Progress Beyond Friends with Benefits

[ChrisD]

So there’s this guy that said he can’t be in a relationship right now because he can only focus on his business at the moment. Offered friends with benefits. I was on board with that but then he wants to spend the entire weekend with me, have deep conversations, snuggle all weekend, etc. So I’m developing feelings and want to see which combos yall would recommend to get him to pursue making this an official relationship. He reacted well to Xist with Girlfriend and copulins. But I think I might need a status boost too. He’s a wealthy guy and is used to high status women throwing themselves at him. I have loads of Goddess so was thinking adding that. Thoughts? Or other combos you’d recommend?

[LegendaryCharisma]

Xs189, Temptress

[ChrisD]

LegendaryCharisma thank you! do you mean add them to the Xist/Girlfriend combo or just Xs189 and Temptress?

[Usagi]

How long have you been seeing him and how available are you to him? You may need a good dose of strategy along with your pheros. I’ve had more than a few casual flings turn into relationships and I think it’s in part because I am naturally aloof and not always around.

XiSt, Goddess and Girlfriend are all good.

Seconding XS189.

[LegendaryCharisma]

LegendaryCharisma thank you! do you mean add them to the Xist/Girlfriend combo or just Xs189 and Temptress?

I was just adding them as status interchangeables!
Perhaps a stack? xist + girlfriend + 189 or xist + goddess + temptress

[ChrisD]

How long have you been seeing him and how available are you to him? You may need a good dose of strategy along with your pheros. I’ve had more than a few casual flings turn into relationships and I think it’s in part because I am naturally aloof and not always around.

XiSt, Goddess and Girlfriend are all good.

Seconding XS189.

We met about a month ago and started this friends with benefits about 2 weeks ago. I’m not overly available to him and have declined an invitation. Any other strategy advice?

[somechick99]

We met about a month ago and started this friends with benefits about 2 weeks ago. I’m not overly available to him and have declined an invitation. Any other strategy advice?

Make it clear he has competition. Date other guys and make sure there's times he might see another guy's name pop up on your phone. Have him take you on dates where there's a lot of other guys who can check you out, like a sports game. Don't always give him sex either - you can meet up with him for a drink, then bail at 8 PM for "dinner plans" you have elsewhere.

I realize it's petty game playing lol. If you do these things please report back how it goes

[Coco]

Make sure he knows you are not a last resort, and you stand out from other women. I think XS124+Goddess would be great.

[LegendaryCharisma]

Speaking of which, do we have any updates?

[ChrisD]

Hey yall! I LOVE the advice! I’m actually out of town for a couple of weeks so I won’t have any updates for a bit. But I’ll definitely keep you posted!