Hey Everyone --
New to this site, not so new to pheros (8 yrs exp).
I met this girl on PoF. She's 23, Latina, I'm 25, mixed.
First date, we went to a restaurant. We were already texting/talking to each other, she seemed like she had high interest. Then, one day, she tells me how her ex is making threats to her and how she had to go to his commander (he's military) and get a restraining order.
The VERY FIRST THING she talks about at the date is her ex and all that was going on. She seemed REALLY nervous, a bit high strung, and was trying to impress me. REALLY hard.
I did VERY little talking during the date.
Date lasted about 2 hours. We walked to the parking lot, I got a friendly side-hug, then we went on our way.
Well, texted her telling her I had a great time, she did too, we have a bowling date on Thursday. I'm not sold on her yet, but I'm going to go ahead and say she was just VERY nervous.
I was wearing to sprays of AMMO layered with Ascend XS on top.
Honestly, I probably wouldn't go on a second date with her if she wasn't so attractive, but I'm curious to see what happens. I texted her a few times today (day after date), and her responses are much shorter and terse (usually, she texts RIGHT AWAY with a long text answering all my questions, today, she waited a bit longer with more one word answers -- I did ask her on the second date tonight though, and she's game -- don't think I've been friend-zoned yet).
I'm looking to wear something that is still very sexy, very alpha, but also makes her much more relaxed, a bit giddier (I don't think she smiled/laughed the entire date), and just overall more comfortable. All I have from this site is some A1, Ascend XS, Boat XS, and Vibes XS. From our brother site, I have Ammo, TUTH, Instant Honesty, P93(I think).
During the date, I ordered a cocktail hoping she'd follow suit, she did not (I don't think she drinks). On the second date, I'm not looking to get laid. I'm hoping to possibly invite her to my place for dinner & movie on Saturday night if things go according to plan.
Thoughts/suggestions?
New to this site, not so new to pheros (8 yrs exp).
I met this girl on PoF. She's 23, Latina, I'm 25, mixed.
First date, we went to a restaurant. We were already texting/talking to each other, she seemed like she had high interest. Then, one day, she tells me how her ex is making threats to her and how she had to go to his commander (he's military) and get a restraining order.
The VERY FIRST THING she talks about at the date is her ex and all that was going on. She seemed REALLY nervous, a bit high strung, and was trying to impress me. REALLY hard.
I did VERY little talking during the date.
Date lasted about 2 hours. We walked to the parking lot, I got a friendly side-hug, then we went on our way.
Well, texted her telling her I had a great time, she did too, we have a bowling date on Thursday. I'm not sold on her yet, but I'm going to go ahead and say she was just VERY nervous.
I was wearing to sprays of AMMO layered with Ascend XS on top.
Honestly, I probably wouldn't go on a second date with her if she wasn't so attractive, but I'm curious to see what happens. I texted her a few times today (day after date), and her responses are much shorter and terse (usually, she texts RIGHT AWAY with a long text answering all my questions, today, she waited a bit longer with more one word answers -- I did ask her on the second date tonight though, and she's game -- don't think I've been friend-zoned yet).
I'm looking to wear something that is still very sexy, very alpha, but also makes her much more relaxed, a bit giddier (I don't think she smiled/laughed the entire date), and just overall more comfortable. All I have from this site is some A1, Ascend XS, Boat XS, and Vibes XS. From our brother site, I have Ammo, TUTH, Instant Honesty, P93(I think).
During the date, I ordered a cocktail hoping she'd follow suit, she did not (I don't think she drinks). On the second date, I'm not looking to get laid. I'm hoping to possibly invite her to my place for dinner & movie on Saturday night if things go according to plan.
Thoughts/suggestions?
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