I don't think I ever orgasmed?

[KateD]

I saw someone like my comment from 2019, and I just wanna update and say... I can't live without my vibrator! It really is the best thing in the world.

Oddly enough most of my friends own sex toys and vibrators and say the same. I on the other hand have zero interest in vibrators.

[Cheerio]

I saw someone like my comment from 2019, and I just wanna update and say... I can't live without my vibrator! It really is the best thing in the world.

[Ildergreier]

Coconut Ok...

[Coconut]

lol would love to try it, they might have some cool ideas and positions and other things i have never heard of to try out!

[Ildergreier]

I think my fantasy and still is a guy that knows what he is doing in bed, most of the time it's 2 minutes and we are done.
i wonder what dating a sex therapist male would be like, i'm sure they would be really cool in bed!

imagine a sex therapist as too mechanic and too little passion in bed.

[Coconut]

I think my fantasy and still is a guy that knows what he is doing in bed, most of the time it's 2 minutes and we are done.
i wonder what dating a sex therapist male would be like, i'm sure they would be really cool in bed!

[Ildergreier]

Skin, bones - basically a thin frame... & meat in between heh

Dead with laugh.

[Vicki Lee]

Hmm, what does skinny constitute?

Skin, bones - basically a thin frame... & meat in between heh

[Ildergreier]

There is a lot of men that is bad at sex.

[siren]

This is why I have a skinny dude fetish lmaoooo, all the weight ended up in their dick I'm convinced!!!

lmfaoooo

[Ildergreier]

This is why I have a skinny dude fetish lmaoooo, all the weight ended up in their dick I'm convinced!!!

Hmm, what does skinny constitute?

[Vicki Lee]

What the fuck? How is it that skinny dudes end up with the hugest cocks?

This is why I have a skinny dude fetish lmaoooo, all the weight ended up in their dick I'm convinced!!!

[Cheerio]

What the fuck? How is it that skinny dudes end up with the hugest cocks?

RIGHT?! LOL.
That video was so beautiful.

[siren]

I don't know if there are any rule against posting this, so I won't directly post it. But if a man doesn't make my body to this, I DO NOT want him & I will never marry, LOL --

Click Here

Poor girl looked so confused, like "wtf, again?!"

What the fuck? How is it that skinny dudes end up with the hugest cocks?

[Cheerio]

I don't know if there are any rule against posting this, so I won't directly post it. But if a man doesn't make my body to this, I DO NOT want him & I will never marry, LOL --

Click Here

Poor girl looked so confused, like "wtf, again?!"

[Mysticbeauty]

I am surprised that there has been no post made in this sub forum, but I guess it's up to me to take one for the team in devirginizing this area.... I hope this topic isn't too offensive....If it is, let me know or just delete the topic....I will understand with no hard feelings....

I started having sex before I turned 20 + been masturbating for years before that as of a young kid.... Through all of my sexual experiences including solo ones, I don't think I actually had an orgasm.... If orgasm means cumming.... I am not saying I never enjoy it because I have thoroughly many many times before....I don't think I have ever orgasmed if it involves cumming....I never came.... But, then when i think of it, I don't think I felt an orgasm where it's earth-shattering or how it's been described.... I have just enjoyed it so much to where I feel satisfied without needing something to come out of my body.... Over the years, I have grown comfortable to the fact that I don't need to cum nor orgasm to enjoy sex, but there has been a few men that I have been with who seemed to have feel some kinda way that I don't cum or orgasm thinking it's because the sex wasn't good enough..... Any of you are like me?

I feel like an awkward teenager who doesn't know about sex instead of a 36 year old that I am.... I did happen to just read something online that says cumming + orgasm is different....

I hope I made sense, btw.... A large part of me doesn't feel ashamed that I am lacking in this department, but a tiny part does....;-x

I appreciate your vulnerability. You aren't alone in that for sure. No man has ever given me an orgasm I have to do it myself. However I'm with a man now who would probably be down for making the bedroom our own little classroom. Be patient and keep Experimenting, that's my game plan. Also I found a nice clitoral vibrato that is strong enough to get me off, not too loud, and I don't think it would be intimidating to a man.

[Mysticbeauty]

How old are you? It must be a generational thing because... LOL idk whats going on out here with these dudes and the Oral sex double standards.

It is a double standard. And although I love giving head with the right dude, it's way more work. Literally job in in the name hello! Not to mention there a dick in our throat. I. Sure some dudes get tired going down on us but they just need to love and worship our clits. I mean come on. Our bodies should be adored anyway. But I'm bias. ????

[Mysticbeauty]

You say black men do not like to lick (oral), I ENJOY IT!! Actually it us one of the few things I make sure we do, BEFORE having sex, besides raising her expectations, knowing when to caress scratch or nibble (pay attention to her body as it reacts to different stimuli) this can go on for a couple hours, and I will still happily enjoy blue balls.

Why because I know the next time (unless she is selfish, cultural taboos about enjoying or hung up on too many porn movies), she us willing to reciprocate the giving...

Makes for intensive time. Yes we men sometimes, not all the time have a one tract mind (squeeze the breasts, and make beeline to the 101). I also ask if she fantasies about sex and positions.

Knowing her as much before actually taking the dipstick to measure.

If she is relax and is COMFORTABLE, she will normally orgasm (maybe some TAC wisdom help)

CM

Umm could you like tell that to all the decent men in the world. Us ladies would appreciate it!

[Mysticbeauty]

Right... If you can't lick it you can't stick it is my rule.

Beautifully said! Lol????????

[Mysticbeauty]

I do agree that men feel a bit let down or a blow to their ego if the person they're having sex with doesn't have an orgasm. But I also think that men don't know what female orgasms really look like.

Orgasms are more of a sensation. Ejaculation (cumming) is different. Most women don't ejaculate.

I ejaculated on accident once and it freaked me out. I also didn't "feel" anything orgasmic so just plain weird. I'd rather have a regular orgasm.