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US women with higher standards just need to keep supporting one another and schooling these other women.
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Oh and some of you are posting dating sites. I met my man in Spiritual Singles. (the guy before that I met on MeetMindful) I also was talking to quite a few guys on there before I met him and it took the edge off. The man before him we had a "connection" and I got really hung up on that. Connection is important, but getting on that site reminded me I make lots of connections it's what I'm naturally good at. It really helped me realize I can make lots of deep connections with men and women and it doesn't mean I need them to be a lifelong thing. Some people are here just for a season. It helped me from getting too overwhelmed with my feelings and falling hard too fast before they actually showed that they were worthy of it.
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Yes alot of dudes didn't get far with me because I don't drink.
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Originally posted by Cheerio View Post
Your list reminds me of my husband manifestation list. I was extremely specific because I'll never forget reading how someone manifested the perfect man... but he was gay! LOL. So now I say "is heterosexual" & "was born a man." I do not need any surprises or complications.
I'm going to make breaded chicken breast and eat it with the rest of my angel hair pasta w/ shrimp.
This is what I made a few nights ago:
Chicken Alfredo Fettuccine
I'm just going to make the chicken again.
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Hinge seems to have the most interesting pool of men. I use the League but it's overrated at least in my area. Same dudes on Tinder.
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Originally posted by Isis View PostYes !! Like lafemme mentioned. Hinge has more quality men, and i noticed the same with coffee meets bagel.
I did meet my new boo on okc though !
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Yes !! Like lafemme mentioned. Hinge has more quality men, and i noticed the same with coffee meets bagel.
I did meet my new boo on okc though !
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Originally posted by Vicki Lee View Post
My reaction:
Ohhhh you tryna get me loose, LOOSE.
Some similar shit happened to me.... Dude more than likely saw me pay for the food (error on my part), But apparently had all the money in the world to keep buying me shots of 1800 tho.... G.L. Lambert said no liquor on the first date, now next time I know better... Never again.
Someone had written an article about the problematic promotion of "ladies drink free" nights... Like literally those nights are perfect for predators looking for prey if you think about it. Think about how many young 21 year old girls go out, get cute, proably don't have a clique of friends, then a dude comes over and gas them up, and liquor them up... You catch the drift. Those are the nights IMO are for you and your girlfriends, I will never be on the look out for a dude under those cirumstances. That's why in the club scene we as women need to link up together even if we don't know each other because men don't give a damn.
(sorry if I went far left with it, lol it's been on my mind lately)
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Originally posted by lafemme View Post
The apps that have been the most successful for me have been Hinge and Raya; perhaps you'd try those out??
And yes, please try meeting men out in public instead. Are you often high glam when you go out? I've toned mine down a few pegs, and men out in the wild react to me in a much more positive and verbose way; strange, but less is attracting more; for me.
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Originally posted by Theogqueen View PostI just have OKC and bumble.
And yes, please try meeting men out in public instead. Are you often high glam when you go out? I've toned mine down a few pegs, and men out in the wild react to me in a much more positive and verbose way; strange, but less is attracting more; for me.
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I saw a red flag of mine the other day. She looked deeply into my eyes and they were not dilated despite her enrapturement with me. Instead, her pupils were like pinpoints. Heroin. Asked around because other people had noticed the hit too, Newly widowed from a heroin overdosing husband. GTFO now Muestereate.
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She set off my red flag so I just clicked the stop button, and now I'm going to the bathroom. lol.
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Jesus what a loser! And yep she does leave! But she'll pretend to use the bathroom and leave him waiting LMAO.
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Originally posted by Theogqueen View Post
Ohhhh you tryna get me loose, LOOSE.
Some similar shit happened to me.... Dude more than likely saw me pay for the food (error on my part), But apparently had all the money in the world to keep buying me shots of 1800 tho.... G.L. Lambert said no liquor on the first date, now next time I know better... Never again.
Someone had written an article about the problematic promotion of "ladies drink free" nights... Like literally those nights are perfect for predators looking for prey if you think about it. Think about how many young 21 year old girls go out, get cute, proably don't have a clique of friends, then a dude comes over and gas them up, and liquor them up... You catch the drift. Those are the nights IMO are for you and your girlfriends, I will never be on the look out for a dude under those cirumstances. That's why in the club scene we as women need to link up together even if we don't know each other because men don't give a damn.
(sorry if I went far left with it, lol it's been on my mind lately)
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Originally posted by colorfulaura View Post
If it's a bar restaurant you can gauge them by ordering food with your drinks. Drink dates are more unclear because it can turn into a dinner date but it'll depend on the man. I was watching a video of a dating coach who uses drink dates as tests. She'll ask the guy about the food on the menu and if the guy says something like "I'm not hungry" to push her to drinks she gets up and leaves.
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