The only place I have found those generalizations and categorization to have a higher probability of being true than false would be Evangelical Christian churches. Except for the religiously abused, the moral restrictions actually raise sexual desire. There is a taboo factor at play, a sort of reverse psychology by the church increases the sex drive enough to overcome the losses of freedom that marriage entails. I have dated a lot of churchy type young girls. Marriage makes babies that enlarge the church and strengthen local population growth long term. The older gals don't seem to be the same.
The ladies in these churches have no more innate desire to surrender their freedoms than more liberal contemporaries. Their predilection towards marriage pressure does not surface unless a relationship becomes public. Even then, the hint of future engagement is enough to "make things right". These experiences and observations of my own don't support your generalizations to my satisfaction. I no longer accept the traditional view of traditional women as true. They are themselves mythos and full of prejudice and expectations of falsehoods.
It is these falsehoods imo that modern women are rebelling against. unfortunately, they have chosen the incorrect path of blaming outward conditions and people instead of the more correct path of personal responsibility. Some women have accepted that path. I am wondering where they might gather in high concentrations. I agree with rebelling against lies. Lives based on self-deception become toxic. The last 100 or 150 years will be looked at as a sort of social renaissance years. Though I sympathize with the struggles of fast-changing times, beliefs must keep up with revealed truths.
That said, Some sort of church social might be a good start. Maybe I'll try church bake sales and shop for cookies. Crunchy or chewy? I think crunchy sounds more courageous.
The ladies in these churches have no more innate desire to surrender their freedoms than more liberal contemporaries. Their predilection towards marriage pressure does not surface unless a relationship becomes public. Even then, the hint of future engagement is enough to "make things right". These experiences and observations of my own don't support your generalizations to my satisfaction. I no longer accept the traditional view of traditional women as true. They are themselves mythos and full of prejudice and expectations of falsehoods.
It is these falsehoods imo that modern women are rebelling against. unfortunately, they have chosen the incorrect path of blaming outward conditions and people instead of the more correct path of personal responsibility. Some women have accepted that path. I am wondering where they might gather in high concentrations. I agree with rebelling against lies. Lives based on self-deception become toxic. The last 100 or 150 years will be looked at as a sort of social renaissance years. Though I sympathize with the struggles of fast-changing times, beliefs must keep up with revealed truths.
That said, Some sort of church social might be a good start. Maybe I'll try church bake sales and shop for cookies. Crunchy or chewy? I think crunchy sounds more courageous.
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