Question for Females About Your Exes

[Phoenix2886]

Have you ever lost attraction for a boyfriend and broken up with him, then later felt attracted to him again? Or once you lose attraction for a guy he's done for and might as well become a man of the cloth?

[Isis]

I don't know if you'll find the answers you're looking for. And I recommend against basing future actions/plans around re-attracting an ex.

Been there. Done that. Not worth it. You won't know what the outcome will be and energy IMO is best spent on yourself and not on someone who doesn't see your worth.

But if you still want an answer to your question... I've never been attracted to an ex I've broken up with.

I've even had an ex who broke up with me (who I still obviously wanted to be with). But after my attraction to him dissipated, I had zero interest in getting back with him. Even when he wanted to discuss getting back together. The attraction was gone and I couldn't see it coming back

[Phoenix2886]

I don't know if you'll find the answers you're looking for. And I recommend against basing future actions/plans around re-attracting an ex.

Been there. Done that. Not worth it. You won't know what the outcome will be and energy IMO is best spent on yourself and not on someone who doesn't see your worth.

But if you still want an answer to your question... I've never been attracted to an ex I've broken up with.

I've even had an ex who broke up with me (who I still obviously wanted to be with). But after my attraction to him left, I had zero interest in getting back with him. Even when he wanted to discuss getting back together. The attraction was gone and I couldn't see it coming back

I was looking for honest answers, and that's what you've given me. It's tough to hear, though

Thank you for responding. It takes guts to give someone bad news, even on the internet so I appreciate it.

[Isis]

I was looking for honest answers, and that's what you've given me. It's tough to hear, though

Thank you for responding.

That's just me. I've heard of women wanting to get back with exes.

But again, as someone who has went through the same thing...I can tell you that your energy is best spent elsewhere. If you focus on yourself and not give a shit about her, it might pique her interest. But don't do it with her being the focus. It wouldn't work as well.

If by chance your ex does end up wanting to get back with you; there's a big chance you wouldn't to. And why would you? After you've improved yourself and have other women panting after you? Seems superficial and not a keeper.

Just my 2 cents

[Phoenix2886]

That's just me. I've heard of women wanting to get back with exes.

But again, as someone who has went through the same thing...I can tell you that your energy is best spent elsewhere. If you focus on yourself and not give a shit about her, it might pique her interest. But don't do it with her being the focus. It wouldn't work as well.

If by chance your ex does end up wanting to get back with you; there's a big chance you wouldn't to. And why would you? After you've improved yourself and have other women panting after you? Seems superficial and not a keeper.

Just my 2 cents

I know what I have to do, I just don't let go easily. Thanks for the advice Isis, my phero-friend!!

[lafemme]

no, once I'm done, I'm done for good. all alpha men come back, they always do.

[Phoenix2886]

no, once I'm done, I'm done for good. all alpha men come back, they always do.

I appreciate your feedback. I strongly suspected that was the case. Thank you for answering, I know this isn't exactly a fun topic.

[Conjurator]

Wise men say: "When something is looking for a fall, don't hold it, just push it". I'm not a lady, but that's my general opinion on exes. No fix attempts, I prefer moving on.

[Vicki Lee]

Women* fixed the title for ya lol.