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  • Need Help Getting Laid With Asperger

    hi guys,

    im a college senior who is hoping to make the best of his last year in school with the help of mones.

    my only goal in using mones is to improve my sex life.

    i have asperger which means i cannot understand social cues and i have a lot of issues with anxiety.

    fortunately, im a pretty good looking guy so im not a virgin and have managed most of my life to have a decent sex life despite my massive social issues.

    basically, the only girls i have ever had sex with are girls who went "pornstar mode" and made it extremelly obvious to the point even someone like me could not miss the signals.

    here are a few examples:

    - i lost my virginity when i was lost at a school i was not familiar with, i saw this girl and asked for help, instead of telling me she decided to walk me herself to the building and as we walked she started literally talking about her boobs and basically made it as blatant as possible she was interested in me sexually. when we got to the building i asked for her number then a few days later she came to my dorm and we had sex.

    - i was standing at the exit of this nightclub once and this girl walks up to me and says "can you help me find my friends?"....as she says this she is literally standing so close to me that her boobs are pressed against my chest and she is looking at me like she is waiting for me to kiss her. so i just kiss her then grab her by the hand and we go outside and have sex in an alley literally 1 min after first meeting.

    - im at this nightclub with my friends and all night i notice everywhere i go this girl is staring at me, i can tell she is interested but i suck at starting social interactions so i kind of just ignore her and stay with my friends. at the end of the night she walks up to me and basically asks if she can come home with me.

    so this gives you guys an idea. unless a girl goes full pornstar mode and super blatant then i never get laid. obviously as you can imagine most women are never this blatant so i rarely get laid. for every girl like the ones above that are super blatant i probably lose 10-20 who like me just as much but just would never be that upfront.

    so why am i here?

    its my last year in college and i would like to get laid as much as possible.

    i have decided to hit the bars/clubs at least 3-4 times a week this year.

    im looking for a mix that can get more girls to go pornstar mode.

    my problem is NOT lack of attention/attraction....plenty of girls seem to find me attractive

    my problem is that because of my asperger i cannot close the deal unless the girl is blatant in her signals.

    basically, the longer i talk with a girl the more she loses interest so all the sex in my life has been super fast where the girl just seems down from the first min. I have never had sex with a girl who did not make it obvious in first 5 min usually first 1 min actually.

    Its almost like the longer we talk the more my asperger comes out and they lose interest and i get friend zoned.

    so ideally here's what im looking for...i'll use numbers so its easy to explain.....

    on a typical night in a bar/club in my city there is probably 50-100 attractive women in the place

    without mones i would estimate at least 15-20% of these women find me attractive/im their type so this means usually when i go out there is 8-20 women in the place who have high interest in me.

    im looking for a mone that will take those girls who already like me and make them be more blatant/obvious in showing interest.


    I do not even mind turning off more women if the few that like me are super blatant about showing interest.

    for example, i would be happy with a mix that resulted in 95% of women hating me but 5% being so aroused by me that they went "pornstar mode" like the girls in the example i gave.

    I already have a massive collection of mones from several companies but im not sure if im allowed to mention competitors here so i will list only what i have from XS for now.

    please have a look below and let me know what you reccomend.

    im going out tonight so i can post results when i come back.

    here is my massive XS collection:

    Taboo

    SOB

    Brute

    XP83

    Evolve

    Barely Legal

    Naked Gun

    PSE

    Dominant Ascend

    Bliss

    Desire Me spray (yes the one for women)

    Celebrity

    Comply

    Cohesion

    Engage

    Flirt

    Limitless

    Love Boat

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    anyone?

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    • #3
      Originally posted by TheQuestion View Post
      hi guys,

      im a college senior who is hoping to make the best of his last year in school with the help of mones.

      my only goal in using mones is to improve my sex life.

      i have asperger which means i cannot understand social cues and i have a lot of issues with anxiety.

      fortunately, im a pretty good looking guy so im not a virgin and have managed most of my life to have a decent sex life despite my massive social issues.

      basically, the only girls i have ever had sex with are girls who went "pornstar mode" and made it extremelly obvious to the point even someone like me could not miss the signals.

      here are a few examples:

      - i lost my virginity when i was lost at a school i was not familiar with, i saw this girl and asked for help, instead of telling me she decided to walk me herself to the building and as we walked she started literally talking about her boobs and basically made it as blatant as possible she was interested in me sexually. when we got to the building i asked for her number then a few days later she came to my dorm and we had sex.

      - i was standing at the exit of this nightclub once and this girl walks up to me and says "can you help me find my friends?"....as she says this she is literally standing so close to me that her boobs are pressed against my chest and she is looking at me like she is waiting for me to kiss her. so i just kiss her then grab her by the hand and we go outside and have sex in an alley literally 1 min after first meeting.

      - im at this nightclub with my friends and all night i notice everywhere i go this girl is staring at me, i can tell she is interested but i suck at starting social interactions so i kind of just ignore her and stay with my friends. at the end of the night she walks up to me and basically asks if she can come home with me.

      so this gives you guys an idea. unless a girl goes full pornstar mode and super blatant then i never get laid. obviously as you can imagine most women are never this blatant so i rarely get laid. for every girl like the ones above that are super blatant i probably lose 10-20 who like me just as much but just would never be that upfront.

      so why am i here?

      its my last year in college and i would like to get laid as much as possible.

      i have decided to hit the bars/clubs at least 3-4 times a week this year.

      im looking for a mix that can get more girls to go pornstar mode.

      my problem is NOT lack of attention/attraction....plenty of girls seem to find me attractive

      my problem is that because of my asperger i cannot close the deal unless the girl is blatant in her signals.

      basically, the longer i talk with a girl the more she loses interest so all the sex in my life has been super fast where the girl just seems down from the first min. I have never had sex with a girl who did not make it obvious in first 5 min usually first 1 min actually.

      Its almost like the longer we talk the more my asperger comes out and they lose interest and i get friend zoned.

      so ideally here's what im looking for...i'll use numbers so its easy to explain.....

      on a typical night in a bar/club in my city there is probably 50-100 attractive women in the place

      without mones i would estimate at least 15-20% of these women find me attractive/im their type so this means usually when i go out there is 8-20 women in the place who have high interest in me.

      im looking for a mone that will take those girls who already like me and make them be more blatant/obvious in showing interest.


      I do not even mind turning off more women if the few that like me are super blatant about showing interest.

      for example, i would be happy with a mix that resulted in 95% of women hating me but 5% being so aroused by me that they went "pornstar mode" like the girls in the example i gave.

      I already have a massive collection of mones from several companies but im not sure if im allowed to mention competitors here so i will list only what i have from XS for now.

      please have a look below and let me know what you reccomend.

      im going out tonight so i can post results when i come back.

      here is my massive XS collection:

      Taboo

      SOB

      Brute

      XP83

      Evolve

      Barely Legal

      Naked Gun

      PSE

      Dominant Ascend

      Bliss

      Desire Me spray (yes the one for women)

      Celebrity

      Comply

      Cohesion

      Engage

      Flirt

      Limitless

      Love Boat


      Q! Ever since the sale things have been super busy so I have missed so many interesting threads on the forum. I am now making some rounds and catching up.

      I can't remember seeing something from you in the introductory thread so welcome and I am happy to have you join our community

      DUDE! That is quite an arsenal and you don't seem to have an issue getting laid. I mean most guys would kill for your experiences.


      I can't speak for your specific condition because I am not a medical expert. I can just send you some info and often enough the guys will be around to offer some guidance and wisdom.

      Sure, I can offer some advice but I prefer to let the men share their experiences with these products and some tips for reading the not to obvious signs.


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      • #4
        Since you have not reported your experiences with those Mones It's hard to recommend one that you just wouldn't say something like I tried that it didn't work. I take people at their word that emotional reading is not something that can be improved but I've improved mine but it's taken about 5 years.XSR32 helps me become more aware of people's actions but I still have to learn what those mean. XSR95 seems to help me read their eyes better and though xsp86 is supposed to be a beautifier, I think it helps me "appreciate" womens beauty.

        Sex doesn't end at graduation but the field will become a less target rich environment for sure, turnover slows too, less new faces so I understand your concerns. You really have all the blends except for what I mentioned. Women's sexual aggression is both emotional and biological. I often miss the emotional Ques myself but I've had a number throw themselves on me when in grief, loss or abandonment/breakup divorce style pain. Come to think of it, Maybe I should start hanging out at funerals and courthouses.

        There is a phenomena among women where they slut shame each other. Just like some men make fun of other men for capitulating to women's demands, Women chide each other about giving in. Women suspend slut shaming in the situations mentioned. I'm sure there are more but the point is, They can only go pornstar mode when not witnessed by other women, They can go tease mode or goddess mode but not pornstar mode. So you have to seperate them from other women. When I used to go to clubs my favorite lines were simple, its smokey, it's to loud, I can't hear you, let's step outside.

        Biologically, when women ovulate mother nature gives them some sexual aggression, During these days Heavy enone can make the sexual aggression lurking underneath come out. You have evolve and Brute and SOB. You could try an experiment. Wear a heavy enone +68r for 30 days straight. If you think you see any sexual interest mark the dates and names and what you were wearing. Next month as that date comes near find a way to get around them again and wear the same product and look for similar signs. If you absolutely need overt sexual aggression, It's like fishing, You have to throw bait where fish are ready to eat. Compile a calendar over several months and just pop into their lives for a couple days and see if the fish are biting.

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        • Roinuj
          Roinuj commented
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          with this kind of info will be helpful.

          You explain better than pick up/seduction gurus
          The way you explain seems scientific and observational.

        • Roinuj
          Roinuj commented
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          Could you link mote post where you explain this stuff, or how can I find all your posts?

        • Muestereate
          Muestereate commented
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          try searching with my name, but go into men's journals as well. Lots of men have made more observations than me. My thoughts are my theories. Look at other's perspectives too

      • #5
        I have never purposely pursued grieving women, But they have pursued me. When I talked to a female therapist she explained it as a feeling of emptiness and she actually encouraged me and gave me permission to comfort women in need. Odd but true but sadness is the emotion that has turned aggressive in my experience. I first noticed this at about your age when women would find me in a bar and screw the shit out of me for no reason. Guys later taught me this was referred to the Revenge F$%^. What a wife does to get even with their husband for cheating. Cheating is a form of abandonment and abandonment makes an empty feeling and empty feeling need filled with something. Me? You?

        I had never associate one feeling with the other but they are a spectrum: This may not be understandable to you but I am trying.

        Click image for larger version  Name:	sadness.png Views:	0 Size:	106.1 KB ID:	139886





        https://www.paulekman.com/universal-...at-is-sadness/

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        • #6
          Originally posted by Muestereate View Post
          Since you have not reported your experiences with those Mones It's hard to recommend one that you just wouldn't say something like I tried that it didn't work.
          this is a great point so here is that info.

          evolve + cohesion seems to result in girls physically wanting to be in my personal space which makes it easier for me to start interactions but one thing about cohesion is it seems to be kind of beta/nice guyish meaning it seems to kill sexual tension with a lot of girls; it seems to make women very comfortable around me almost like a big brother but overall it seems cohesion is counterproductive when it comes to getting laid....that extra comfort comes at the expense of raw sexual arousal.

          I tried bliss + sob one night and it made me unusually extroverted but i was getting less attention then without mones. and i know its sob. sob does not work for me it seems. girls seem to really hate me with sob. i know its supposed to repulse a a lot of women but for me its like 90%+ of women hate the vibe of sob on me. and for bliss after using it i became super depressed and also that night i slept for like 12 hours straight. my plan is to test bliss oil soon and see if i can get the extroversion without the depression and sleep issues after.

          brute + xp83 had girl after girl just staring at me and really not sure why i stopped testing that mix. i will test it again soon. but i think my issue is the way girls reacted was like more attraction then arousal. it did not seem the girls where horny by me like they wanted to fuck me. it was more like that is a hot guy i want to date. it seems more boyfriend/dating vibe then horny/this guy is making me wet vibe. and this seems to be from xp83.

          and evolve seems to really make girls horny but when i test it in the nightlife everyone in the place benefits. it seems so strong that my cloud gets stolen all night which is frustrating. so my plan for evolve is to buy the oil so the cloud is smaller and i do not have to deal with people stealing my cloud all night in crowded places.

          also, i need to mention dominant ascend. it definitelly helps but not college girls. but girls 24+ i would say definitely helps and i like girls that age just as much as college girls so thats fine to me. brute + dominant ascend was promising and also with xp83 also worked.

          so as you can see i have yet to even try most of my products. from what i have tried so far i would say evolve is most promising for getting laid. cohesion would be amazing if it was not so beta and nice guy vibe that kills sexual tension. bliss would be amazing if it did not give me depression and massive sleep need after. xp83 my gut says its either beta like cohesion or once i figure it out might be amazing for getting laid; i need to test it more. and sob is biggest dissapointment. i expected 50-60% of girls would hate it but for me its like 90% hate the sob vibe.

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          • #7
            You may want to switch to evolve oil. It won't throw as far so it's less likely to benefit everybody else. Don't give up on brute and 83. As I mentioned even if a woman is sexually attracted, she's only going to act aggressive a day or two a month or at a time of emotional need.

            I like Crush instead cohesion. It is my go to with Brute and I do recall women being aggressive but only briefly. They aggress verbally and back off. Every time I wore it I thought to myself, " you need to be quicker", Usually when I'm aggressed I take a step back in surprise but I think the proper response is to move in a bit instead of back.

            As far as bitchy women with SOB. Most bitchy is defensive but some is aggressive. If 10 percent are aggressive by all means go after that subset. Personally I tend to move in faster with SoB than brute. You will never please all the people all of the time. Disregard the 90 percent and go after the 10. There are still women out there that like dominant men. I admit, the subset does not seem as large as it used to be. More and more women are attracted to betas because they want to be in charge. With Asperger's you are going to have a hard time fulfilling those types of girls need for an emotional connection with a guy. You can just politely tell them you aren't their type of guy and move on. No use doing chores and talking like they are with a girlfriend when you want one night stand sex. Word will get around, If they say that was good,tell them to tell your friends laugh and drop it. Lots of women want exactly what you got.

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            • #8
              Originally posted by Muestereate View Post
              even if a woman is sexually attracted, she's only going to act aggressive a day or two a month or at a time of emotional need.

              what do you mean by this?

              are you talking about women who are extra horny when they are ovulating?

              if yes, then there should be a lot of women like that in bars and nightclubs which is where i have done 95% of my pheromone usage.


              I like Crush instead cohesion. It is my go to with Brute and I do recall women being aggressive but only briefly. They aggress verbally and back off. Every time I wore it I thought to myself, " you need to be quicker", Usually when I'm aggressed I take a step back in surprise but I think the proper response is to move in a bit instead of back.

              i have not tried cohesion with brute because honestly i was planning to pretty much never use cohesion again.

              yes it does get girls to want to be in your personal space but it seems very beta/nice guyish.

              and the girls who seemed sexually attracted to me with cohesion where less attractive then what i get with other mixes or even without mones at all.

              cohesion seems to be too beta and soft for the bets looking women.

              and i did some research on here and saw a post by legendary member catlord where he said to never use more then 1 spray of cohesion or it would kill all sexual aspect of any mix so it seems he had the same issue with cohesion that i have found.

              i really doubt there is anyone getting a lot of one night stands with any mix that has cohesion in it.

              all the posts i see about sex with cohesion are from guys using it on girlfriend or wife.


              As far as bitchy women with SOB.

              no that is not what is happening with SOB at all.

              sob does NOT make women act bitchy.

              it makes them act like they are disgusted by me.

              its like my image with sob is a scumbag who lies and cheats his way through life.

              i actually do NOT mind bitchyness as usually its a sign the girl likes you but does not think she can get you.

              so no that is absolutelly NOT what is happening when i use sob.

              im really surprised so many people like sob given how badly it has performed for me so far.

              and also it has nothing to do with dominance.

              sob has not been dominant for me at all.

              brute and dominant scend are way more dominant then sob for me.

              and also the vast majority of women like dominant guys so a product that makes you appear dominant would definitely NOT repulse 90% of women.

              sob for me is a disgusting scumbag vibe like a scam artist or someone who lies and cheats his way through life; thats the image sob seems to project for me. im really do not see why i would ever test sob again. ill stick to brute and evolve as my sexuals.


              thank you for the help.

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              • #9
                Sure, Glad to try to help.

                As real life has shown you, the odds of finding an aggressive girl that is extremely good looking, that require near zero effort are extremely thin. Pheromones will make those odds better but very slim odds plus 10 percent is still slim odds. Good luck. Many pickup artists say that its all a numbers game. The more targets you approach per night the better the odds. The larger the venue or town the more you can approach. Have you Read "The Game"? There is a sequence to the pickup, You may be able to learn because your feelings about the pheromones tell me you are picking up more about womens reactions and emotions than you give yourself credit for.

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                • #10
                  Originally posted by Muestereate View Post
                  Sure, Glad to try to help.

                  As real life has shown you, the odds of finding an aggressive girl that is extremely good looking, that require near zero effort are extremely thin. Pheromones will make those odds better but very slim odds plus 10 percent is still slim odds. Good luck. Many pickup artists say that its all a numbers game.
                  i think this is a very flawed and negative way of looking at things.

                  first my results from pheromones are a lot better then 10% boost.

                  i would not keep buying pheromones if they made only a 10% difference.

                  i did not post here to find out if what im trying to do is possible.

                  i know from experience that its possible but i was posting here for suggestions on mixes to test.

                  in fact something that causes the same reaction as cohesion without the killing sexual tension would be very close to what im looking for so im not that far.

                  also, i never said anything about the girl needing to be "extremelly good looking" not surer where you came from with that.

                  finally, i have no interest in PUA advice, in my experience people in that community are some of the worst human beings on the planet; im not in any way involved in the PUA community and have no plans to start.

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                  • #11
                    Originally posted by TheQuestion View Post

                    this is a great point so here is that info.

                    evolve + cohesion seems to result in girls physically wanting to be in my personal space which makes it easier for me to start interactions but one thing about cohesion is it seems to be kind of beta/nice guyish meaning it seems to kill sexual tension with a lot of girls; it seems to make women very comfortable around me almost like a big brother but overall it seems cohesion is counterproductive when it comes to getting laid....that extra comfort comes at the expense of raw sexual arousal.

                    I tried bliss + sob one night and it made me unusually extroverted but i was getting less attention then without mones. and i know its sob. sob does not work for me it seems. girls seem to really hate me with sob. i know its supposed to repulse a a lot of women but for me its like 90%+ of women hate the vibe of sob on me. and for bliss after using it i became super depressed and also that night i slept for like 12 hours straight. my plan is to test bliss oil soon and see if i can get the extroversion without the depression and sleep issues after.

                    brute + xp83 had girl after girl just staring at me and really not sure why i stopped testing that mix. i will test it again soon. but i think my issue is the way girls reacted was like more attraction then arousal. it did not seem the girls where horny by me like they wanted to fuck me. it was more like that is a hot guy i want to date. it seems more boyfriend/dating vibe then horny/this guy is making me wet vibe. and this seems to be from xp83.

                    and evolve seems to really make girls horny but when i test it in the nightlife everyone in the place benefits. it seems so strong that my cloud gets stolen all night which is frustrating. so my plan for evolve is to buy the oil so the cloud is smaller and i do not have to deal with people stealing my cloud all night in crowded places.

                    also, i need to mention dominant ascend. it definitelly helps but not college girls. but girls 24+ i would say definitely helps and i like girls that age just as much as college girls so thats fine to me. brute + dominant ascend was promising and also with xp83 also worked.

                    so as you can see i have yet to even try most of my products. from what i have tried so far i would say evolve is most promising for getting laid. cohesion would be amazing if it was not so beta and nice guy vibe that kills sexual tension. bliss would be amazing if it did not give me depression and massive sleep need after. xp83 my gut says its either beta like cohesion or once i figure it out might be amazing for getting laid; i need to test it more. and sob is biggest dissapointment. i expected 50-60% of girls would hate it but for me its like 90% hate the sob vibe.
                    What age group did the evolve work for you? Did you wear anything else with it?

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                    • #12
                      The oils take longer to work than the spray, so keep that in mind. Most people don't have 10-15 mins with your target in bars and clubs. Maybe you should wear half a spray or something instead?

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                      • #13
                        Can you mix Brute with a shot of XIST? just wondering, tonight I will go Brute, but the alpha in it got my a little worried of conflicts with other alphas. Let us see how it goes on this Friday night.

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                        • #14
                          Hope you had a godd night, You can always put a little in a sample sprayer and carry it with you to try to adjust on the fly and develop your own personal combos. I used to adjust on the fly a lot and still do but I found in my case I usually need to remove instead of add. This is why I like a little on the wrist or hands etc, it washes off super easy, usually, just a damp paper towel and I'm right on.

                          I really haven't run into problems with Brute with other guys but it depends on the person. Real alphas aren't insecure.

                          The only two pheromones that upset other men in my personal testing and circles were Dominant Ascend and LAL's Alpha Vitae and it was the same two guys over and over.

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                          • MRSNAKE
                            MRSNAKE commented
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                            Had no hits at all with the brute, but at least the men stayed off me.

                        • #15
                          I am going to a older crowed bar, women in their 30's there. Will then go to a pool hall as i got invite to play pool there, lots of 20ish young girls there. Not sure what to try this time. 1 Evolve 2 Xist. The Brute, the 1 Taboo and 2 XIST? Maybe just the TABOO by itself? Will figure it out tomorrow.

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