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I don't think I ever orgasmed?
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Originally posted by NuTrix View Post
As in how?
Like the same way they say guys jacking off (pardon the crudneess) can mess them up? As in, then you can only get off by yourself because you've got a certain expectation and can no longer get off with a partner?
I've noticed after using vibrators that it can cause the following:
- addiction to that type of sensation and orgasm
- loss of sensation after some time, possible nerve damage?
- pain if you use it too often and too long
So, I try not to use my current vibrator very often and I take long breaks after using it.
I've also noticed a G-spot orgasm feels different and less intense than a clitoral orgasm. None of my orgasms are ever very intense unless it's g-spot and clitoral simultaneously, which is rare. ???????
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Originally posted by intensecity View Post
I think that's probably a major reason why I haven't tried to put in effort to orgasm by myself or with someone else because I am too lazy to want to put it in the time in getting myself to....I figured it would take @ least more than an hour to get there especially @ the first time.... ;-x
I'm reading The Sexual Self now which is really insightful on the psychological urges with sex. Depending on your sexual archetype, you'll have specific desires and triggers that will make it easier for you to climax.
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Cheerio wow, that's deep and thank you for sharing your personal experience.
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& that's not even all of the story. I've lived an interesting life, but it's all made me who I am. No regrets.
I think if a lot of men weren't so into themselves, they could learn a lot by listening to us.
I hope to find someone who asks me questions instead of assuming. There's nothing wrong with sitting down & listening to what a woman has to say.
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You say black men do not like to lick (oral), I ENJOY IT!! Actually it us one of the few things I make sure we do, BEFORE having sex, besides raising her expectations, knowing when to caress scratch or nibble (pay attention to her body as it reacts to different stimuli) this can go on for a couple hours, and I will still happily enjoy blue balls.
Why because I know the next time (unless she is selfish, cultural taboos about enjoying or hung up on too many porn movies), she us willing to reciprocate the giving...
Makes for intensive time. Yes we men sometimes, not all the time have a one tract mind (squeeze the breasts, and make beeline to the 101). I also ask if she fantasies about sex and positions.
Knowing her as much before actually taking the dipstick to measure.
If she is relax and is COMFORTABLE, she will normally orgasm (maybe some TAC wisdom help)
CM
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You say black men do not like to lick (oral), I ENJOY IT!! Actually it us one of the few things I make sure we do, BEFORE having sex, besides raising her expectations, knowing when to caress scratch or nibble (pay attention to her body as it reacts to different stimuli) this can go on for a couple hours, and I will still happily enjoy blue balls.
Why because I know the next time (unless she is selfish, cultural taboos about enjoying or hung up on too many porn movies), she us willing to reciprocate the giving...
Makes for intensive time. Yes we men sometimes, not all the time have a one tract mind (squeeze the breasts, and make beeline to the 101). I also ask if she fantasies about sex and positions.
Knowing her as much before actually taking the dipstick to measure.
If she is relax and is COMFORTABLE, she will normally orgasm (maybe some TAC wisdom help)
CM
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Originally posted by ChocolateMarshmallow View PostYou say black men do not like to lick (oral), I ENJOY IT!! Actually it us one of the few things I make sure we do, BEFORE having sex, besides raising her expectations, knowing when to caress scratch or nibble (pay attention to her body as it reacts to different stimuli) this can go on for a couple hours, and I will still happily enjoy blue balls.
Why because I know the next time (unless she is selfish, cultural taboos about enjoying or hung up on too many porn movies), she us willing to reciprocate the giving...
Makes for intensive time. Yes we men sometimes, not all the time have a one tract mind (squeeze the breasts, and make beeline to the 101). I also ask if she fantasies about sex and positions.
Knowing her as much before actually taking the dipstick to measure.
If she is relax and is COMFORTABLE, she will normally orgasm (maybe some TAC wisdom help)
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Originally posted by siren View Post
I do agree that men feel a bit let down or a blow to their ego if the person they're having sex with doesn't have an orgasm. But I also think that men don't know what female orgasms really look like.
Orgasms are more of a sensation. Ejaculation (cumming) is different. Most women don't ejaculate.
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Originally posted by ChocolateMarshmallow View PostYou say black men do not like to lick (oral), I ENJOY IT!! Actually it us one of the few things I make sure we do, BEFORE having sex, besides raising her expectations, knowing when to caress scratch or nibble (pay attention to her body as it reacts to different stimuli) this can go on for a couple hours, and I will still happily enjoy blue balls.
Why because I know the next time (unless she is selfish, cultural taboos about enjoying or hung up on too many porn movies), she us willing to reciprocate the giving...
Makes for intensive time. Yes we men sometimes, not all the time have a one tract mind (squeeze the breasts, and make beeline to the 101). I also ask if she fantasies about sex and positions.
Knowing her as much before actually taking the dipstick to measure.
If she is relax and is COMFORTABLE, she will normally orgasm (maybe some TAC wisdom help)
CM
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Originally posted by Vicki Lee View Post
How old are you? It must be a generational thing because... LOL idk whats going on out here with these dudes and the Oral sex double standards.
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Originally posted by intensecity View PostI am surprised that there has been no post made in this sub forum, but I guess it's up to me to take one for the team in devirginizing this area.... I hope this topic isn't too offensive....If it is, let me know or just delete the topic....I will understand with no hard feelings....
I started having sex before I turned 20 + been masturbating for years before that as of a young kid.... Through all of my sexual experiences including solo ones, I don't think I actually had an orgasm.... If orgasm means cumming.... I am not saying I never enjoy it because I have thoroughly many many times before....I don't think I have ever orgasmed if it involves cumming....I never came.... But, then when i think of it, I don't think I felt an orgasm where it's earth-shattering or how it's been described.... I have just enjoyed it so much to where I feel satisfied without needing something to come out of my body.... Over the years, I have grown comfortable to the fact that I don't need to cum nor orgasm to enjoy sex, but there has been a few men that I have been with who seemed to have feel some kinda way that I don't cum or orgasm thinking it's because the sex wasn't good enough..... Any of you are like me?
I feel like an awkward teenager who doesn't know about sex instead of a 36 year old that I am.... I did happen to just read something online that says cumming + orgasm is different....
I hope I made sense, btw.... A large part of me doesn't feel ashamed that I am lacking in this department, but a tiny part does....;-x
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I don't know if there are any rule against posting this, so I won't directly post it. But if a man doesn't make my body to this, I DO NOT want him & I will never marry, LOL --
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Poor girl looked so confused, like "wtf, again?!"
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Originally posted by Cheerio View PostI don't know if there are any rule against posting this, so I won't directly post it. But if a man doesn't make my body to this, I DO NOT want him & I will never marry, LOL --
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Poor girl looked so confused, like "wtf, again?!"
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