Cheerio Mysticbeauty and for some reason I think that Isis may want to chime in
I know we were thinking this would make for a good discussion.
It all started with a statement by Mystic
Here was my response:
"We definitely need a thread on this. Like I want some genuine answers and information.
I'm interested more about your thoughts on this. Is it just some women's personal preference that men initiate the sex. Is it deemed acceptable for the man to want the woman to initiate the sex. Many men are viewed as the sex fiends..what if the man wants the woman to say or show that she wants it? Does she tell him that she wants it?...simply that gets most men going. I'm just trying to understand because my wife would rather jump off a bridge than tell me when she's horny..smh. Me on the other hand, I'm always down..I'm always talking sexy, always prodding to see. But she will stonewall til the end..just to find out she was horny all along. And then things are great "
My wife isn't a super sexual person, she puts up the fake fight but once I get her started it's on and popping. (I know that's a early 2000's phrase) But eventually I don't want to feel that I'm that sex fiend..my drive is pretty moderate. On average every 3 days I start to get exceptionally horny. But she feels and she has said repeatedly that she wont ask for it, she just wants me to initiate. So I've purchased Naked Gun, and PSE. The results have been she will tell me "I don't know why I'm so wet" but not in the seduction type way..in a normal kind of matter of fact way. My wife is a very keep to herself and shy, avoid situation person..lol I love her how she is but she is. She does often grab my member in even inappropriate settings like near her mom and aunts. I can't take that like a 'take me now' sign, being that we are in a setting unfitting for it.
So there it is..thoughts?
I know we were thinking this would make for a good discussion.
It all started with a statement by Mystic
Originally posted by Mysticbeauty
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"We definitely need a thread on this. Like I want some genuine answers and information.
I'm interested more about your thoughts on this. Is it just some women's personal preference that men initiate the sex. Is it deemed acceptable for the man to want the woman to initiate the sex. Many men are viewed as the sex fiends..what if the man wants the woman to say or show that she wants it? Does she tell him that she wants it?...simply that gets most men going. I'm just trying to understand because my wife would rather jump off a bridge than tell me when she's horny..smh. Me on the other hand, I'm always down..I'm always talking sexy, always prodding to see. But she will stonewall til the end..just to find out she was horny all along. And then things are great "
My wife isn't a super sexual person, she puts up the fake fight but once I get her started it's on and popping. (I know that's a early 2000's phrase) But eventually I don't want to feel that I'm that sex fiend..my drive is pretty moderate. On average every 3 days I start to get exceptionally horny. But she feels and she has said repeatedly that she wont ask for it, she just wants me to initiate. So I've purchased Naked Gun, and PSE. The results have been she will tell me "I don't know why I'm so wet" but not in the seduction type way..in a normal kind of matter of fact way. My wife is a very keep to herself and shy, avoid situation person..lol I love her how she is but she is. She does often grab my member in even inappropriate settings like near her mom and aunts. I can't take that like a 'take me now' sign, being that we are in a setting unfitting for it.
So there it is..thoughts?
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