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**Quiet&Dreamy** · 12-21-2019, 02:56 PM

Hi!

Welcome! Seems like you've really figured out how things work on you. I love how you laid it all out.

**ForeverRubies** · 12-21-2019, 04:28 PM

Originally posted by Quiet&Dreamy

Hi!

Welcome! Seems like you've really figured out how things work on you. I love how you laid it all out.

THANK YOU!

**Spring** · 12-21-2019, 10:38 PM

Hello welcome!

the ladies in this forum are super helpful, I'm sure they'll be able to answer your questions!

**MostHoly** · 12-22-2019, 12:02 AM

Welcome! Yes, agreed with above said, the ladies here are super kind, knowledgeable and helpful. For well off white guys I think using status blends could be great. Fairytale is a good one as is Temptress. You can always soften these a bit with Xist, Connections or LoveBoat (which I adore!) in case they feel "serious" on you. Good luck with your endeavors and have fun while at it

**Ildergreier** · 12-22-2019, 04:56 AM

Welcome!!!
So nice that you came and joined us.

**Phaethon** · 12-22-2019, 06:14 AM

Welcome to the forum.

**OutspokenOne** · 12-25-2019, 05:45 PM

Originally posted by ForeverRubies

Hello,

I am a long time(3-4 years) Pheros wearer and stalker of threads. Also from LSA thanks Ildergreier. I think I'm just now starting to get the hang of things, but I'm still experimenting and learning. I literally just turned 26 and African american, 5feet even and body type like Adrienne Bailon, and I have a pending breast augmentation. Yay me lol

My goal is to attract well off white guys. I used to use tinder & bumble a lot because I work a lot and in grad school, but I am trying to do more of meeting men organically and not relying so much on dating apps. Trying to cultivate a life outside of work. I like live shows/ ballet/ opera/being cute lmao / thinking of taking up tennis or joining a gym ?

I have to be a bit serious at work, but I'm not a serious person. I'm the typical libra. I'm not really a stress type of person. I have anxiety so anything that makes me feel that way is a no. I have figured out that I like EST lol

When I'm out and about I usually get looks on my own but I feel that white guys need more encouragement to approach. I love DIHL but also action...

Any help would be greatly appreciated lol

My Active Collection
DHEAS / Topper - I feel cuter and i stay in a mirror, and i need to be seen.
Cuddle bunny - people do things for me lmao
Cougar - Older men break their necks (even at church)...but the grapefruit is too loud for me...
LoveBoat - I love it, makes me happy and people stay around for a long time
Tease - Stares from men and paired with XS190 women approach me, which is nice but... not what I wanted
Celebrity - I feel like a baddie and people need to see me....
Lumina - reminds me of celebrity and puts me in a great mood and I wanna be seen..
Desire Me+ - strong sexy.. and makes me horny so i only get sample sizes of it with every order because I don't want to OD, but I think i got my first male approach with this....but he seemed NERVOUS he was older...
Xist - everyone is in love lmao
Girlfriend - definitely had a guy trying to move me in within a month after meeting...so i'm definitely saving it....

p86- i just ordered it after reading all the reviews
sweetness - makes me want to clean things..but people are nicer?
xs190 - not sure what it does but i feel cuter and i was allowed to park in the handicapped section at one of my churches
xs189 - feels serious on me...
engage - not sure but people stay around for a long time
Magnet - idk, it's supposed to attract men?
Vibe - tester haven't to tried it yet..
PSEL - tester, haven't tried

Honorable Mention:
Babe - Serious on me, nothing for free, I always get the :order whatever you want treatment so...i gave this away.
Flirt - makes me feel self conscious/triggers my anxiety...
Innocence - idk..I have a baby face so I'm not sure if this does anything on me...
Temptress, Dominance (LPMP) - ordered this for when I was teaching 6th grade... lol
Cohesion / Bath Balm/ Teddy BB / open windows - made work life wonderful / great with women coworkers
Comply / mother's little helper - people do what i ask...period...Comply is more serious, I prefer MLH
Connections / Heart & Soul - makes me want to cry. Brings my mood DOWN. I hate that one so I gave it away to a coworker lol

Hello sis! Another Fellow LSA font on here, I love it. Cheerio dates similar guys like you (correct me if I'm wrong Cheerio) so I'm sure she can give you some tips on that. Also her past journal entries are good too.

I can't wait until you get P86, you're gonna fall in love with it!
I hope you end up liking Engage too.

If you have any questions please don't hesistate to tag/message me!

**ForeverRubies** · 12-25-2019, 10:26 PM

Originally posted by OutspokenOne

Hello sis! Another Fellow LSA font on here, I love it. Cheerio dates similar guys like you (correct me if I'm wrong Cheerio) so I'm sure she can give you some tips on that. Also her past journal entries are good too.

I can't wait until you get P86, you're gonna fall in love with it!
I hope you end up liking Engage too.

If you have any questions please don't hesistate to tag/message me!

Thank you & MERRY CHRISTMAS!! I have been loving p86. Here's what I have experienced...people are more aware of me and compliment me out of nowhere. LOoks and casual conversation from older men... I was at the grocery store with make up and without. Each time an older man was looking like...I tested it 3 random days without any other blends, at 2 sprays...

engage is very subtle on me. I think it keeps the conversation going but i don't get approached with that one...

I think p86 + Desire me / Cops + [a status blend] + EST ...might be my formula??

**OutspokenOne** · 12-26-2019, 09:36 AM

Originally posted by ForeverRubies

Thank you & MERRY CHRISTMAS!! I have been loving p86. Here's what I have experienced...people are more aware of me and compliment me out of nowhere. LOoks and casual conversation from older men... I was at the grocery store with make up and without. Each time an older man was looking like...I tested it 3 random days without any other blends, at 2 sprays...

engage is very subtle on me. I think it keeps the conversation going but i don't get approached with that one...

I think p86 + Desire me / Cops + [a status blend] + EST ...might be my formula??

A merry Christmas to you as well!

yessss P86 brings in so many compliments and stares. Make sure to use it on dates.

that sounds like a good combination. Do you have Goddess? I did P86 + DM + Goddess last week and my work crush was head over heels for me

**ForeverRubies** · 12-26-2019, 10:22 AM

Originally posted by OutspokenOne

A merry Christmas to you as well!

yessss P86 brings in so many compliments and stares. Make sure to use it on dates.

that sounds like a good combination. Do you have Goddess? I did P86 + DM + Goddess last week and my work crush was head over heels for me

No I don't have that one yet

**drlove** · 12-26-2019, 12:00 PM

Wow ForeverRubi! Welcome. You've been really atuned to the effect of the various blends. I can't say that I've been as diligent in tracking and observing the nuances. Basically, I do get hits, but I often forget which combination of mones I had on when it happened. I just know that they have been helping and that I've sort of settled into what seems to be comfortable for me. I've been using for about 4(+) years as well, and admittedly, got active on here only when they started the lifetime discounts

However, now that I am here, I have also found this community extremely knowledgeable, respectful, friendly, and encouraging. BTW, I too have a baby face / look younger than I am - non-white - so I've found the stronger alphas helpful. I am a high profile leader and a "friendly extrovert". So, the mones like SOB help give me a little more "edginess" (I think) - I can't say if women "like" it, just that overall, a lot of 8/9/10 women hang around these days, open-up and accept dates; I've had year-long relationships w/ two of them, I would have never thought I could before. Before, I was always very anxious about good-looking women - great in the board room, nervous around the beautiful women. I wouldn't consider myself an 8/9/10 guy. i'm a Christian with a strict moral code, and am looking for "the one" - so being "vulnerable" has been hard. I've been trying to stay away from the "nice guy" vibe because that easily projects from me at first appearance. I have to admit, my relationships have been semi-exclusive up to now, not really exclusive; although they haven't dated others while they were with me, we never really declared "exclusivity" (and I dated others simultaneously

). I am enjoying dating a variety of women. So, getting to exclusivity will be interesting - I want to go exclusive with somebody at some point....OK, now I'm just blabbering....Anyway, I "feel" that the mones have helped. I am dating (a lot). My buddies are amazed at the dates I'm getting and the women I am "hanging" with - all heady stuff, now just need to find the "one"

Sorry, didn't mean for this to turn into a novel - I am enjoying learning from all of you....hope everyone had a wonderful Christmas Day!

PS Spent Christmas Day with a clear "10" and her family - she tells people she isn't ready to date; yet, she keeps inviting me to things...wasup with that? My mones have all run out, and I'm awaiting my next shipment - so I literally drained/shook out whatever I could from my bottle of Xist, Domination, Ascend (spray - still had fumes)....I still have wolf and raw chemistry left, so used that as well....Not sure if they helped....Phero XS will always be a part of my base....Her parents were chatty, sis and daughter a bit less at first, but they didn't avoid me....I do think some females may clam-up with strong mones, not sure - the experimentation continues!

Open to any feedback on potentially better mixes...

**Cheerio** · 12-27-2019, 08:47 PM

Thanks for tagging me, OutspokenOne

Originally posted by ForeverRubies

When I'm out and about I usually get looks on my own but I feel that white guys need more encouragement to approach.

Do you smile at them? Try to initiate conversation?
I know that can be hard depending on whether you are.

Have you dated white guys before? Where do you live?

**ForeverRubies** · 12-28-2019, 03:55 PM

Originally posted by Cheerio

Thanks for tagging me, OutspokenOne

Do you smile at them? Try to initiate conversation?
I know that can be hard depending on whether you are.

Have you dated white guys before? Where do you live?

Yes I gravitate towards white guys. Usually older, like 35+. I don't initiate conversation but I do smile. I'm in TX.

**Cheerio** · 12-28-2019, 08:26 PM

Originally posted by ForeverRubies

Yes I gravitate towards white guys. Usually older, like 35+. I don't initiate conversation but I do smile. I'm in TX.

So one thing I've learned is that initiating conversation doesn't mean you''re pursuing/chasing. I had to learn that because I was always in my head about it. Let's say you're sitting at the bar, ordering your food, and then you see the man next to you get a plate of delicious food placed right in front of him. You can make a few comments:

"On my goodness, that looks delicious!"
"Wow, thanks for making my even hungrier *giggles*"

The fact that you even initiated conversation should give him the green light to continue conversation:

"I know, it's a Filet Mignon/Ribeye/whatever..."
"*laughs at your comment* what did you order?..."

He should be the one to carry the conversation once you've given him the green light. But if you make those comments and all he does is laugh and goes back to eating his food, but you still keep making comments, then that's when you're pursuing/chasing him.

Basically, if it doesn't flow naturally and you're struggling to get more out of him, he's not interested. But if he responds to you, you're IN!

One thing I love about white guys is that they're so damn easy to talk to.

Do you live near the wealthy areas?

**ForeverRubies** · 12-29-2019, 10:27 AM

Originally posted by Cheerio

So one thing I've learned is that initiating conversation doesn't mean you''re pursuing/chasing. I had to learn that because I was always in my head about it. Let's say you're sitting at the bar, ordering your food, and then you see the man next to you get a plate of delicious food placed right in front of him. You can make a few comments:

"On my goodness, that looks delicious!"
"Wow, thanks for making my even hungrier *giggles*"

The fact that you even initiated conversation should give him the green light to continue conversation:

"I know, it's a Filet Mignon/Ribeye/whatever..."
"*laughs at your comment* what did you order?..."

He should be the one to carry the conversation once you've given him the green light. But if you make those comments and all he does is laugh and goes back to eating his food, but you still keep making comments, then that's when you're pursuing/chasing him.

Basically, if it doesn't flow naturally and you're struggling to get more out of him, he's not interested. But if he responds to you, you're IN!

One thing I love about white guys is that they're so damn easy to talk to.

Do you live near the wealthy areas?

Yesss, I thought that too! When I wore Desire Me+ with cougar, i had my first initiation. An Older guy sat next to me and drilled a hole in my head looking for like 3 min and then started talking to me...It's my goal to initiate interactions to help them out...I live in a wealthy area, and i'm really into the theatre/opera/museum scene. I get looks on my own, but I'd like more interactions. So far p86 and Xs190+ Tease has gotten me approaches by men and women. I ordered some OCCO as well. But i really want to brush up on my conversation skills.

**Cheerio** · 12-29-2019, 03:00 PM

Originally posted by ForeverRubies

So far p86 and Xs190+ Tease has gotten me approaches by men and women

Sounds like I need to try this combo!

There are so many new combos I want to try when I start going out again.

The best way to practice is with men you're not really that interested in, or with other people, in general.

**OutspokenOne** · 12-29-2019, 05:51 PM

Hopefully you start a journal on here soon! It seems like you have some good combos and experiences with them

**ForeverRubies** · 12-29-2019, 07:29 PM

Originally posted by OutspokenOne

Hopefully you start a journal on here soon! It seems like you have some good combos and experiences with them

Hopefully!! For now I keep my journal in my phone lmao

**Cheerio** · 12-30-2019, 08:38 PM

See it like this...

Shoot your shot, but he's paying for the bullet!

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