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  • SecretV
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    • Apr 2018
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    #1

    Flirting advice

    So. As you all know I've taken a step back when it comes to my situation. However I have decided that it might be beneficial to engage in flirting behavior. The problem is that I've no idea how to subtly flirt. I'm about as subtle as Russian red army and I honestly don't think that's the correct approach here. Soooo... Can you, my dearest ladies, help me out with some tips?

    seriously. I don't even woman...
  • Isis
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    • Oct 2013
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    #2
    I'm really terrible at pursuing men because rejection scares me, so I'm really subtle. The problem with this though, is that some signals get lost on men that need more blatant signs. I find that as men get older, they're more adept at reading signals.

    I play with my hair A LOT, men notice this, even on a subconscious level. One thing I like to do is sweep my hair behind my ear while exposing my neck and looking down, and then I look up at them and tilt my head.

    I sometimes cross and uncross my legs verryyyyy slow and caress my thigh or neck.

    Tilting your head and slightly biting your bottom lip while doing a body scan of the other person is more blatant, men usually visibly react to this.

    And of course verbal innuendo!!

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    • NuTrix
      NuTrix commented
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      Innuendo is my specialty I get away with SO much
  • Delight


    DiscoverXS True Story Teller
    • Dec 2017
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    #3
    I knew this lady would have great advice for you.

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    • Scottie2Hottie
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      • Mar 2017
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      #4
      Originally posted by Isis
      I'm really terrible at pursuing men because rejection scares me, so I'm really subtle. The problem with this though, is that some signals get lost on men that need more blatant signs. I find that as men get older, they're more adept at reading signals.

      I play with my hair A LOT, men notice this, even on a subconscious level. One thing I like to do is sweep my hair behind my ear while exposing my neck and looking down, and then I look up at them and tilt my head.

      I sometimes cross and uncross my legs verryyyyy slow and caress my thigh or neck.

      Tilting your head and slightly biting your bottom lip while doing a body scan of the other person is more blatant, men usually visibly react to this.

      And of course verbal innuendo!!

      Gets me every time. Yum!

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      • KarmaKitty
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        • Jun 2015
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        #5
        Quick eye contact with a smile isn’t too overt and let’s them know you’re interested. Non sexual touching is good too-forearm, center of the back. But again briefly, don’t slither down languorously, just a light touch. Think welcoming.

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        • SecretV
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          • Apr 2018
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          #6
          I know he is a sucker for a kiss on the chest/shoulder/cheek. Especially if I'm saying thank you for something he's done for me.

          example:
          him: oh. I picked up some food for Luci (one of my lizards)
          me: thank you *kiss on the shoukder*

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