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  • logica
    DiscoverXS Lurker
    • Nov 2019
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    #1

    Recommendations appreciated

    Can you wonderful people please recommend me some pheromonexs?
    1. I am the only female (mid 30s) with a baby face working with a bunch of older alpha males who are a boys' club.

    I would like them to think I'm trustworthy + smart + someone who can be nurtured, and to involve me in their discussions!

    2. What would you recommend for a scent I can use to get someone to open up?

    3. What can I use for networking events?

    4. What should I use to be seen as an alpha female?

    BTW where should I spray these wonderful pheromones?

    Thank you!
  • Isis
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    • Oct 2013
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    #2
    Im not sure what would make you come across as someone smart, trustworthy, alpha and will make others want to nuture you. Im sure some other ladies will be by soon with some ideas

    i often find that alpha and the need to nuture dont often play together. Though in comply others do try to please you but it doesnt seem to stem from the need to nurture so much as wanting to please you. I suspect you might have to tinker with some combos to get what youre looking for.

    i do adore comply for networking however. I add a dash of p74 and voila. People are eager to make my acquaintance and will bend over backwards

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    • Muestereate
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      • Jul 2018
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      #3
      maybe you mean mentored and not nurtured?

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      • logica
        DiscoverXS Lurker
        • Nov 2019
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        #4
        Originally posted by Isis
        Im not sure what would make you come across as someone smart, trustworthy, alpha and will make others want to nuture you. Im sure some other ladies will be by soon with some ideas

        i often find that alpha and the need to nuture dont often play together. Though in comply others do try to please you but it doesnt seem to stem from the need to nurture so much as wanting to please you. I suspect you might have to tinker with some combos to get what youre looking for.

        i do adore comply for networking however. I add a dash of p74 and voila. People are eager to make my acquaintance and will bend over backwards
        Thanks this is helpful!

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        • Muestereate
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          • Jul 2018
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          #5
          Gaining trusts takes time. I think you might want to start out with XIST 4 women. Several ladies here have found a men's product API to work well for them and I could Imagine Comply working with men but in light doses and with the xsp74. InBetween xs194 is another one. Men's teams are competence based. Though sexuals could speed up entry, many men are aware of the potential for team disunity when sex enters the equation. It could get you out of the team as fast as it gets you into it. Tease, both the product and the behavior could work if you want to go in this direction without taking it all the way as could a dozen other women's blends. I wouldn't want a sexualized woman in a small man's team but in a larger team it works. You will throw off fewer red flags if you don't go alpha to often. We guys have to watch for that too in small teams.

          That alpha warning said someone that can be alpha and get things done or even use sexual appeal outside of the circle can earn you some admiration. Openning or closing a client, getting someone to comply with a negotiation outside of the group, tackling some tough chores that take some guts will start getting you entry into the circle.. slowly. Trust is usually earned and only rarely given.

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          • logica
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            • Nov 2019
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            #6
            Thanks! Pheromones aside...I didn't think of it that way, and what you said really made sense.

            I'll be getting tease, x194 and Xist....

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