Greetings,
I'm new to the whole pheromone world.
I've been living my life in a pretty beta male when it comes to attraction and romance. I know I have had girls/women that liked me but the low-esteem me didn't do anything about it and now I'm 32 never even dated, kissed, and still a virgin.
I had girls, I've taken interest in here and there until I met my coworker. I first started off as me thinking she was the most awesome person, then I started falling in love with her and I haven't felt this way in over a decade.
I'm socially awkward but I am considered like a visually attractive asian celebrity natural look. I got scouted a number of times in Japan, (more recently was when I was 30).
So my situation is this, I fell in love with a coworker who's just a few years older than me and after a year and a half I confessed and got rejected. I thought I can move on but for some reason I couldn't shake the feeling it was over because I believe I can win her over, I just don't know how or what I'm missing. She's not exactly a head turner to modern standards when it comes to looks but to me she's attractive in all hell.
I confessed earlier this year and things got awkward but she still makes an effort to talk to me and more recently I try to make a effort to talk to her more but still feeling.... beta? depressed? I can't tell. I'm doing what I can to improve myself though, and I really would like to win her over.
Everytime we talk, it's usually almost always about work, she'd used to invite me to a few events in the past but as a group with our other coworkers, but I work closely with her. She orchestrated my birthday surprise at work and even made me... well lets say cake.
She's usually pretty serious with me and would sometimes be bubbly but that's starting to die out and I don't want that.
I would like to win her over and I understand pheromones alone won't do the job however from my understanding it surely can work. I tried the RawChemistry one that I found on Amazon but I don't know if that's just snake oil with a lot of reviews.
So my question would be, would Xist be the best option for me to start with? If you have any recommendations on top of that or besides that, I'm all ears but please don't recommend me things just for sales purposes. Honesty would go a long way for me.
Thanks for reading!
I'm new to the whole pheromone world.
I've been living my life in a pretty beta male when it comes to attraction and romance. I know I have had girls/women that liked me but the low-esteem me didn't do anything about it and now I'm 32 never even dated, kissed, and still a virgin.
I had girls, I've taken interest in here and there until I met my coworker. I first started off as me thinking she was the most awesome person, then I started falling in love with her and I haven't felt this way in over a decade.
I'm socially awkward but I am considered like a visually attractive asian celebrity natural look. I got scouted a number of times in Japan, (more recently was when I was 30).
So my situation is this, I fell in love with a coworker who's just a few years older than me and after a year and a half I confessed and got rejected. I thought I can move on but for some reason I couldn't shake the feeling it was over because I believe I can win her over, I just don't know how or what I'm missing. She's not exactly a head turner to modern standards when it comes to looks but to me she's attractive in all hell.
I confessed earlier this year and things got awkward but she still makes an effort to talk to me and more recently I try to make a effort to talk to her more but still feeling.... beta? depressed? I can't tell. I'm doing what I can to improve myself though, and I really would like to win her over.
Everytime we talk, it's usually almost always about work, she'd used to invite me to a few events in the past but as a group with our other coworkers, but I work closely with her. She orchestrated my birthday surprise at work and even made me... well lets say cake.
She's usually pretty serious with me and would sometimes be bubbly but that's starting to die out and I don't want that.
I would like to win her over and I understand pheromones alone won't do the job however from my understanding it surely can work. I tried the RawChemistry one that I found on Amazon but I don't know if that's just snake oil with a lot of reviews.
So my question would be, would Xist be the best option for me to start with? If you have any recommendations on top of that or besides that, I'm all ears but please don't recommend me things just for sales purposes. Honesty would go a long way for me.
Thanks for reading!
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