people like you can be important. I've seen enough men who are these “I want to have more sex” guys, and they are loners with no real friends because they are so focused on sex they are not paying attention to their social lives. If the guys like you and the women do also, then you can start to have more friends and more opportunities in life. If you're restricted to focusing on sex, then that might be all you have and even if that sounds great now, in a number of years it might be very lonely.
One thing that I've noticed is that some of these formulas are more about respect whereas others are more about popularity and likability.
Aqua Vita by Liquid Alchemy Labs... as much as I like Aqua Vita and as many good things I could say about it, I probably will not order it again. I'll explain why in a bit. I've noticed with Aqua Vita, it's like I'm a cool guy who gets lot's of respect. However, it's a formula that you likely have to sexually escalate fast or the woman loses interest. I just had that happen to me the other day, too. I just dislike that whole fast thing. What's the rush? Also, Bad Wolf may have some imprinting abilities in it. Given that Aqua Vita and Bad Wolf have many of the same effects, and that Bad Wolf may have imprinting abilities, I'd rather just spend the extra $18 or so and get Bad Wolf.
Bad Wolf by Liquid Alchemy Labs. This can be a tricky one for some people. Some people say there is an intimidating aspect to it. I've NEVER had that problem. When I wear it, I get treated with almost reverence. Very high respect. I need to do the approaching because I think they are less likely to approach me. I've seen people be very happy and social around me. Maybe even a bit rambunctious.
Wolf by Liquid Alchemy Labs... when I wear Wolf, I think I tend to present as a leader of opinion when wearing this. Maybe even perceived as a group leader. Definite VIP status, a bit formal but approachable. High respect.
Sooooo Api. Cool guy formula. People like being around me when I wear this and I'm just a cool guy they like being around. Likable. Very casual.
Celebrity. I think of this as “local celebrity”. Like I'm the most popular local DJ or the anchorman who reads the city's evening news. Approachable. Casual. Very likable. They listen to me intently.
Sport xs147... Now every one is glad to see me when I wear this. I'm like Mr. Popular. It's like the party can finally start when I arrive and everyone feels excited to see me.
Ascend. This is like the successful guy. A high flier. I do NOT get the copulins in this. I just don't want to be wearing a business/professional type formula that says “Look at me! I just had sex!”
Overdose by Liquid Alchemy Labs... I don't know how really to describe this in terms of a personality. Very social yet sexual. People have fun around me when I wear it. They regard me as being in a leadership position. They will follow my lead, laugh at my jokes, seek rapport with me. It seems to me that people can become very passive in that if I'm not initiating and leading when using Overdose, they get awkward and start looking around. So when I wear this, I lead, lead, lead.
Sooooo I hope this helps give you ideas about what to wear to a party or casual social event when you go.
I wanted to put this together to explain how I decide what to wear to a party or casual social event. Although there are many formulas to wear to be liked, the question is in what way do you want to be liked?
When I go to a party, I think in terms of a formula that is going to display my personality, but which side of my personality do I want to display?
You see, I hear too many guys thinking that if they want to have sex to use sexual mones. But that sometimes will work. Other times, there might be better approaches. Also there is the idea that having people like you can be important. I've seen enough men who are these “I want to have more sex” guys, and they are loners with no real friends because they are so focused on sex they are not paying attention to their social lives. If the guys like you and the women do also, then you can start to have more friends and more opportunities in life. If you're restricted to focusing on sex, then that might be all you have and even if that sounds great now, in a number of years it might be very lonely.
One thing that I've noticed is that some of these formulas are more about respect whereas others are more about popularity and likability.
Aqua Vita by Liquid Alchemy Labs... as much as I like Aqua Vita and as many good things I could say about it, I probably will not order it again. I'll explain why in a bit. I've noticed with Aqua Vita, it's like I'm a cool guy who gets lot's of respect. However, it's a formula that you likely have to sexually escalate fast or the woman loses interest. I just had that happen to me the other day, too. I just dislike that whole fast thing. What's the rush? Also, Bad Wolf may have some imprinting abilities in it. Given that Aqua Vita and Bad Wolf have many of the same effects, and that Bad Wolf may have imprinting abilities, I'd rather just spend the extra $18 or so and get Bad Wolf.
Bad Wolf by Liquid Alchemy Labs. This can be a tricky one for some people. Some people say there is an intimidating aspect to it. I've NEVER had that problem. When I wear it, I get treated with almost reverence. Very high respect. I need to do the approaching because I think they are less likely to approach me. I've seen people be very happy and social around me. Maybe even a bit rambunctious.
Wolf by Liquid Alchemy Labs... when I wear Wolf, I think I tend to present as a leader of opinion when wearing this. Maybe even perceived as a group leader. Definite VIP status, a bit formal but approachable. High respect.
Sooooo Api. Cool guy formula. People like being around me when I wear this and I'm just a cool guy they like being around. Likable. Very casual.
Celebrity. I think of this as “local celebrity”. Like I'm the most popular local DJ or the anchorman who reads the city's evening news. Approachable. Casual. Very likable. They listen to me intently.
Sport xs147... Now every one is glad to see me when I wear this. I'm like Mr. Popular. It's like the party can finally start when I arrive and everyone feels excited to see me.
Ascend. This is like the successful guy. A high flier. I do NOT get the copulins in this. I just don't want to be wearing a business/professional type formula that says “Look at me! I just had sex!”
Overdose by Liquid Alchemy Labs... I don't know how really to describe this in terms of a personality. Very social yet sexual. People have fun around me when I wear it. They regard me as being in a leadership position. They will follow my lead, laugh at my jokes, seek rapport with me. It seems to me that people can become very passive in that if I'm not initiating and leading when using Overdose, they get awkward and start looking around. So when I wear this, I lead, lead, lead.
Sooooo I hope this helps give you ideas about what to wear to a party or casual social event when you go.
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