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Hi All!
I am new the the forum, but this is my second time around with XS!
My man (30 years old) and I (24) are in a bit of a struggling point. He's watching a lot of people his age get promotions and move up at work (including his very best friend) and he was recently told he is not being considered for a promotion right now. He is very ambitious, and committed to being promoted even if that means relocation. As a result, he has emotionally shut off from me, has told me he doesn't know if we are working and he needs to be selfish right now. We took a big step back, but are still talking/seeing each other occasionally.
My aim is to put him at ease, and to bond us to one another more strongly... so that when he goes through these career issues, he attaches more to our relationship for support instead of distancing from it. I know a lot of that comes from talking and showing him I support him, and I've found that after voicing how much I believe in him and support him etc. that his sex drive is boosted and he desires that closeness again. I've never tested 'mones on him before, but he is a very "manly" man so I do think they'll have a strong effect.
My current arsenal: Connections, Cohesion, and Loveboat, as well as the massage oil.
Any tips/advice on how I should pair these, or other things I should look into purchasing?
I am new the the forum, but this is my second time around with XS!
My man (30 years old) and I (24) are in a bit of a struggling point. He's watching a lot of people his age get promotions and move up at work (including his very best friend) and he was recently told he is not being considered for a promotion right now. He is very ambitious, and committed to being promoted even if that means relocation. As a result, he has emotionally shut off from me, has told me he doesn't know if we are working and he needs to be selfish right now. We took a big step back, but are still talking/seeing each other occasionally.
My aim is to put him at ease, and to bond us to one another more strongly... so that when he goes through these career issues, he attaches more to our relationship for support instead of distancing from it. I know a lot of that comes from talking and showing him I support him, and I've found that after voicing how much I believe in him and support him etc. that his sex drive is boosted and he desires that closeness again. I've never tested 'mones on him before, but he is a very "manly" man so I do think they'll have a strong effect.
My current arsenal: Connections, Cohesion, and Loveboat, as well as the massage oil.
Any tips/advice on how I should pair these, or other things I should look into purchasing?
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