Hello. I'm a young single woman who is fairly new to using pheromones. I only recently came upon XS, & I have a few questions that hopefully some of you can help me with.
First off, I want to tell you of my situation:
-Last March, I met my guy friend (I'll just call him "Clay" for the sake of privacy), who lives in my neighborhood, at my brother's St. Patrick's Day party. After a chat about video games & art, we became friends. Around late May, we started walking around our lake together, talking & getting to know each other better. We became really close, like BFFs, though I think there may have been a bit of a mutual attraction. I didn't notice right away, though. Then late one evening in mid-June, after taking him home after we ran a quick errand, we unexpectedly kissed...(attraction confirmed! lol) We didn't officially date, but it felt like something more than just friendship was blossoming. This continued until about mid to late-July, where he confessed that he wasn't over his ex. Apparently, he was with her for about 7-8 years & thought he would marry her, but she left him. He thought he was ready for a relationship with me at that time, but realized he wasn't, & didn't want to lead me on. He was kind & caring enough to comfort me as I cried in agony, but after that, the attraction became one-sided, & awkward tension built between us. The one-sided feelings have faded since then & have had to accept being in the "Friend Zone", but I still can't help but feel a residual attraction to him. It's a hard situation, because the awkward tension is still there. I know it will take time for that awkwardness to fade, but I believe that using pheromones can help move the process forward.
I do have a few goals in mind related to my situation:
-I want for him to feel more relaxed, open, friendly, attentive & chatty toward me.
-I want for him to feel a stronger sense of trust, connection & respect toward me.
-Ultimately, I wish to attract him emotionally & physically, & gradually move toward an intimate, romantic relationship.
After browsing several XS products & reading up a little on the ingredients, I felt that Desire Me XS Plus, Fantasy XS, & Babe XS might be great to start with.
Which brings me to my questions:
-Can XS blends be worn simultaneously? (ie: Fantasy XS & Desire Me XS Plus) If so, how many sprays of each?
-Do any pheros used in XS blends have an " imprint" effect on men, & is it a lasting one?
-How soon before meeting up with people should I apply a blend?
I'm going to a New Year's party this weekend, & he will most likely be there. I intend to test the products I ordered on him there...(hopefully they arrive in time)...While I know realistically phero blends won't do all the work for me, I DO believe they can help tip the odds in my favor while I do my part.
Should I not receive my order in time (though I'm rather confident that I will), I have Max Attraction Silk by LuvEssentials as a back-up plan.
If anyone can provide any insight with their own experiences, please feel free to do so.