hello again and thanks for stopping by
its been a hell of a few weeks (or month? im not sure how long its been since i posted) and i have a lot to tell everyone. couldn't think of a better title or were to post this.
the last time i posted, i mentioned that i was about to see a person of interest after a while of not talking to her and that i was practically nervous and kind of scared of this new unknown of mone usage and whether or not it would get me another chance to start over or at least make things right.
i mean, using mones in the car for work has given me amazing results with random people i never thought possible. especially with my shy and anti-social nature that im used to. but using it on someone of interest was a new battlefield i didn't want to mess up again.
well im glad to report that it works. so much so that im not sure how to describe this feeling. like, i know how it works, but seeing it in action is just like how this community describes it; "Black magic voodoo".
as usual, ill make a spoiler box and leave a TL;DR at the bottom.
alright now that i got all that out of the way
heres the TL;DR
mones work! so much so that things are changing hella fast. we talk for hours again like we used to and it feels nice. but the conversations are now changing and things are gravitating towards sexual themes and i have very little experience with it.
last time i talked to her, she was mentioning about her own body like her ass or her breasts and how she hates herself visually and im not sure how to respond. she also talked about sex stuff, like size and what not (yes, we are all adults here, but id rather stay safe and not derail the post). i want to be confident and respond in a way that she can agree with or maybe find charming i guess, but ive never done crap like this before and im at a mental roadblock at this time. this is like the second conversation ive had like this, first one being not too overt and second one being more into it than the first and i dont want to be caught unprepared.
women of the forum! (and men too), how should a man respond to a woman who doesnt like herself or hates the way she looks? how do you respond to women on a topic in which they dont view themselves positively?
also
any advice on how to handle sexual topics from here on out into the future? any pschyology tricks or rules... or maybe a book or article to read about socializing in manners like these?
ive read a thread here that someone posted about psych clues to look out for like body language and things that indicate that she is interested, which was informing.
just want some opinions on how i should handle this and how i can improve here. thank you
its been a hell of a few weeks (or month? im not sure how long its been since i posted) and i have a lot to tell everyone. couldn't think of a better title or were to post this.
the last time i posted, i mentioned that i was about to see a person of interest after a while of not talking to her and that i was practically nervous and kind of scared of this new unknown of mone usage and whether or not it would get me another chance to start over or at least make things right.
i mean, using mones in the car for work has given me amazing results with random people i never thought possible. especially with my shy and anti-social nature that im used to. but using it on someone of interest was a new battlefield i didn't want to mess up again.
well im glad to report that it works. so much so that im not sure how to describe this feeling. like, i know how it works, but seeing it in action is just like how this community describes it; "Black magic voodoo".
as usual, ill make a spoiler box and leave a TL;DR at the bottom.
Spoiler:
alright now that i got all that out of the way
heres the TL;DR
mones work! so much so that things are changing hella fast. we talk for hours again like we used to and it feels nice. but the conversations are now changing and things are gravitating towards sexual themes and i have very little experience with it.
last time i talked to her, she was mentioning about her own body like her ass or her breasts and how she hates herself visually and im not sure how to respond. she also talked about sex stuff, like size and what not (yes, we are all adults here, but id rather stay safe and not derail the post). i want to be confident and respond in a way that she can agree with or maybe find charming i guess, but ive never done crap like this before and im at a mental roadblock at this time. this is like the second conversation ive had like this, first one being not too overt and second one being more into it than the first and i dont want to be caught unprepared.
women of the forum! (and men too), how should a man respond to a woman who doesnt like herself or hates the way she looks? how do you respond to women on a topic in which they dont view themselves positively?
also
any advice on how to handle sexual topics from here on out into the future? any pschyology tricks or rules... or maybe a book or article to read about socializing in manners like these?
ive read a thread here that someone posted about psych clues to look out for like body language and things that indicate that she is interested, which was informing.
just want some opinions on how i should handle this and how i can improve here. thank you
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