I Need a personality change.

[mightybearseven]

Hello all! I just wanted to ping the community about something I've been thinking about lately. I personally need a personality change.

I have had a lot of struggles in the last few years and I have gone from outgoing, fun and funny to introvert, cold and grim.

I would like to start using a pheromone product to help me be more comfortable living in today and guide me towards that.

Any ideas?

I currently use AV as a daily driver and Cohesion around my lady but that is it. I am looking for something with a good self affect.

Thanks

[SharksFan]

The biggest part of a personality change is making positive changes in your life, but there are certainly pheromones that can actively help. Just keep in mind that sometimes it might not work as intended.

For self effect I've had some good results with Vibes, Bliss, Taboo, Xist and Enone. Not together, mind you.

Vibes makes conversation flow easier and makes interaction feel more natural, and Bliss helps to edge out a little bit of anxiety to help you feel a bit calmer. A dab of Enone oil on the upper lip is a pretty big ego boost, and makes you feel like you could take on most anything. Taboo adds a tiny bit of that confidence, but with a more social side that makes you feel like you stand out a bit. Xist adds some energy and pep, makes you feel different; it also enhances to effects of the others a bit, it seems.

Also, some of the ladies in the unixsexy section seem to have had some good results with XS144 Outspoken, one of the beta products.

Careful what you mix and use, however. A good example is Xist; it's a great product, but on the back end it tends to make me crash.

Just throwing out a little food for thought. Take my words with a grain of salt; I've only been at it a few months, and those are just my personal experiences. The effects seem to vary person to person.

[KateD]

Bear! Your forum info says you have 6 posts but I couldn't find any other and I couldn't find out whether you had already put in an intro or not. Just in case, I am giving you a hearty welcome to our awesome community and look forward to giving you the support you need to get you on the right track and keep you there.

We all go through the same things life. We are all trying to find ourselves because the world is constantly bombarding us with this an idea or image of how we should be. You also have a lot of people breaking free and out of that box and being an example to us.Not so we can be like them but so we can find us and break free from the chains that seeks to define us.

Who can define you and know you better than YOU

XS is all for progress and changing for the better but I want to make sure you are making these adjusting for the right reasons and there is some structure and order in this. Your statement " I have had a lot of struggles in the last few years and I have gone from outgoing, fun and funny to introvert, cold and grim." shows that you are all over the place and am not quite sure how to pin point what is going on here

I don't want to just start throwing pheromone suggestions at you unless I know for sure what are the inner workings of your clock and what makes you tick

Are you going from personality to personality trying to please someone or trying to figure out what it is ppl want from you? Do you go from extreme highs and lows constantly and suffer from depression?

Do you have set goals and a vision and need help working towards that or are you still trying to figure out what you want and feel pheromones can help you with that

Let me know more so I can be there for you and guide any way I can

[elvin.tan77]

Yup, agree with both of the fellas above. Don't forget, changes come from within so to make a personality change, it has to come from within too. I have a feeling this has something to do with your lady so perhaps you can shed more light so that we can better guide you? By the way, Cohesion is good for keeping you calm too.

[mightybearseven]

Bear! Your forum info says you have 6 posts but I couldn't find any other and I couldn't find out whether you had already put in an intro or not. Just in case, I am giving you a hearty welcome to our awesome community and look forward to giving you the support you need to get you on the right track and keep you there.

We all go through the same things life. We are all trying to find ourselves because the world is constantly bombarding us with this an idea or image of how we should be. You also have a lot of people breaking free and out of that box and being an example to us.Not so we can be like them but so we can find us and break free from the chains that seeks to define us.

Who can define you and know you better than YOU

XS is all for progress and changing for the better but I want to make sure you are making these adjusting for the right reasons and there is some structure and order in this. Your statement " I have had a lot of struggles in the last few years and I have gone from outgoing, fun and funny to introvert, cold and grim." shows that you are all over the place and am not quite sure how to pin point what is going on here

I don't want to just start throwing pheromone suggestions at you unless I know for sure what are the inner workings of your clock and what makes you tick

Are you going from personality to personality trying to please someone or trying to figure out what it is ppl want from you? Do you go from extreme highs and lows constantly and suffer from depression?

Do you have set goals and a vision and need help working towards that or are you still trying to figure out what you want and feel pheromones can help you with that

Let me know more so I can be there for you and guide any way I can

Hey thanks for the response. To sum up what I'm looking to do-

Because of the last few very difficult years I lost my optimism and I live solely in the future worrying and stressing and missing out on today. I have become a sour and somewhat bitter person. The change I'm looking for is for ME and no one else. I want to live in the today again and be happy and optimistic and let go of some of the baggage I have acquired. I am looking for personal growth and my theory was I could help reinforce a happier, confident and carefree attitude using mones. I was hoping that over time if I can maintain a better way of thinking, my brain would adjust and it would be the new me.

Thanks!

[The_Harlequin]

This book is one i highly recommend if your looking for self improvement and confidence building, and an excellent resource for helping to attract women,

Rules of the Game by Neil Strauss

[Xcc]

mightybearseven In addition to mones, this book has helped me: Feeling Good by David Burns. It helped change my attitude about many things by changing how I think and then my feelings changed for the better.

[KateD]

Hey thanks for the response. To sum up what I'm looking to do-

Because of the last few very difficult years I lost my optimism and I live solely in the future worrying and stressing and missing out on today. I have become a sour and somewhat bitter person. The change I'm looking for is for ME and no one else. I want to live in the today again and be happy and optimistic and let go of some of the baggage I have acquired. I am looking for personal growth and my theory was I could help reinforce a happier, confident and carefree attitude using mones. I was hoping that over time if I can maintain a better way of thinking, my brain would adjust and it would be the new me.

Thanks!

Sorry for the late reply. I did read your thread once you posted it but I got caught up.

I am delighted to know that the change is for YOU. You know why. Once you make a change for YOU , more than likely that change will remain forever. So you are already on the right track.

Realizing that you needed to do something to make a positive change in your life is awesome. I commend you for that and support you 100%

Life seems to be a big stick constantly beating us down, it doesn't seem like society and everything around us was made to pull us up but rather bring us down. Depending on our personalities and the way our life is , it can do just that. It is easier to look at the glass half empty than half full

You are a wonderful person and everyone including you need to know it , see it and experience it.

I too can be sort of a worry worm and let life get the best of me. Steve is so amazing and at pulling me out of those black holes and re directing my mind to a better and more positive place

Pheromones can help but I also suggest doing loads of activities that are products, positive and in line with your goals for life. Heck, a clear vision and goal to work towards is one of the first things

Once you establish were you want to be, take steps towards those goals everyday and be conscious of that which may take you further away from your goals

Here is a vid that Steve shared with me and I watch is every so often for that GET OF YOUR BUT AND GET YOUR LIFE TOGETHER MOTIVATION

[Leslie]

mightybearseven glad to hear you are wanting to better your life for you!! As many people have already said the first step in any type of happiness starts with YOU <3 I can relate to worrying and stressing about the future and never enjoying the now. I have recently started using Bliss and WOW!!! The self effects I feel are *almost indescribable I recently have had some pretty bad family issues with my children (any one that knows me personally will 100% tell you my kids are my WHOLE world) and at some points the worry I was feeling was crushing me spiritually and emotionally. Along with great support from an AMAZING boss and co-workers and using Bliss my moods have completely made a 180. When I use bliss I feel like the "now" is just as important as the future. I am happy and fell like my world is spinning in the right direction again. I appreciate the little things and the basic beauty of the world makes me smile To put it quite simply I feel happy, and when you feel unhappy for so long the simplicity of being able to smile over the little things is a blessing. I believe that bliss has made a huge difference for me, but don't forget that a good support system can be just as important!!

[eternitys_child]

Hey, you're definitely amongst the right group of people as far as personal development is concerned!

However, for the purpose you mention, I can point you in the direction of something that's not pheromones, but something I swear by and continue to use since Jan 2015, along side pheromones.

I'll send you a pm

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eternitys_child Excuse me, I would love to know what direction you're pointing in... Would you please PM me as well?