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I wanted to share some things over time that I've learned. If we live with human inventions - of which spraybottle pheromones are one - it seems we try to put the reins on nature, to get consistent results from a mercurial natural world, of which our human bodies - and more to the point - other human bodies - are a part.
We have tried to make a pushbutton world to live in, but our reactions as humans are not consistent.
I'm reminded of a little known Paul Simon song:
Nature gives us shapeless shapes
Clouds and waves and flame
But human expectation is
That love remains the same.
And when it isn't
We point our fingers
And blame, blame, blame
So, all that being said, what have you noticed in yourself or others, that might make pheromone reactions inconsistent? Or is there a similar link on another site that addresses this subject also?
I bring this up, not to throw doubt on pheromone use, but quite the opposite, to show the value of consistent use over time in determining what effect a pheromone may have. And the complaint some very few may have, "My new mones didn't work yesterday. Now I'll try moaning on a forum."
As an easy example, we know A-1 has more impact on a woman outside of when she is ovulating.
Are we so certain that only A-1 has this effect?
And that men's hormones do not fluctuate?
Knowing this, in the common scenario of:
"Help me, there's this girl I see frequently that I like! How do I avoid fear of rejection by compelling her (via pheromones) to greet me and ask me for a date out of the blue when I pass by near her?"
To be hypothetically shortly followed by:
"Help me, there's this girl I'm going on a date with soon! How do I avoid fear of rape accusations by compelling her (via pheromones) to propose sleeping with me though we barely know each other?"
(Edit: Do I sound snarky? I'm genuinely sorry. There is truth in humor, and I am trying to help.)
in the common one target scenario above, I would think a wise rule of thumb would be to use a mix for a month to make sure you hit her fertility window, or whatever other windows other pheromones might need to synchronize with.
So with out further ado... On to the topic:
Subject's...
...mother died yesterday
...hormones are out of whack
Subject...
...just found out their father was cheating on their mother
...is fighting off a cold
...already has had their eye on someone else for a long time
...has a friend in a crisis
...took the wrong medication
...needs to use the bathroom, but haven't had time to go
...is embarrassed about a silent fart they let out just before you walked up
...is thinking about how to deal with any of the above
I hope this is of some use to those of you that are new to this, or are easily discouraged.... the basic point is that other people's lives are just as complex as yours, and pheromones are not a cheat code. They may unlock the door, but you should still expect to turn the knob and push. Don't just polish the knob and wait for the door to open by itself.
Kindly,
Quicksilver
i will repeat:
So, all that being said, what have you noticed in yourself or others, that might make pheromone reactions inconsistent? Or is there a similar link on another site that addresses this subject also?
We have tried to make a pushbutton world to live in, but our reactions as humans are not consistent.
I'm reminded of a little known Paul Simon song:
Nature gives us shapeless shapes
Clouds and waves and flame
But human expectation is
That love remains the same.
And when it isn't
We point our fingers
And blame, blame, blame
So, all that being said, what have you noticed in yourself or others, that might make pheromone reactions inconsistent? Or is there a similar link on another site that addresses this subject also?
I bring this up, not to throw doubt on pheromone use, but quite the opposite, to show the value of consistent use over time in determining what effect a pheromone may have. And the complaint some very few may have, "My new mones didn't work yesterday. Now I'll try moaning on a forum."
As an easy example, we know A-1 has more impact on a woman outside of when she is ovulating.
Are we so certain that only A-1 has this effect?
And that men's hormones do not fluctuate?
Knowing this, in the common scenario of:
"Help me, there's this girl I see frequently that I like! How do I avoid fear of rejection by compelling her (via pheromones) to greet me and ask me for a date out of the blue when I pass by near her?"
To be hypothetically shortly followed by:
"Help me, there's this girl I'm going on a date with soon! How do I avoid fear of rape accusations by compelling her (via pheromones) to propose sleeping with me though we barely know each other?"
(Edit: Do I sound snarky? I'm genuinely sorry. There is truth in humor, and I am trying to help.)
in the common one target scenario above, I would think a wise rule of thumb would be to use a mix for a month to make sure you hit her fertility window, or whatever other windows other pheromones might need to synchronize with.
So with out further ado... On to the topic:
Subject's...
...mother died yesterday
...hormones are out of whack
Subject...
...just found out their father was cheating on their mother
...is fighting off a cold
...already has had their eye on someone else for a long time
...has a friend in a crisis
...took the wrong medication
...needs to use the bathroom, but haven't had time to go
...is embarrassed about a silent fart they let out just before you walked up
...is thinking about how to deal with any of the above
I hope this is of some use to those of you that are new to this, or are easily discouraged.... the basic point is that other people's lives are just as complex as yours, and pheromones are not a cheat code. They may unlock the door, but you should still expect to turn the knob and push. Don't just polish the knob and wait for the door to open by itself.
Kindly,
Quicksilveri will repeat:
So, all that being said, what have you noticed in yourself or others, that might make pheromone reactions inconsistent? Or is there a similar link on another site that addresses this subject also?
I think she's psycho but no diagnosis or medication. I see her semi regularly because we have 4 kids traveling from apartment to house, house to apartment. I haven't had an opportunity to be alone with her without interruptions for more than say 5-10 minutes. Yeah I have these products in hopes for them to help in this seemingly waste of my life. But at this time I'll take what I can get. 
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