Newbie Young Woman

[TechnoPrincess]

Hello!

I’m 30 years old and I am totally newbie in the universe of pheromones, which I discovered accidentally. I am facing a very delicate moment in my life. I have have anxiety, depression, and was recently diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder. I’ts very hard to live like this because no matter how beautiful, intelligent and tallented who you are, you always think nobody likes you, you are a loser, you are ugly, worthless, and you are always doomed to failure. And I am tired to feel like this and I see I really do not have reason for it. I do not want to have the pheromones as miracles, because I do not even believe in miracles anyway, but as a little help to boost my self steem and confidence, as long I’ m going to the psychologist and psychiatrist as well. So I am spending days and nights studying about pheromones and biohacking in chase to heal my mental conditions and to became a better person to myself and to the world, specially to the people who love me.




So, I am a DJ and also a waitress and both of these atmospheres requires energy and amity. The restaurant atmosphere is very competitive and the coworkers and bosses many times are unpolite. I am a new employee at the restaurant and it puts me in a certain disadvantage, and as a I’m a borderline, I have to struggle very hard to control my humor when my boss is rude with me without any reason. So, in a situation like this, I need to break the ice. I need something to “make” people be kind and friendly to me.




In the social situations, I would like something to laugh, break all the ice, have fun, have trust, all time long!




And in the sexual issue, I am taking Sertraline for the anxiety (I have plans to change to another medication) and it is fucking with my libido and causing me anorgasmia :(((((. I will try to change the medication and have topic testosterone to try to revert it. So, about the pheromones, I would like something not to only like the male’s fire but to have and effect on myself, if possible. I want something with sex appeal, deadly hot, but nobble, not vulgar.




Nice to meet you, everyone!

[Scottie2Hottie]

Welcome TechnoPrincess. Happy to have you here. I applaud you for being so open and honest. It took a lot of courage. The ladies here are very friendly and always willing to help. I'm sure they can offer you some suggestions.

I definitely understand your challenges at work. I was a chef for 20+ years. It is very competitive and can be a harsh environment. At least in the back of the house I didn't have to worry about being nice. Lol You have to face the brutality then turn around and put on a happy face.

Good luck with your research and in your personal growth. If I can be of any help don't hesitate to reach out to me. Either here on the forum or privately. Whichever you feel most comfortable with.

[TechnoPrincess]

Hello, Scottie!

I think it’s not about courage, but thank you for the compliment! It’s because I prefer to tell my situation in details to know exactly what do do, and where I have to walk my steps.

[MRSNAKE]

Welcome to the forum, you'll have lots of fun!

[Muestereate]

Welcome Techno, Your Beauty and Intelligence stand out even at first glance. There definitely are products here that are right up your alley. I'd hoped some ladies would have popped in by now but xs has this goal system. It categorizes pheromones according to your goals. I poked around on the ladies journals and the goal system.

I had a great friend that has Borderline so I looked at calming. Cohesion/w for women oil is worth a look, Giselle Journal points out it is good with gang of girls also.

I noticed Connections helped a review build rapport with her customers in a restaurant and though she has to talk longer with them, they also drop bigger tips. I'd do oil here too.

I was looking for status for the DJ gig. Temptress might give you a rockstar vibe by the description. Look for some reviews. It may bring out some competitiveness but if you are already center stage many will back off. I think I'd go spray with a far dispursing cover fragrance.

[TechnoPrincess]

Welcome Techno, Your Beauty and Intelligence stand out even at first glance. There definitely are products here that are right up your alley. I'd hoped some ladies would have popped in by now but xs has this goal system. It categorizes pheromones according to your goals. I poked around on the ladies journals and the goal system.

I had a great friend that has Borderline so I looked at calming. Cohesion/w for women oil is worth a look, Giselle Journal points out it is good with gang of girls also.

I noticed Connections helped a review build rapport with her customers in a restaurant and though she has to talk longer with them, they also drop bigger tips. I'd do oil here too.

I was looking for status for the DJ gig. Temptress might give you a rockstar vibe by the description. Look for some reviews. It may bring out some competitiveness but if you are already center stage many will back off. I think I'd go spray with a far dispursing cover fragrance.

Hello, Mustereate! Thanks for your answer!

Could you tell my what is this Gisele Jounal? I’m really new here.

What about my DJ career, I’m not a famous DJ but I’m kinda respected in my environment because I am a tiny figured woman who plays an agressive industrial techno music. But there is a difficult to get gigs in Brazil (my country) because the club /party owners do not put you on the track for your good work, but you have to be part of their groups to have these gigs. So, I need to conquer their sympathy.

[Scottie2Hottie]

When you scroll down on the main forums page you will see "Women's Journal" highlighted in blue. Click on that and it will take you to all the ladies' journals.

[TechnoPrincess]

When you scroll down on the main forums page you will see "Women's Journal" highlighted in blue. Click on that and it will take you to all the ladies' journals.

Thanks!

[BobiiJo925]

love! Dealing with similar things I'll tell you the best self effects I've had. My anxiety is off the charts, 33, 3 kids and a husband that is on a 28/14 schedule. (Also bipolar) for self effects I started with Vibes. Obviously it's not a magic potion but it totally lifts your mood and I've definitely noticed people around me are too. Bliss (now my go to) is that and then some, my bad days don't feel so bad. I love celebrity for women, boost of confidence walk with my head a little higher. Sexual, tease is great, also Desire Me. can't wait to read about you experiaces!

[TechnoPrincess]

love! Dealing with similar things I'll tell you the best self effects I've had. My anxiety is off the charts, 33, 3 kids and a husband that is on a 28/14 schedule. (Also bipolar) for self effects I started with Vibes. Obviously it's not a magic potion but it totally lifts your mood and I've definitely noticed people around me are too. Bliss (now my go to) is that and then some, my bad days don't feel so bad. I love celebrity for women, boost of confidence walk with my head a little higher. Sexual, tease is great, also Desire Me. can't wait to read about you experiaces!

Thank you!!
Tomorrow I will buy my first pheros ever! I am so excited!

[nephil]

Off topic, but I would suggest you look at herbal alternatives for anxiety and depression if you haven't already done so. Lavender, ashwagandha, curcumin have been scientifically proven to lower anxiety.

[MRSNAKE]

Also , look into taking cold showers, exercising, and taking triple the omega 3 intake using preferably krill oil as it's often the cleanest source.

[TechnoPrincess]

Thanks! I’m also thinking about taking astaxanthyn too!

[Isis]

Like Bobii mentioned, Celebrity is great on days I'm not feeling too great about myself, it also gives me a significant mood boost (It helps that people are treating you like poop gold). Babe is another favorite, a lot of women seem to get great self effects with that one.

I'm not sure what to recommend for your work situation since I don't have much background info. If you have any idea of why your Boss is rude (or what his/her perception of you is) to you it will make it easier figuring out what would be best to use in that situation. But if you think it's just about breaking the ice or getting him/her to like you, a social would be your best bet. I personally love loveboat at work. I work in a service based industry and people are happy around me when I wear this. People feel instantly close to you and it encourages affectionate behavior (and despite it's name, not necessarily romantic).

As for sexual, I do like PSEL a lot and have recently been giving Babe some loving. PSEL is more of a sex pot life of the party girl while Babe is more of a femme fatale. I can't say it gets my engine revving though, but some women say that copulins do this to them. Both PSEL and Babe contains copulins.

[TechnoPrincess]

Isis, thanks for the advices!

By the way, my boss is a man. He is a good person as a friend, but in the work environment he suffers a certain pression so he becomes rude to everyone sometimes without reason. And the restaurant atmosphere unfortunately works like this, so I want to break the ice and create a light ambient for me and everyone around.

And I saw your thread about BITCH and I liked it a lot and I’m seriously thinking about taking a bottle of this one, because the the restaurant environment is “bitchy”, and I’m a DJ, and I’m my country, for the DJs to have gigs, they do not get gigs by the excellence of their works, but by the acceptance they have in the very strict party groups, which are also very “bitchy”. What do you think?

[Prettyrickyboi]

Hi @TechnoPrincess, yes my wife used to take sertraline (topamax). I'm not a fan.
Advice from someone who lived with and eventually cared for someone who had your same diagnosis. (all of them)
Pheros wont change things much for your personal effects dealing with those maladies.
Bliss in social situations can make those around you for sure more "nice".
But as much as I stand by XS products I would get and keep a therapist.
My wife committed suicide a few months ago, we were in the process of getting her a therapist..but the wait to register was so long.
Much love to you, I think if I remember correctly Cohesion usually had a good effect on her mood especially during that time otm.

[TechnoPrincess]

Thank you, Rick! Just one thing: Sertraline and Topamax are different medications, not the same one.

I will certainly order Bliss. I read great reviews about it. I’m just a little afraid of Cohesion make me a little depressed.

[Isis]

Isis, thanks for the advices!

By the way, my boss is a man. He is a good person as a friend, but in the work environment he suffers a certain pression so he becomes rude to everyone sometimes without reason. And the restaurant atmosphere unfortunately works like this, so I want to break the ice and create a light ambient for me and everyone around.

And I saw your thread about BITCH and I liked it a lot and I’m seriously thinking about taking a bottle of this one, because the the restaurant environment is “bitchy”, and I’m a DJ, and I’m my country, for the DJs to have gigs, they do not get gigs by the excellence of their works, but by the acceptance they have in the very strict party groups, which are also very “bitchy”. What do you think?

I haven't worn Bitch extensively enough to know how it would work in a variety of situations. I think lafemme has used Bitch more than I have, you can check out her journal to see what it plays like. If you're looking to get away with acting like a Bitch to people, this would definitely work. People seem to tread carefully around you like you're ready to snap at them at any moment

[Prettyrickyboi]

Thank you, Rick! Just one thing: Sertraline and Topamax are different medications, not the same one.

I will certainly order Bliss. I read great reviews about it. I’m just a little afraid of Cohesion make me a little depressed.

YOU ARE ABSOLUTELY RIGHT... I meant Zoloft!! She took Topamax (TOPIRAMATE) at one time but then eventually went to the Zoloft. Sorry for the little slip up. As for Cohesion, it contains A1 which has been known to cause depression in some MEN, I haven't seen any post about women experiencing depression from A1, none the less the purpose of Cohesion was an A1 product without the depression that men experience. I believe the DHEA makes it so that Cohesion is a mix most would go to de-stress and calm.

[TechnoPrincess]

Thank you! I will check!

[Mate]

Hey TechnoPrincess welcome to the world of pheromones ???? and let me encourage you. I had depression and very severe social phobias and anxiety. About 18 months ago I began using pheromones and I am constantly looking for reasons and opportunities to go in public and socialise. They have been a great help for me ????