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Having problems with confidence I decided on ordering a spray bottle of Ascend, because I already use cohesion and evolve I went for the ACE pack as also had a good discount if bought as a pack.
My usual formula of 2xCohesion + 1xEvolve + 1x Xist has been working well for me and seems to work with my personality. Not being great confidence wise somebody mentions trying Ascend, so gave it a go.
First off today I was aware that Ascend was going to be quite smelly, I thought people were over reacting but being cautious I sprayed one spray on some paper before spraying on myself, and my eyes and nose were opened to how smelly this was! It was not like any lady area I have ever smelled, smelt more like excrement. Anyway was well aware of this and it has probably been gone over hundreds of times, I straight away decided on 1XAscend and try and cover it with scent, thinking the cops smell would also calm down. In total I had 1xAscend + 2xCohesion + 1xEvolve. I tried to cover the Ascend with Jean Paul Gaultier Le male, which I think is a bit too light, this scent has worked great with my usual mix but it did not cover the cops smell at all!
Went to work feeling a little apprehensive as all i could smell was the Ascend, as much science behind this, I just couldn't imagine anybody wanting to be close to me smelling like this. I also was doubting it would be good for my confidence as I would have to display an Alpha image to pull the signature off.
The first thing I noticed was that people seemed more serious around me and people didn't seem as much at ease when talking to me as if I was intimidating, not scared though but a bit more cautious around me. The office clown come attention seeking arse with the wobbly lip every time I talk to a woman seemed to be getting louder as if he was trying to compete more with me, he is usually like this but he seemed even more of an arse today, making loads of stupid noises and trying to butt in every time I was conversing with women.
As the day went on I tried to lighten it up by being more jovial rather than serious, and I found women opened up a little and I saw some glimpses of what Ascend does. One woman (41 years old not really attracted to her) who I was auditing kept calling me lord <surname> and saying things like lead on lord <surname> e.t.c which was out of character and she wasn't very chatty but she kept invading my space and telling me to lead on and she will just follow, she kept rubbing her bottom against me "accidentally". Was out of character.
Later on in the audit my boss (who i fancy, 53 years old and think she knows I fancy her) came in and so did this Italian attractive woman (35 years old). Well I got chatting to the Italian woman and she was displaying signs of enjoying my company and as soon as she started giggling at what I was saying my boss was straight around trying to get in the middle of it all. I know why because me and my boss have some chemistry and she plays this game of knowing I am attracted to her, so she likes to use this to boost her ego and so gets quite possessive of me and can be flirty. The Italian woman isn't usually as chatty as she was with me today so a change there.
Later on I had to talk to my boss about the audit and it was a mix of her being unsure and excitement. We sat close together which isn't out of the ordinary, I noticed though that she was crossing her legs towards me a lot more than usual and her foot was nearly stroking my leg, she seemed excited but not totally out of the ordinary as she reacts similarly with Evolve, the problem seemed to be though after a few minutes she moved a way from me a little but her legs remained crossed towards me as if she was saying hang on whats happening here. The girl I was auditing was on her knees in front of me as well whcih was an odd place to stand, my bosses leg was kind of shielding her from me which I took as body language with her possessiveness creating a barrier between me and the woman I was auditing. Later on I also had to perform training with another woman (42 years old) in the office with my boss present and my boss kept looking over and was trying to get involved in what I was saying to the woman I was training and at one point came over and started discussing things. She often plays this game of wanting to see if she can get my attention over other women. It all seemed like she didn't like the fact I was training this other woman.
So overall I have seen differences in my day using Ascend. The smell really is terrible and probably need a better/stronger cover scent. I did get more respect off some people but then found that some people expected me to lead and found people were more open to challenging me as if I had gone up a level and were challenging my status. Self effects were that I felt more serious and I did feel more confident but found it tiring keeping up the facade. The woman I fancy who acted a little more intimidated than usual so while she usually calls me over and my old mix of Evolve,Xist and Cohesion seems to excite her and she acts a bit flirty and crushy and its all quite light. The Evolve, Cohesion and Ascend Excited her but there was this intimidation factor she didnt seem comfortable with and she wasn't as light hearted or playful with conversation it had a more serious short tone.
Think I will experiment with Ascend a bit more as it definitely worked for me in a way, some positives as definitely gained some respect but not sure whether I can keep up the facade of being a high status guy and the seriousness and battling all day for status , when my old mix of Evolve, Cohesion and Evolve seems to get me hits as a beta guy and women seem to be comfortable and playful even if I do get a bit of lack of respect.
Just wanted to try it out even though I am happy with my current mix, wanted to change a bit and see if I could get a bit more respect.
Oh and I got a shower as soon as I got in to get rid of the darn smell lol!!
My usual formula of 2xCohesion + 1xEvolve + 1x Xist has been working well for me and seems to work with my personality. Not being great confidence wise somebody mentions trying Ascend, so gave it a go.
First off today I was aware that Ascend was going to be quite smelly, I thought people were over reacting but being cautious I sprayed one spray on some paper before spraying on myself, and my eyes and nose were opened to how smelly this was! It was not like any lady area I have ever smelled, smelt more like excrement. Anyway was well aware of this and it has probably been gone over hundreds of times, I straight away decided on 1XAscend and try and cover it with scent, thinking the cops smell would also calm down. In total I had 1xAscend + 2xCohesion + 1xEvolve. I tried to cover the Ascend with Jean Paul Gaultier Le male, which I think is a bit too light, this scent has worked great with my usual mix but it did not cover the cops smell at all!
Went to work feeling a little apprehensive as all i could smell was the Ascend, as much science behind this, I just couldn't imagine anybody wanting to be close to me smelling like this. I also was doubting it would be good for my confidence as I would have to display an Alpha image to pull the signature off.
The first thing I noticed was that people seemed more serious around me and people didn't seem as much at ease when talking to me as if I was intimidating, not scared though but a bit more cautious around me. The office clown come attention seeking arse with the wobbly lip every time I talk to a woman seemed to be getting louder as if he was trying to compete more with me, he is usually like this but he seemed even more of an arse today, making loads of stupid noises and trying to butt in every time I was conversing with women.
As the day went on I tried to lighten it up by being more jovial rather than serious, and I found women opened up a little and I saw some glimpses of what Ascend does. One woman (41 years old not really attracted to her) who I was auditing kept calling me lord <surname> and saying things like lead on lord <surname> e.t.c which was out of character and she wasn't very chatty but she kept invading my space and telling me to lead on and she will just follow, she kept rubbing her bottom against me "accidentally". Was out of character.
Later on in the audit my boss (who i fancy, 53 years old and think she knows I fancy her) came in and so did this Italian attractive woman (35 years old). Well I got chatting to the Italian woman and she was displaying signs of enjoying my company and as soon as she started giggling at what I was saying my boss was straight around trying to get in the middle of it all. I know why because me and my boss have some chemistry and she plays this game of knowing I am attracted to her, so she likes to use this to boost her ego and so gets quite possessive of me and can be flirty. The Italian woman isn't usually as chatty as she was with me today so a change there.
Later on I had to talk to my boss about the audit and it was a mix of her being unsure and excitement. We sat close together which isn't out of the ordinary, I noticed though that she was crossing her legs towards me a lot more than usual and her foot was nearly stroking my leg, she seemed excited but not totally out of the ordinary as she reacts similarly with Evolve, the problem seemed to be though after a few minutes she moved a way from me a little but her legs remained crossed towards me as if she was saying hang on whats happening here. The girl I was auditing was on her knees in front of me as well whcih was an odd place to stand, my bosses leg was kind of shielding her from me which I took as body language with her possessiveness creating a barrier between me and the woman I was auditing. Later on I also had to perform training with another woman (42 years old) in the office with my boss present and my boss kept looking over and was trying to get involved in what I was saying to the woman I was training and at one point came over and started discussing things. She often plays this game of wanting to see if she can get my attention over other women. It all seemed like she didn't like the fact I was training this other woman.
So overall I have seen differences in my day using Ascend. The smell really is terrible and probably need a better/stronger cover scent. I did get more respect off some people but then found that some people expected me to lead and found people were more open to challenging me as if I had gone up a level and were challenging my status. Self effects were that I felt more serious and I did feel more confident but found it tiring keeping up the facade. The woman I fancy who acted a little more intimidated than usual so while she usually calls me over and my old mix of Evolve,Xist and Cohesion seems to excite her and she acts a bit flirty and crushy and its all quite light. The Evolve, Cohesion and Ascend Excited her but there was this intimidation factor she didnt seem comfortable with and she wasn't as light hearted or playful with conversation it had a more serious short tone.
Think I will experiment with Ascend a bit more as it definitely worked for me in a way, some positives as definitely gained some respect but not sure whether I can keep up the facade of being a high status guy and the seriousness and battling all day for status , when my old mix of Evolve, Cohesion and Evolve seems to get me hits as a beta guy and women seem to be comfortable and playful even if I do get a bit of lack of respect.
Just wanted to try it out even though I am happy with my current mix, wanted to change a bit and see if I could get a bit more respect.
Oh and I got a shower as soon as I got in to get rid of the darn smell lol!!
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